Josh07

I wanted to know if anyone had any ideas/games that I could try w/ my girlfriend while kissing and other stuff. I wanted to try something new and make it even more fun to excite her. ANYTHING? - josh07

It's not like really bad like others I see @ school, but it still bothers me and I feel like whenever I'm having a conversation or whatever w/ someone else it's all they look @. I do tend to pick and pop them occasionally but isn't it alright if I'm getting all the junk out of it? I'm going to try and just keep my hands away from my face and wash more daily from now on. UHHHH ACNE IS GAY! - Josh

I'm 15 and I've occasionally had a pimple here and there in the past but lately I've been developing small patches here and there every other week and I've been washing my face about one time a day every day and it seems like my face is gettng worse! What's going on? I'm tempted to go to the dermatologist for help. My brother in the past had REALLY REALLY bad acne, I don't have it anywhere as close as bad, it's just somewhat mild or small bumps around my chin/cheeks. I've been using Cetaphil and Neutrogena products to help clear it up but to no avail. ANY TIPS or should I just go ahead to the dermatologist before anything else happens or gets worse? By the way, I play baseball every day and I tend to sweat alot during practice/games. Anything I could do about that too? - Josh Any help would be appreciated!

yeah i kinda get a laugh out of it when i think about it. i just adjust my stuff when she's not looking and try and get everything situated. crazy man!! boners just get in the way sometime lol .... get them in the weirdest places

HAHA yeah ... I always tell her that, it's just that well she's just what you would call a sheltered type of girl in a way. It's more of being in an awkward situation and stuff. She's like sitting in my lap and then I get uhh ya know and I know she's gotta feel it. I'm just like uhhh yeah .... - Josh

I totally get ya there. Everytime when my girl is over here just looking @ her I sometimes get a hard on and it's kinda embarrassing. I'm not really sure if she is aware of it or just ignores it sometimes. 1 time I had a hard on and she laid back on "it"...talk about uhh embarrassing. I didn't know what the hell to do!

If it's from sweat ... I still wouldn't think it would cause you to get pimples/zits on your penis. I play baseball and workout everyday and sweat constantly but I've never heard of anything like you are talking about. Do you clean yourself after practice ... and I mean clean! If I were you I'd go to the doctor and find out something before it could turn into anything worse ... not saying it will, you just never know, it's better to be safe than sorry. - Josh07

Yeah ... it didn't come out as I really meant it. I do think that but it's not like I normally would think of any other girl. I really respect her and I don't know why but it's not as important all the time. She's very attractive and I do think she's hot but I really do like her for who she is and like I was saying earlier I have alot of strong feelings and respect for her. Thanks for the tips and stuff. - Josh

I've been going out with this girl that I've known for practically my entire life but didn't really have any interest in her until a few months ago and now we have been going out for almost 2 months now. I can't come to describe the feelings I have for her and the way that we connect with each other. I never even have the thought of anything sexual or of that nature whenever I'm with her and I like everything about her because of HER! We're madly in love with each other and I wanted to know of some ideas or any types of ways to kinda surprise her or just to show that I care even more. It doesn't have to be anything crazy or out of this world ... just something simple and yet says alot about how I feel towards her. SHE'S THE MOST INCREDIBLE GIRL ANY GUY COULD ASK FOR!!! - Josh

I'd not worry about that friend of yours even if he does mean a great deal towards you. As for talking to girls, just be yourself and don't lie to her about anything. Be truthful and if things are rocky in the beginning then talk with her and kinda joke about how it's awkward for you and dating. That's what I did w/ my girl and she was the exact same way and it was amazing how sometimes the other feels totally the same way you do. Don't get all up tight about it, take it slow and you'll work through the dating stuff eventually.

very TRUE!

I just started going out w/ this girl for about a month and she happened to be over and watching a movie and it was a chick flick of course and the two people in the movie started kissing. I looked at her and asked her if she'd ever kissed anyone before and she said no and I said the same. Then that night I said for Valentine's Day we should kiss and she was totally pumped up about it and it was awkward in the beginning but now she's all over me lol. Hugging and kissing every moment!!! Don't rush cause I took my time but it all depends on the girl and how she feels about, never do anything if she's uncomfortable with it. RESPECT HER AND HER FEELINGS!!! Kinda joke about it sometime and then ask her or something around those lines. Good Luck! - Josh0751

She came over and after we got the gifts out of the way and before she left I kissed her again and it was cool but we started laughing at how awkward it still was but I enjoyed it even though it was nothing spectacular. That night we started talking over AOL and she kept saying how she liked it and how it was the GREATEST day ever and she was REALLY HAPPY! I'm not going to try and force the issue much but I wanted to know when I should attempt it again or whatever cause this Friday we're going out to the movies and I've already done the holding hands and holding her thing but if I should go for another kiss again near the end of the movie. ANY HELP WOULD BE APPRECIATED!!! - Josh0751

Today after giving my gf her vday present at school she suddenly kissed me on the cheek and I was taken off guard. Then when she came over tonight I gave her another kiss back on the cheek and we exchanged some more gifts. We both were laughing @ each other because of how awkward is was because she's never kissed anyone and neither have I. Is there any other way to help make it more comfortable and less awkward? I figured I'd try again this weekend at the movies and I wanted to help make it more memorable for the both of us. PLEASE HELP!!! - Josh0751

I agree ... we've been hugging and holding hands and all that other stuff but no kiss yet! I'm going to kinda joke around the idea with her and go for a small kiss and see her reaction. I guess I'll just have to wait and see. Thanks for the tips! - Josh07

I've never kissed a girl before and I wanted to know how I can tell when to make the move or how to go about kissing a girl. I wanted to make a move on my girlfriend on valentine's day and I needed some advice on how I should go about doing it. She's not the naughty girl or anything like that but I think she's waiting for me to make the move and I really want this valentine's day to be special for the both of us. I'm not going for a long kiss just something to show that I care and I have feelings for her. - Josh07

I'm just going to go for it after school or kinda joke about it and grab hold of her hamd. I'll just go from there and see what happens. - Josh

I've been seeing this girl for about 2 - 3 weeks now and we've spent nights together at the movies or gone over to her house and vice versa but I feel lost about when/how to make a move! I'm shy and it's my downfall but the more I talk with her I'm becoming more comfortable with myself and I just don't know how to go about making a move such as holding hands or putting my arm around her. She's not the type of girl that would be naughty or anything and nor am I but I think I should do something. I notice that when we are watching movies or hanging out together just talking she seems to get closer and I'm not sure if I'm just imagining it but I feel as if she is expecting me to do something. I've often joked with her about the idea of holding her hand or something and she laughed and said "aww and she wouldn't mind it" and she's even hugged me before at school. I think I just don't know how to go about it and it's beginning to get into my head. I really like this girl and I want to further our relationship but I just don't know what to do!!! I talk with her everyday after school and sometimes go home with her, should I just reach out and grab hold of her hand or say "do you mind if I hold ya hand?". I'm not an aggressive guy when it comes to relationships and I become shy at times but like I was saying I've began to open up to her more. ANY TIPS WOULD BE APPRECIATED! - Josh

I wanted some tips or ideas on what to get a girl for Valentine's day. Her birthday is Feb. 23rd and I wanted to know what I should do for both. I figured I'd get her some jewelry (ear rings, necklace, or something). I need some ideas!!! Any help would be appreciated. - Josh

I don't break out that bad but I do get the occasional zit here and there and sometimes just small spots but they're not really bumps. What is a good way to stop these from re-occurring and are there any specific ways to clean my face and whatnot. I do have alot of facial hair and wondered if that could be causing any problems such as making my face oily. - Josh

Yeah, I'm in the same situation as you are dude ... bring on the tips

Thanks for the tips, I'll just try and make her feel as comfortable as possible and then see how things go. - Josh

yeah i didn't know how to go about doing it. should i just grab for her hand in a light way as we're walking into the theater? for some reason i noticed her hand was getting closer to my hand/leg during the 1st date and i didn't know how to react to it. - Josh

I'm going on another date with this girl and I've got the feeling that she's really into me and I'm into her. I'm going to the movies and I wondered if I just happened to put my arm around her during the movie. if it would be alright. I do respect her and I don't want to make her feel uncomfortable in anyway. How would I go about doing this or at least attempting to getting a little further in the relationship? I'm not interested in the sexual relationship right now, for some reason I feel differently about this girl then I've ever felt about any other girl. The sexual part doesn't even really come into my mind when I'm around her. But, I want to get somewhat closer to her in a way instead of just sitting back and doing nothing. - Josh

Then it shouldn't be that much trouble to just ask her out ... just do it! You'll feel much better after you do ... that is if she doesn't reject you. Just make sure you actually have a chance.