CybereXtremer
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Break-up Song thats has the POWERFUL lyrics
CybereXtremer replied to nychick's topic in Getting Back Together
These lyrics to the song Release are very powerful i see the world feel the truth which way to go windowsill i see the words on a rocking horse of time i see the birds in the rain oh dear dad can you see me now i am myself like you somehow i'll ride the wave where it takes me i'll hold the pain release me oh dear dad can you see me now i am myself like you somehow i'll wait up in the dark for you to speak to me i'll open up release me release me release me release me -
I sent her an email on Wednesday afternoon and she replied on Thursday morning. I have listed my email and her replay below. Now, she has never said we are breaking up or made that clear, but she did say she needed time in her note. So, review her email and let me know what your interpretation is. I am not going to give you my opinion because I want an unbiased opinion. My email: H, Good afternoon H! Hope everything is going well. How did your class go last week? Was it what you expected? I know you were very excited to teach it. Anyway, would you check and see if my TV cable terminator tool is at your house? It was in a plastic ziploc bag with some terminators and a cable cutter. The tools actually belong to a friend and he needs them for a cabling job. Let me know if you find them. Take Care J P.S. - If you get a chance and want to meet over lunch let me know. Her Reply: J - Things are okay, but I'm more stressed than ever (guess you know by now, this is a problem for me). Honestly, in sum, my "nerves" are very bad, contributing to my moodiness, and as a result, I continue to struggle with personal life issues. I'm in counseling and hope that it will be helpful. I know things will be better when I finish teaching this course since it has added a ton of work to my plate and consumes a significant portion of my time. I really enjoy teaching, though. I also have some medical problems right now which cause me discomfort and additional stress (possibly organ damage from accident they're now finding), and I've been very sick since Thursday and can't seem to catch up. I teach again tonight, am unprepared, and have no energy. Sorry for complaining...you don't need to hear this! I guess I'm sharing because I know you care, and because I want you to understand that I am sorry that I haven't been in contact and have no intention to neglect our friendship which is very important to me, but have been more overwhelmed than usual. I would like to catch up over lunch sometime, just don't know when it will work until I get through the semester (end of June). I spend lunch working. Glad to hear things are going well for you - ball is going okay, shoulder is causing no pain, bathroom done, etc. Hope things continue to go well for you!!!!! Will return the tools as soon as I locate them (I'm sure I've seen them). Take care of you! H I am interested in hearing everyones opinion on what she had to say in her note. Thanks Cyber
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Girlfriend no longer in love????
CybereXtremer replied to fIIsion's topic in Ex-boyfriend/girlfriend Relationships
I am going through a similar situation at the moment. Except my gf hasn't said anything about breaking up or anything. She hasn't even tried to initiate any contact, but is seeing a counselor. My gf was on the Atkins diet for about a month when she began to have similar changes in her personality. I did some research on the internet regarding the Atkins diet and found that it can cause mood swings and depression. The limiting of certaion foods causes a decrease in the amount of ceratonin the brain creates. Ceratonin is responsible for your moods. I am not saying this is the cause, but maybe she is showing signs of depression. I don't know what is going on with my gf counseling sessions due to limited communications, but I am hopeful that it is helping her. Maybe you just need to give her some space and let her work through whatever she is going through. It's not you, it's her. She is going to have to figure out what she wants. Just start using NC to give her some space and see what happens. She may just need a little time to adjust to her new found freedoms. Keep you chin up because you never know what might be around the corner. These are just my thoughts. -
I sent an email today asking for the tool and if she would like to schedule some time to meet. I didn't ask for my other stuff. I will now wait and see what her response is. Will she want to meet? I think she will. The more intriguing issue will be if she just wants to return the tool or if she wants to return all my stuff. I will keep everyone posted.
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If you need more background into the matter read my post in the Ex forum section. Also, just before she stopped communicating with me she gave me a set of keys to her place. Go figure?
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So it would be better to send an email and ask for all my stuff back or just the stuff I need.
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Recently my gf decided she needed time to figure things out with her life. So, out of the blue she just stops contacting me for now reason. Leaving me in limbo of not knowing where our relationship stands. I have had limited contact for the past month. I have been using NC for most of that time period to give her space. I was hoping to meet her in person to discuss our situation. The only time I can contact her is when she is at work. I don't think I should discuss our relationship in an email or over the phone while she is at work. I still have stuff at her place, but she hasn't made any effort to return it. Now, one of my friends is asking about some tools I borrowed from him to do some work at my gf house. So, I ask, should I send an email or phone asking for my friends tool or all my stuff. Should I push for a face to face meeting? How should I approach this situation? Thanks in advance for any opinions.
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Butterfly, I was sending her text messages, but she never returned them. We were suppose to meet a few weeks back, but she cancelled because she got an appointmet with a counselor. She has initiated contact since she left the note. I spoke with her last week to see about getting together and talking and she said she had been meaning to call, but there was never an opportune time. I think she could have made the time if she wanted. She wanted to meet 2 wks after the call, which would be today, but I am going to be out of town. So, she said we will play it by ear. So, I left it in her hands, but I have no idea why she is NC'ing unless she feels guilty, scared or is really getting help. If she is getting help she might not want to talk to me because it might involve her feelings into wwhat she is working out. Wouldn't you think out of respect she would tell me what is going on. She never said we were breaking up or anything. Pretty much what was in the note. The only time I am able to contact her is at work and I don't want to discuss this over the phone and while she is at work. I don't want her to break down at work. So, I am at a loss. Thanks Butterflycloud
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I didn't contact her yesterday to wish her good luck with teaching her class last night. I am going to continue NC until she contacts me. I don't want to wait to long, because I want to get my stuff back. I don't know if she is feeling guilty, scared or if she is really getting help and using this time. I don't know why people can't move past playing these high school games. Just tells us what you are thinking and move on. The world is not going to end because you are going to break up with us. I am continuing to live my life and if she contacts me she might be in for a big surprise.
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Well, if anybody is curious I didn't contact her.
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I need some advice on whether to break NC. My relaitionship with my girlfriend is in limbo. I don't know if we are breaking up or what. She just needs some time to think about things. She will begin teaching a graduate class on Thursday. This is a new opportunity for her and she was very excited when she told me about it. I am thinking of sending her a text message wishing her good luck with her class. I have no problem continuing NC, but I'm worried she might think I don't care anymore. Any suggestions on what to do?
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I need some advice on whether to break NC. She will begin teaching a graduate class on Thursday. This is a new opportunity for her and she was very excited when she told me about it. I am thinking of sending her a text message wishing her good luck with her class. I have no problem continuing NC, but I'm worried she might think I don't care anymore. Any suggestions on what to do?
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She hasn't tried to contact me in over a month. She hasn't told me we are breaking up. I still have stuff at her house. Do women normally act like this? Come on ladies help me out. Is it over and she is afraid to tell me or is she taking her time sorting things out?
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detox, thanks for the support. Talking with friends and writing my thoughts in this forum has helped me a lot in the past few weeks. I've started moving on due to the lack of respect. I'm going out and doing things like I used to before we started going out. I'm just waiting for the finality of the situation to happen next week. I've concluded that things are over and she has probably just been stringing me along. I just wish people could be more mature and stop playing high school games. All I need is to get my stuff back and it's on to bigger and better things.
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My girlfriend and I have been dating for about five months. Everything was going great until around St. Patrick's day. Out of the blue she says she needs to see someone (counselor) because she doesn't know where she is right now. She dropped off an Easter basket full of stuff at my house with a note inside. The note reads as follows: Love The Rabbit P.S. - You are, without a doubt, the most special and valuable person I've ever been fortunate enough to share time with. I'm very sorry and saddened that things aren't the way I'd like them to be right now, but I'm confident that with time I'll work through this process. I wish you endless happiness - thanks so much for you. We have had limited communication for about a month. I've been trying to give her some space to work out her issues. Since she is not trying to contact me does that mean she is breaking up with me? I've been doing NC to a point, but I have no idea what is going on in our relationship. What are women thinking when they write notes like this and say the things that they do?