missluvly1037

I know how you feel, you wont believe how many times i've been there. He may just want to friends with you or maybe he is shy just like you are. Guys like when girls make the first move, this dosnt mean he is goning to say yes but its worth a shot if you really like this guy, so go ahead the wrose thing he can do is say no right? and remember if he does say no then there are plenty of guys out there that your gonna like and that are gonna like you....Good luck let me know how it goes......hope i hepled

This guy or "B" sounds like a very confused guy, because when he broke up wit his frist g/f he had a crush on you but went out with a nother girl......if he knew this girl for a long time wouldnt he know that she dosent like the way he dresses or his friends? So wouldnt he know that they where gonna have problems and that their relationship wouldnt last long? you should tell him to be honest and if he likes you then match his words with his actions, im sure you dont like the games he is playing, do you? i dont think he loves you and i dont think you love him you might like him alot even so much to where it feels like its love but trust me its not. you have to actually be in or have been a relationship thats serious to be in love, but if you are serious about this guy then talk to him about your feelings dont let him push you around, and dont get in to a mess that you cant get out of like having sex at a young age, be carefull and good luck! hope i hepled.....

It sounds like he likes you but his pide was probally hurt when you turned him down, guys are weird with the pide thing, ( sorry guys if your reading this,but you know its true!) they have a harder time telling people how they really feel about girls or just about anything because they are afaird of the response they will get from their friends or just have a big ego they think will be ruin if they let their true feelings show. dont "throw yourself at him" unless you really want him. he might take it they wrong way and use you for sex or he might think your a hoe or something of that sort. talk to him about your feelings and ask for the honest truth, tell him the reason why you turned him down,....and then see what happens from there....Good luck!.........hope i helped........

Be patient, she will of course have these moods, but it dosent mean she means everything that she says, if she happens to say something that you find really hurtfull talk to her about it, dont get in face and yell and scream about what she said and dont have that "how dare she" attuitde, be clam explain that you are hurt...if she dosent listen then let it go, she is going trough a really tough time and wants comfort and maybe just wants to be alone for a while, but sooner or later she will accepet her mothers pass and know that her mother is in a better place and will be the same as she was before her mother died, but until then just tell her you love her and tell her that every one cares for her and you will always be there for her. buy her roses and choclates or soemthing nice like that, hang in there! hope i helped....

Im sorry for your loss of this love and maybe one day it will return, have you ever heard of that sayin "if you really love him let him go, and if its true love then he will return"? thats what i suggest in your case, most people in this world dream about finding true love and many people search their hole lives for it and then in the end have nothing to show for it. It sounds like you had a really good relationship and loved him very much, but you cant make yourself suffer for something that you know you need to do for youself and that will benifit you in the end, like having a great job or something like that, I know its hard to just move on and leave everything that you built behind and to just start all over again, im sure you have had boyfriends before him and something happened in the relationship where you and him broke up. i bet you felt like the world was coming to an end and nothing was right without him, but of course you got older and years passed and you moved on.... I also suggest that you eat and get sleep....how do except to move on with your life if you not strong enough to get out of bed? you should go out with some girlfriends of yours and have a good time and if you dont have any met some. To be able to get on with your life you have to live and if your always thinking about this guy and only this guy then your not going to be able to live life like your are surpposed too, have you told this guy how you feel? well if you havent do so. even if it hurts, you will fell so much better if you do it will feel like a million pounds of rocks have been lifted off your shoulders and it wont drag you down anymore....hope i helped

I know how you feel, i have been in the same place where you are at now, you may be in love with him and thats what it sounds like, but he may not be in love with you. you should just accept that and move on, i know its hard to just have him push you aside and then act like every thing is ok and that he didnt do anything worng to hurt you, but he did and if he does it once he'll do it again and he proved that, this guy you love sounds alot like my dad, i know that sounds funny but my dad did the same thing to my mom as this guy is doing to you, and even after 20 years of not beeing with my dad my mom still admits that she loves him, and i, like i said, have been in the same old game that you and him are playin now, its been 2 years that have gone by with out beeing with the guy that i thought was the one for me and i still cry at night because i still love him but he dosent love me back. i figured that he was the one for me but i wasnt the one for him. and i guess that is also true in your case, trust me it will be hard and it will be a lonly trip until you relize that you desreve better then someone who is never there, and just think if he does this to you now, what would happen if he had your baby? im sure you wouldnt want to put your child trough that too. but one day you will find some one who loves you and wants to be there and is there.......your only 18 you still have a lot of life to live and a lot of chances to met the real man of your dreams, dont settle for some one who cant even take of him self, and if he is taking ANY kind of drugs then he is not taking care of him self.....hope i helped