pete137

point remains the same. Thanks mathman

as previously said...too sensitive. I told you that I do not make such claim as to know all of them. I said the reasons that I have come to 3%. you are only reading what you want, not what I have written. and if you had a friend whos husband ran off on her and he got the clap you would laugh, dont lie. thats the reason i said about her friend.

that is not a personal attack, too sensitive

FEMINAZIS, knew they would be the first to attack. Check into who is the first to initiate divorce proceedings the overwhelming preponderance of the time. I suppose that is because all the men did terrible things. As a matter of interest I got 3 percent going by people I know. Of 22 couples, 20 have divorced with the woman initiating the divorce 17 of the 20 times. Take that as you will, I know it is not "scientific". These couples are of assorted races and socioeconomic backgrrounds.

Another thing, One of her "girls" , of whom I suspect of putting the idea of "someone better" in her head was recently nearly beaten and strangled to death by her newfound "love of her life" I can still hear myself telling my ex that the grass is not always greener on the other side.

Igirl, you do not know thre percent of the female population in the world, this I am sure

.1 never said it is fact .2 it is not all inclusive, I said 97% .3 over 10 years of work experience dealing with these things

For everyone on here that hopes for karma to make them feel better, you will love this. My ex left me in April of 2005 after almost 12 years together. Out of nowhere she had just said that she "wanted to be alone", she would not elaborate on whatever she was viewing as a problem, which I guess was me. I and my entire family had cared for this woman and treated her with love and respect that it seems every woman is looking for. We trusted her fully. Shortly after we separated (I lived with my brother for 2 months) she was a mean, viscious and callous Bi**h, would say terrible things, one in particular was that "she wants someone better". I have not seen her since August, when in her craziness she tried threatening me with a restraining order. Heres the best part, I just seen her, she has put on about 40 pounds, looks like hell on earth and was whining at me about how she has been treated so terribly by everyone and that I am the best. I know I am bitter, and I do find this funny because it seems rampant amongst about 97% of the female population. They get what they (alledgedly) are looking for, then they have to find something better. Seems that most feel this is their prerogative. Anyhow, I thought this may cheer up some guys, I felt like hell myself until I seen her, thought I had done something wrong, strange how things come around. HAPPY HAPPY JOY JOY

how many people have either experienced the regret themself or know someone who has after that person suddenly ended a long (12 years) relationship because "there must be someone better out there"? does karma really exist, i am tending to doubt it, call me bitter but this is the only form of redemption i can see possible. that the one leaving for no good reason ends up worse off. look for ward to your replies.

damn, i am paddling the same boat as you, only i was with her for almost 12 years. she did the same thing . i havent heard from her but still think about her 8 months later. i have beat myself up thinking what i did but cannot find it. will never know i guess.

#1 problem. you are in a bar, these places are like a fresh pile of cow crap, all the flies migrate there and reproduce. "you dont go to taco bell and order lobster"

man, this has got my story in it. the woman i was with for almost 12 years just up and left and now acts as the rest of you are saying. she treats me like i did something terrible. this after she initiated sex with me and was saying she loves me.

i can relate to what you are saying. i thought a quick "fling" would work out, wrong. it was like shooting pool with a rope

as wolfpack said, this will be as big an act ot treason to your race as can be commited. some liberal types think this is all good but think of it realistically. a white woman with a black guy is considered contaminated by any self respecting white man. if races were meant to be mixed why are we different at all? small minded im not, realistic i am.

BIRDMAN i know exactly what you are saying, its been 7 months and 8 days for me. it has gotten a little easier but i sure as hell havent forgotten and dont think i ever will. i know what your saying about "do other things" "keep busy", hard to do other things when this is all thats on your mind. a little better when im with others but as soon as im taking a shower or going to bed, anytime alone i think of her...too much. i have no answers but i do know exactly the feelings that you are sharing. terrible to say but i think it would have been easier to deal with if she had been killed in a car crash, not just left.