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thanks i needed to read some inspirational stuff
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no.....she made it like she called me by accident and she texted me that....i just dont het if it is over why bother texting me anything saying please for give me or text me a smiley face after i say "no problem" in my text very confusing.....
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After 6 days....i see her calling wasnt able to pick it up and wasnt sure what to do...I called her back and she didnt answer...I was like"ok?" i get a text immediately......"so sorry i was dialing my mom please forgive me" i play it cool and text back "no problem" she immediately texts me " " Her mom's number isnt close to mine and it is not close to in her phonebook...so whats your guys opinion?
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oh I FORGOT to mention that her brother got invovled at our last fight since he has told me she had ameltdown that day at her lawyers. so now i think he has told her to chill.....and now she seems to be doing it.....him and i are good friends so that adds to it
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Its been three days I want her back now!!!
kickedin replied to losing_my_love's topic in Breaking Up Advice
dude she smokes weed...been theredonethat they quit on their own not because of someone else....i know it is hard..but if your not a druggie then move on -
thanks......i guess i should just let he rknow i am here if she needs anything and i may just tell her she was right all along about needing her time...
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now if i could just get her to say that to me.....lol i just hate watching days go by knowing i miss her hoping she misses me...but ifeel like the pride is killing us because i did tell her i have t move on and then she said yes you should so i originally said i was moving on from the mess.....but in hopes of making her realize what her instability is doing and now that it has been 6 days its killing me....although she is the one who asked for her space for awhile....i guess i was accepting crumbs....i was/am he closest person in her life.....so it kills me not to talk to her and i dont know when or how is the right time to even say hey
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thank you......i know she doesnt want to make another bad choice....and right now her confidence in her own deciisons is light.....i will wait until next wednesday...which is 2 weeks since we last spoke and i i will send her a thinking of you card.....just sign it to and from....so that she knows she can respond if she wants and it is nothing heavy so she knows i am not expecting a full blown relationship again...it would just be nice for her to email me and say "hey babe i love you and i just want to finalize this divorce but i hope you are there waiting for me in the end because you are the one i want" that would be suffice for me after what we shared.......
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it has been 6 days and i dont understand why this is becoming harder... i know hse has to deal witht his divorce but for some reason i feel like if i dont call her she may take solace in another guy.....i know my emotions right?
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they got together soon after and it didnt she wound up marrying some guy and now(10 years) they are together(my friends ex husband and his old flame)
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your saying i should romance a chick who is still going thru a divorce?
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i have never been divorced...have another friend whose ex did that to her after their divoce...... i have come to the conclusion...no matter how great you are to someone going through a divorce will cloud their judgement
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lol......i just feel like i want her to chase me since shes the one who always says she needs her space...but i feel like if i just let her go totally i will regret that until too much time has passed and things may happen that i wont get over.....and i dont play games i just want to know that i am what she definitely wants...maybe by sending her a card low key will open that door
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yeah sounds good...the cocktail napkin is great but knowing her....she may wonder who i was there with as it is a romantic place...
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tell her asap...you may never know.....i was best friends......it lasted four years after i talked.........my bad i never proposed
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oh i know shes know my cologne...but what if she thinks her clown husband sent it...lol
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i told her i couldnt take it anymore and i needed to move on that i loved her so much but if it isnt working and we are on diferent pages then what? she tells me the same thing back in a long email and says move on so...even though we had a bad fight i iniated the moving on...she confirmed it and it has been since thursday...and i feel like i want to drop her a card or email just to let her know i am thinking about her because i do love her.....but it is tough to not do it
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true....just seem to have a hard accepting that since she pulls me to that side of moving forward then jumps back to....ooohhhh i need my space i get jammed up....and when i give her the space we wind up together agian because we miss eachother so much.....dam divorces take forever
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i know we have a strong love but...she is a roller coaster of emotions that i hate.....one minute it is i love you like i have never loved anyone else the next it is we are not a good match.....
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a lot more to my story...but here goes been datin this girl for a year or so...she was going through a divorce....things got hot and heavy fast fell in love all that jazz......over the course of the year we had our incidents mostly she said she needed her own time because she was always with somone so she would try i would try for the space and we would wind up together again...after a few big fights lately...mostly over seeing indifferences about where we were...why she needed her space......i mean she was buying wedding books and trying on engagment rings and so on....granted this may sound weird because she isnt divorced yet but hey we were together for a year.....we havent talked since thursday and its killing me.....i know i need her to come to me and i think this break is good so she can sort her divorce out which should be final with the month or so.....and i need to know if when we got together that i wasnt filling in the void ...and i hope she isnt out looking for another thing.....i wish could say more but i am pressed for time....thanks guys