Cody Smith

My wife has told me that she dose like them thicker and a little longer than me. I work around this with toys. But i do know that she would secretly like to have a big one in the fresh.

I use a condom with my wife because she dosnt like the "leaking"

Sounds like your clit really needs to be almost over-stimulted. Try to go as long as you can without it. Maybe you can regain some feeling in your clit....this is very interesting!

Not a girl...sorry I have heard that a good vibrator is like a drug addiction. Once you get used to it, it can be hard to kick the habbit. Funny...you dont like oral...but love the vib...are you using the vib on your clit or inter-vaginal?

Ask him if he finds it hard being around all the pretty girls. This may open the door for him to say..."just you"

Have you seen what he looks like?

But I do have to say..that I get really mixxed signals. She masterbates 1-2 times a week..which she lies to me about...I know because she masterbates with a softball that she grids into her clit....I can tell when she has "used the ball". I think its great..I dont know why she cant tell me....I dont ask that offen anyway. I may have gone a little over baord with the ever night. If she not into she can just ask for a pass.... Im not a complete jerk-off

I do understand what has been said..thanks!

We have been married 13 yrs. The last 8 have really seen a decline in the quality of sex. She has never had an orgasum threw sex...just masterbation, and I understand some woman cant We have had several heart felt conversation about this topic. Most recently she addmitted to haveing 95% no sex drive. The sex we do have which is almost every night is just to "get me off" She has agreed to have sex when ever I want it as long as she can just lay there. I have always had a very strong drive. I like toys, new things, long foreplay, body contact, the whole deal. In the past when I have had a new dildo to try to spice things up a bit she would complain its to hard, its too cold ect.. So 4 weeks ago I got a rubber inflatable 8 inch dildo. At first she was "what ever!" She did masterbate with it inside her to orgasum. I do not move it in or out, I just hold it all the way in while she rubs her clit. She said it was "ok". ( She masterbates about once a week w/ me) I have now used it on her a few times and she is diffanantly haveing stronger and longer orgsums. For the first time the other day after she had cum I started to pump her with it. Slowly in and out and I could tell she was getting hot. ( Remember this is from a lady who has told me she has almost no sex drive.) The kids started acting up so we had to stop. The next time I used it again on her. She got on all four and I worked it in and out of her. She was liking it and said this may make me cum! She asked me to stop and to hop on her and cum myself. ( I had to go to work) While I was inside her and thrusting I asked if it felt better w/ the big dildo or myself. She said they feel differant. I asked again which one she liked better? She said the big one and was embarssed. I told her not to feel bad! She asked me why I wanted to do this to her? I said do what? She replied " make me like bigger penises, I like yours the way it is now" I told her I just wanted her to get more out of sex. If you can cum from the big one maybe you will get your drive back. Can any wifes relate to this? Dose anyone thank this is bad? I would love some help on this.