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Hi, congratulations, I'm in day 17 of no contact, last Friday she called, I was not home. But I didn't call her back, I was missing her a lot today, but I'm better now.

That's true, if we don't know pain we'll never get real pleasure. That's the idea I'm using now to get over my ex gf, if she wouldn't have dumped me, Maybe later in time I would feel kind of empty because of the lack of the feeling of really earning her and I would have been the dumper which sucks. also, about the good boys Nietzche wrote: "I have often laughed at the weaklings who thought themselves good because they had no claws." So let's stop being the good ones and let's get strenght from our experiences.

It's just like this to me, last week I called her and we had a great chat, she said she was happy with my calling, it's been a week now and she hasn't called me back. At this moment, one month and two days since she broke up with me, I get some strenght, but in the night and when I'm alone, I can't help missing her. Only time will tell if I'll get over her. Good Luck

The only thing we can wait to happen is that her new relationship is a weak one.

Hi, That's almost exactly what happened to me yesterday!, I called my ex gf, we were talking more than 1 hour and she said that my calling made her feel happy again because she was very sad, and now I realize we were also best friends. I feel reanimated now and just thinking about my next step. Good luck!

Hello Toni: I had a great relationship with my ex girlfriend for 1 year and 8 months, then she left me for another guy, just before we were going to live together. She had left another boyfriend this way a long time ago, maybe she's afraid of giving that next step. Well, I couldn't stand the situation and I stalked her, and pleaded and begged, it didn't work, so I used no contact for three days and she called me, to see how was I doing, ... I called her yesterday, we were talking for an hour and a half, she told me that she's having a lot of problems, that everybody's against her, that she's been sensitive, and that my calling made her feel happy and fine, I didn't talk about the relationship, I only gave her reasons not to be sad and angry. She thanked me for supporting her, she said nobody's supporting her nowadays, it was all fine. Now, my question is: What should be my next step?, I know she's not so happy with her new boyfriend and life, and my call made her feel fine and she told me so, but how can I do to get her back? I don't want to give myself false expectations about this, it's been a month since we broke up.Thanks for your great help.

Hi, for me the last thing I have in mind about my break up is my ex's new bf, even when I saw her kissing him, I saw it!, I were shocked and almost vomited, but I could get over it and now I'm doing nc to see if she misses me, while I get more confident and grow as a person for myself, not for her, I don't mind if she kisses him or even has sex with him, I know she's a clean person and she takes bath and brushes her teeth, so if we get back together I won't be tasting that guy's flavour. I think I made a big progress, I'm not jealous anymore and don't mind if she kisses other lips, etc. She's not my property and I love her for other things, not because of her sexual files. And if love between us is strong enough, it will rise over everything. if not, then not, her loss.