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  1. Funny story about when I first said it to my boyfriend. We went away for a weekend, walking down the street to our hotel, he's eating something and says '' I %$££&^**&^. I was like ''I love you too. He turns to me and says, '' thats not what I said.'' At this point my heart is falling through my body and I think my brain went into to crisis mode where I tend to shut off and laugh stuff off, but inside I was dying. I didn't hear what he said cause his mouth was full of food but to this day I swear that was what he said or what my brain wanted me to hear. Anyway, he says '' thats not what I said but its like that anyway even if I dont say it( still not relieved, he still hasn't said it back to me) . We get to the hotel eat, fall asleep, in the dark when he thought I'd fallen asleep he starts to brush my forehead and says,'' I care for you and love you so much, you have no idea but I do love you an dthen he turns and goes to bed. I just layed there still with a smile on my face. Months have passed and he still doenst know that I heard him but now he does say it to me occasionally but I still remember the first time..
  2. You want to know how you know when you're in love, I'll tell you. Its when the person you're with shows that they care, you feel the same way, they treat you with respect and vice versa, all the good stuff and when the irritate the life out of you making you want to snap their neck sometimes and you still couldn't see life without them anyway! Maybe its just me but thats how I feel.lol
  3. My boyfriend likes anal alot!!!!!!!! I don't know why. I just do it with him because. I do enjoy it sometimes but not all the time, especially when its dry down there it can hurt a little. I asked him if he thinks that its possible that he's an as* man and he says no. He says that he likes it as much as a vagina and that he would be mad to even go past my vagina. Sometimes though he only wants anal sex which really bugs me cause I LOVE vaginal sex. I think the appeal of anal is that its tight and primal too. There's nothing wrong with it as long as you take precausions but this guy you're talking about sound a little on the bi side of life! As a male friend told me once,'' How can you deny liking a warm sexy, hot vagina just waiting to be taken''
  4. I wanted to know what was the most cringworthy sex moment anyone has ever had. Here goes mine, My boyfriend and I had only been sleeping together for a couple weeks at the time so I dont like to sleep over cause his little brother lived at the house with him. I usually leave in the middle of the night. Anyway, this time I decided to stay til morning cause none of us had work the next day. We wake up in the morning and start fooling around. I think his brother must have thought that I'd left because in he walks to find his brother going down on me ( in the 69 position) in his parents bed ( they dont live there but come to visit on weekends) . Its as if it all happened in slow motion: I remember the door opening and his penis falling from my mouth and his brother just looking at his brother's face in my vagina in horror and then he turns and leaves the room. You know the term 'deer in headlights' I must have looked just like that deer my Aunt almost ran over when I used to live in Canada. I want to know if anyone experienced anything like or worst than this!!!!!!!!! Don't be ashamed start posting! LOL
  5. I don't know what to tell you but that sounds serious. My bf and I do it atleast once a day (rabbits) He cant help himself and neither can I ,lol. We've been together a year now and things are still hot 'n' heavy. Maybe you guys should try to rekindle what you guys had in the beginning. I dont know, maybe it might help.
  6. My boyfriend very rarley does it without me there. He always wants me watch. He also loves to watch me do it. He curls up in a corner of the room and promises to be very silent so he can watch me do it! He came home one day with a gift box and when I opened it, he had gotten me one of the hugest vibrators I'd ever seen. I use it with him there but I put it under the sheet so he can see my reaction but he has no idea what I'm doing with it, his eyes open really wide like a child going to a themepark for the first time, its amazing!
  7. Exaggerate: (verb) regard or represent as larger or greater than is true. Over exaggeration at its best: when bragging about sex! She's lying, if they did it for that long they would both be really sore! Me and my boyfriend usually do it for 1hr max and rest and then again but not continuously. The only times we ever go for maybe 1 1/2 hr- 2, is when he's completely stoned out of his mind. Don't pay any attention to what she says, she wishes he could go for that long. If its true he probably passed out when he came. I did it once for about 1 hr excluding the forplay, and when I got off the bed I almost passed out, I could bearly walk. Verdict: Your friend is a lyer.
  8. I feel for you. I dont' know why your man is quiet when you are doing that but normally they at least make a sound, or a twitch. Maybe there are too many things going on in his head right now. I know that if I'm really depressed or really really tired that there is no way that I can even get excited. My body wants to but it can't . Maybe he's bored and wants you to do something else to him. I think that you should try to 'deep throat' him. Whenever I do it to my boyfriend, lets just say he's over the moon. I think that this technique will even wake the dead up. I think that its the idea of them inside you throat that makes it more enticing, especially if you can hum while you do it. Don't do it just after you've eaten a big dinner though, it may go wrong. Hope that this helps! You can private message me for some more tips if you like, Im no expert but I know that my man begs for it. Good luck.
  9. Help, Im worried. I havent had my period in almost 8 weeks. I did 2 tests about 2 weeks ago and they were both negative. I cant get an appointment at my GP until about another week and a half. I'm really worried and so is my boyfriend, I mean none of us are ready for this. Its all very strange, the last time this happened I didnt have any period from october to january the next year. When i did get my period it was long and aweful, I went through tampons in half and hour. It came while I was ot work, I went to the hospital and they gave me pills to stop the heavy bleeding, they did a test and it was negative. A few days after I went for a check up and they said that I didnt have any period because I put on a little weight too quickly nad as I started loosing it I started bleeding again. Everything was fine until recently when my period just didnt show up. Now i'm so scared and I dont know what to do. I dont want it to end up that I have to have an abortion. What should I do
  10. Thanks for everyone's replies. I spoke to my b/f last night and we resolved most of the issues we had. When it came around to his parents, he completely shut down saying that he doesnt want to hear about it anymore, and that im not dating his parents. He says that he doesnt see the need for me to spend time with them as he thinks it would be uncomfortable. I then said that maybe he thiks that im not worthy to meet his parents. In my culture if you love someone enough, the first thing you do is let them atleast meet your mom, ifits even once. He doesnt see it that way. I mean its been almost a year. I just feel bad about the whole situation.
  11. I really need some advice. I've been in an interracial relationship for awhile now, in may it will be 1 year. His family is bulgarian and my family is caribbean. my family dont have a problem with him, and he says that his dont have a problem with me. The thing is, i've never met his parents, ive only met his brother whol lives with him and we get along fine, even if i see him on the street we stop and talk. I've told my B/f that I think that its time to meet his parents but everytime i bring up the idea he gets really defensive saying that there is no need because we are dating each other and not our parents. He was the same way when i wanted him to meet my mom who came to visit for 6 months and he didnt meet her. He's met my cousins, sister, friends, everybody. One day i was relating an argument that i had a work with a colleague who said that he thinks it would be best if i stuck to my colour, which i was really offended by. All of a sudden my boyfriend decided to tell me why i havent met his parents. His excuse was that they grew up in a communist world and are a little apprehensive about other cultures. So i said that they are racist. He said that was not the case, they are good people, not racist and that they are just not used to integration and have only been out of bulgaria for 3 years or so. He then goes on to say that he was the same way when he left and went into the rest of the world and it has now changed him. He says that he is just saving us both from being uncomfortable if we all met for dinner or something. When i tell my sister this she flips saying that he must be ashamed of me why i havent met his parents and even if they dont like the idea that we should of atleast be given the chance to meet. She goes on to say that he'll never marry me and his family will never approve and that he probably knows it. Everytime i bring it up he says that he loves me and that he doesnt care what the world thinks of our relatiinship and for some reason I believed him, but lately Im thinking that it would not be wise to carry on this relationship. I love him to death and I dont know what to do. I know that it would just break his heart if i break up with him and it would kill me too. I love him dearly, but I think that if things dont change that i'll have to end it 4 my sake. Other little thing bother me as well , like if i ask him do something no matter how small he seems to pick and choose what to do and what not to. I recently started and new job and was unemployed for a couple weeks. As we live toghether , my sis had to pay all the bills, I never once asked him for help, as I told him from the beginning that I'm not into this whole thing of men completely supporting their women. I think that if the woman can support herself she should do so. None of myy friends or family see it this way. I think that in the unlikely event that Im completely broke then he should at least help me in that sense. That recently happened and when i asked he said that he needs it as much as i do, as he recently changed jobs as well. I wasnt asking for alot and he doesnt seem to understand, coming from a family where his mom is the primary bread winner in the family and not his dad. To top it all the money that he does have he spend or things that can be avoided at the minute. Im just so pissed write now at everyone in and around my relationship mainly him and his parents, and my sis for butting in. Her advice is that he is a genuinely nice guy but I should find a man that will support me finacially and leave my b/f/ or have someone on the side to do that. I just think he sense of thinking is disgusting and selfish. Then again she may be on to something and thats propbably why she's single. She has a check list of what he man should be and FINACIALLY expecting to support her completely heads the list. I want to be independent. I'm so confused and dont know what to do. some advice please!
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