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This is gonna seem like a really strange topic but, it's true. I think one of my ex's is jealous of me !! I was in the town centre on my lunch hour the other day with my guy friend who was holding my hand (just as friends) when I bumped into one of my ex's. He just kinda gave my guy mate a look and said Hi and carried on walking! So I went back to work, and after work I was meetin up with a different guy friend who lives in my street who was giving me a lift home. So when I met him, I gave him a peck on the cheek to say thanks for the lift, and who was walking by again, MY EX!! So I gets home and I have like 3 text messages from my ex, asking who the guys were and what I've been upto and stuff. I explained that they were just mates, that I had a kinda boyfriend who I was on a break with. I then go onto MSN. My ex starts to talk to me online. My display picture is of me and my 3 best mates (1 girl and 2 lads with me)..the guys had their arms around us on the photo. So my ex goes all defensive saying that I shouldn't let guy mates put their arms around me !!! I just ignored this comment! He then asks who else I am talking to online. I was like oh you, two girl mates and a guy mate. He wanted to know every detail about this guy mate. I told my girl mate and she was like "Ok, he's either gay or jealous". Then he starts to say he has a date with this girl we both know who likes him (poor girl!!). He kept trying to get a reaction out of me but all I said was ooh that's good, have a nice time! So when he didn't get a reaction, he went offline! Is this HIM trying to make ME jealous? Is HE jealous of ME? I am utterly confused but find this whole thing hilarious!! Any in sight??
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Think carefull about what you'll say to her, because if you two do get back together, her mum is ALWAYS going to be there. But also, if you really love this girl, then you've gotta respect her mum, don't go telling her that she's impossible or arguing with her, because girls love their mothers, and this WILL turn her mum against you even more, which will turn away the girl. So be careful. Good luck whatever happens.
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I'm sorry But i REALLY can't get over it...
xblondyx replied to Moopem's topic in Healing After Break Up or Divorce
Awww hun, I know it's hard when you break up with someone you really love. It's happened to me. It really broke my heart, felt that I couldn't go on. If there truly is no possibility of you two getting back together, you'll just have to cope. I know it's hard but there is no other way. And Myspace is bad for trying to get over someone. Don't look at it. You may see something you don't want to and it will make the situation ten times worse. I say, go NC. Don't phone him, e-mail him, anything. Delete any photos you have of him, anything you have that belongs to him--> move out of your view. Take this break up as a time to be yourself again, go out and do new things or something you enjoy that you haven't done for a while. Hang out with your friends. Forget him. Like I said, I know it's hard. Good luck -
Well guys, it looks like it is COMPLETELY over between me and the now ex bf! We maintained NC...but aren't gonna get back together after it. Maybe this is for the best...I do love him to bits and miss him lots but if he's gonna treat me the way he is then he's not worth it! I deserve better. So this is me starting to try and get over him. I'm gonna go out and have fun! If he gets in touch with me I dunno what I'll do. Ignore him or reply, who knows. I'll do whatever I like, he's ignored me so why can't I! I feel free, obviously I'm gutted but it's a big step for me. Right now I just wanna be single and have fun. I'm sick of relationships because they NEVER work out for me. Wish me good luck
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Thanks for your advice
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About 2 weeks, then we talk and see what's gonna happen....ground rules are that we don't contact each other at all until these 2 weeks are over.
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So, me and my boyfriend (ex now I guess are on a break. This started last week. He wants us to do complete NC for a few weeks to give each other some space. I've been sticking to NC now for 6 days but I am finding it sooo hard! I miss him loads! To top it off, I don't think we'll get back together after these few weeks. I don't know what I'm gonna do I can't imagine my life without him! Then, today a friend of mine asked me out, and I DON'T like him that way, but he was really nervous asking me and I felt so bad I said we'll see what happens after these few weeks because I'm still really upset over the break up and that I just need some alone time. He understood and said he wants us to get to know each other better, even if it's hanging out as friends. I don't want this I wan't my baby back but he seems fine without me but I'm dying inside, it's killing me not being able to speak to him but I don't think he even cares Vent over
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Gonna try. He just text me actually, because he saw a comment on my myspace about me being happy and he thought I was happy cos I wasn't with him. I explained why then he didn't reply so I text back saying NC again, i do love u, remember that, talk to you soon. i miss him
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We kinda talked but mainly it was just about how much he loved me but needs space...we are having a 1 month break - no contact or anything - so its not just for the guy's weekend..i doubt we'll get back together either, he'll forget me. Although, I was just on myspace and I found a quiz thing that he completed the day we stopped talking and basically he told everyone how much he loved me that makes me a bit happier but I miss him, I'm not gonna last a month.
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It had been but, he ignored me even more then said we should have a break...
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too late, broke up
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Things aren't back to normal though..he still hasn't got his phone back. So now, I won't speak to him until sometime next week because he's away with the guy's this weekend... He logged into MSN an hour ago, I said hello, he still hasn't said a thing back to me gosh I'm sooo confused!!
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Already sorted it..he's gonna get about 20 text messages when he gets his phone back hehe...sent him one apologising saying I didn't mean anything I said I was just annoyed, upset and missing him. I miss him now. I haven't had a proper conversation with him since 6 October and it's now 11 October..he goes away for the weekend aswel so I don't wanna interrupt his guys weekend...but its our anniversary on Sunday (he probs doesn't know). Has anyone ever gone this long not talking to their bf before? I haven't...it seems really strange
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Well I did text him ending it, which he hasn't got yet because he STILL hasn't got his phone back! So he didn't know that. But I love him and don't wanna lose him so we are still kinda together I think..I really dunno cos I've hardly spoken to him! He's never been like this before. Ever! He's just emailed me apologising for not being in touch and said he's gonna make it up to me and come and see me soon "Baby I am sooo sorry. I know I should have been in touch, I've just been so busy with essays and was going to e-mail you but you got a new e-mail address and I didn't know it. I would have rang you off Ben's phone but I didn't know your number either. You don't know how sorry I am. I'm gonna make it up to you babe, I'm gonna come and see you as soon as poss and treat you like the most special princess that you are. Because you are the most special most I've ever met. I love you so much." That's what he said
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I know I did ask him all of this but he just snapped and said he has a life, he was busy and now he's just shut up
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Yeah he said he left it there, and his friend went home until tonight so he couldn't get into his friends flat to get it. This meant he didn't have my number with him to call me or anything. And his laptop is getting repaired at a computer shop. THe only way he's been able to get online is at uni, but has been busy doing work and didn't realise I was online. That's what he told me anyway. Sound true?
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Left his mobile in his friends flat and then didn't realise I was online...should I believe him?
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Well, I've spoken to him, got it al sorted kind of, he now knows how hard he has to work for my forgiveness!!!! Thanks for all of the help people x
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Na that's just a bit sneaky...it would seemlike I don't trust him and I do. I just don't get why he's not been in touch. Though I did speak to his friend and apparently my bf will be i touch soon :S
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These 4 days have been the absolute worst ever =[ and I know it won't be over for a while! Some of you may have read my previous post: Anyway, it's now been 4 days since he's been in contact and it's killing me!! Nobody has any idea of why he's doing this! He's STILL ignoring me on myspace - though he still has "In A Relationship" as his status and I'm still on his top list, which he would have changed straight away if he believed we were over (he's like that lol). He's online RIGHT NOW. And ignoring me I believe he's blocked me on MSN (not sure though but he's normally on a lot and he's not been on at all). I've talked it through with one of his friends and he said that it seems strange but he doesn't have a clue about why he's doing this. But his friend wants us to get through this cos apparently we "make a good couple". Its driving me CRAZY. No texts, no messages online, he doesn't answer my phone calls maybe this is his way of breaking up with me, just cutting contact? He is a coward if that's what he is doing. Maybe i'm just reading too much into it though, maybe he just hasn't had time...but 4 days ARGH! Rant over!
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It's killing me though he's online on Myspace now and ignoring me
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I dunno...the last thing he said to me was "you hate me don't you" and then nothing =[ so i'm so confused I don't know what to do!
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Yeah he's fine, he's been online, on myspace talking to his friends, at a party with people that I know and they've been asking about us and I'm all like "well I dunno i haven't spoken to him" and our friend is lke "oh well he seemed fine at the party". I know it's probably just because he has no credit on his phone, but still, h could answer when I phone him or reply on MSN/Myspace
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Nope didn't have an argument. Everything was fine on Thurs day time, he was amazing to me =[ then nothing....
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Argh these past few days have been sooo unbelievebly hard, upsetting and confusing but finally i've done it. I've ended the long distance relationship with my boyfriend He's been ignoring me since Thursday night which didn't help then along with many other things i've heard from people, I just got tipped over the edge. I text him (the only way I could since he doesn't live near me and he's ignoring my phone calls) and told him that he' not being fair, that it's not a proper relationship when it's all one sided and that if he wants to change my mind he's gonna have to try very hard because I'm not happy at the moment. I love him so much and I can't believe I've did this but it's for the best right?