Hi I'm new to these forums, and sort of stumbled upon them on a google search looking for help with a problem. I read over a lot of the posts and found that people weren't judging or making fun of problems...so I have some orgasm questions I would like to field to the other women on the forums
To start, I am a phyically healthy 27 year old female. I do suffer from schizophrenia, but am happily married and lead a very VERY active sex life. I was raised in a ...not so normal family... and was never really told about sex, except that it was bad, so I made it my life's work to have as much as possible. I lost my virginity at 12, and have had an over-active sex life up to the point where I had my first child at age 19.
Now I am in a very happy, monogamous marriage. I had my first ORGASM with this man at age 24...I must have been very very repressed. Up until that point I had tried everything for sexual satisfaction...heavy B&D S&M, experiementing with just about every fetish imaginable, etc...but could never achieve orgasm. In fact, not KNOWING about what an orgasm really was or felt like, I thought I was having "orgasms" up to that point when what I realize it was now was that point right before you have an orgasm when frustration is at its highest.
Well, now I can orgasm...however, only with a vibrator Oral, fingers, sex, etc just does absolutely...nothing. In fact, I would go so far as to say a good back massage would bring me more pleasure than oral sex I am almost positive this is 100% mental, but can't be sure.. I wish I could come to orgasm with oral sex or just by touching myself...but nothing works except my vibrator Is that "okay"? Does anyone have any suggestions for being able to orgasm without a vibrator?? Not that *I* mind it..but my husband I know is getting bored with the whole having to sit there and watch me masturbate for an hour before we have sex every single time.
My other question, is why I searched on google to begin with..Like I said, I had my first orgasm at age 24. Until tonight, I've only had 2, or three maximum orgasms in a row. Well the past two nights, I've been feeling horny out of my mind. My husband...not so horny. So last night I masturbated...and had 5 orgasms in a row. Tonight I felt frisky again and decided "what the hell" and kept going...and going...and going. I had SEVEN orgasms under an hour. Afterwards I went into the bathroom and wiped up and there was blood Now another fact is that I have been on the Depo Provera shot for 7 years straight. I don't bleed. I don't have any periods or any spotting to speak of. So I am wondering if I could have hurt something up there from having 7 orgasms in under an hour?? It didn't hurt or anything...but it has me a little worried lol So any advice would be appreciated. I honestly don't know that much about women's sexual functions to say what is normal and what isn't..but I assume 7 orgasms in an hour might be considered excessive lol
Thanks...