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I say put ALL of it toward paying off your debt because most debt compounds monthly sometimes even daily, so the interest rate is actually greater than 10%, but if you can earn at 10% or greater in a safe investment, then I would say go buy the house because there are alot of tax-benefits involved in buying a house.

Is your gf chinese american too or is she foreign? But I do also think it is her too..

Hi veryshyguy, dude I am in just about the same boat as you. Like muneca said "do it very casually" I would suggest do it thru the phone via text message. Ask her out on a weekday I think is good if you want to hide your intentions. For example ask if she would like to hangout and get lunch on Thrusday after school.

i really appreciate your insights.... I have decide I will go for it, but I just need a nice peaceful setting to do it with only just me and her. (I hope nobody gets hurt though...) Thanks you!! TTMO & Shelby

There this girl I like. We meet each other a couple months ago and have become very close friends. We have gone out on a few dates, and everything of course went well. Of course I am too much of nice guy to make any moves. On the first date date I ask her if she was seeing anyone and she said "YES" they have been seeing each other for a couple of years, but it is a long distance relationship. I am 100% SURE she likes me more than just a close friend and I pretty sure she knows I like her too. I have always been a passive and reserve guy, so I am confuse right now what to do??? I don't want to break up her relationship or cause her more drama because I do truly care about her. But it has been consuming inside for the last couple weeks, and I feel I need to let it out and let her know how I truly feel about her. I want to tell her I like her, but that I do not want to hurt her or mess things up for her since she is in a relationship. I don't want to see her hurt or confused because that would hurt me too, as I have already built this unconditional love for her as she was like my sister. I don't want her to fight, be in doubt, or break-up with her boyfriend because of me.... because that wouldn't be right PLUS she's been with him for a COUPLE of YEARS and she has only known me for a couple of months. Any help would be greatly appreciated.... Thanks

Just do whatever you think is right, and in time everything will work out

We dont start school for another 2 weeks, and we have different majors so I am sure we wont have any more classes together. I like the face-to-face thing too, but dont u think its alittle desperate to go drive out all the way where she lives (she lives about 1 1/2 hours away) to tell her that. But now I thinking, I kinda want to apology for telling her all of sudden at the end I was attracted to her (I just think it was very unexpected timed when I did it.) I still want to be her friend.

Hi, this is my first post, There this girl who I really like from college, we had a couple of classes together and are friends. She lives like a hour and half away from me, and after schooled ended I ask her if she would like to go out and have lunch with me. She said "sure" after we were done and I had dropped her off, I told her and the very end that I was really attracted to her and blah, blah, but I didnt make any eye contact with her; I was so scared She really had to go, and before she left I asked maybe we can hangout again another time, she said "sure, if she not busy" About 2 days later I called her but, she didnt pick up, so I left a message. She called backed but I missed her phone called, so I called back a few hours later, but she didnt pick up A couple days later I called her again, and she didn't pick up so I left a another message to call me back, she called me back, but I told her quitely I couldnt talk, and I would call her again later on the phone, because I was working. I called back a couple hours later, but she didn;t pick up the phone again so I left a another message; now I am just chilling and waiting wondering what should I do???? I am not 100% sure if she likes me the way I like her, but I do know she really likes her bestfriend, but they never got together.