crizlee

she even mentioned it herself. ive known her for 6 weeks now. i asked her out to do something over the weekend on wednesday. she told me yea, to call her that day. call her??? so its today and i talk to her on break, and i mention sunday again that i was thinking of going to her favorite restaurant. she tells me she likes to keep her plans open but she'll keep it in mind. i tell her ill stop by work. i dont think she knows this is a date or not.. she hasnt dated for 3 years. maybe its because i asked her if we could do something as friends and she was cool with that. hm ok so we write web journals and share them with each other and friends. ill write this for today so she can read it: "A relationship is like a rose, How long it lasts, no one knows; Love can erase an awful past, Love can be yours, you'll see at last; To feel that love, it makes you sigh, To have it leave, you'd rather die; You hope you've found that special rose, 'Cause you love and care for the one you chose -Rob Cella Wow, powerful. the day went by pretty quick. i came to school dressed in my dad's army camoflauge uniform, all decked out in camoflauge face paint and all over my arms, for school spirit or whatever. you could say i looked like a commando, i got lots of nice feedback and salutes. lol. you could also say i really did stand out from all the rednecks who were in their hunting gear. all classes were shortened because of the prep rally, and so no economics test. i really want to attend atleast one football game, i feel kind of bad when my friends ask me if im going to see them play. i should just say yes but i cant lie to friends, its just not right. i want to actually get involved with things out of school this year, i bet ill be sneaking out for some football games, homecoming, and most definitely prom. Not only did school go by fast but so did the rest of the day. i came home, washed off all the camo paint, and came to work. same old same old, kara im asking you out for a date, girl!. lol. hint hint. i wont play around on you. i came home, i came to shower, i came to chill out. whoa, today was fast. and so the weekend is here. -chris" Should i do this? i dont want to get rejected if i call her up on sunday. i wouldnt know what to say. oh look i made a poem about myself... Open minded I tend to be, Open to everything imaginable. Open as your endless sea. Maybe I am to stride accross your lands, But until now I gaze at your skies. And only she can see the scars in my hands. But to me the universe is endless as your eyes. I am a lover, Lost in a mindful of space. I am more than you will discover.

one of those is so going in my journal entry for this girl, i like, to read.

i told what i had planned for sunday tonight, just to go this restaurant she likes, but i have more stuff planned. she said she doesnt like setting plans and said something about parents but she'll keep that in mind. i told her id stop by work, what if she rejects me on sunday, how should i react? what can i say? i still want to be in good terms with her.

i have to go to work now thansk a lot for the advice guys. /sarcasm

ok so ill just drive by work that sunday while im out cruising around, and say hi and see if she'll be able to do anything. if yes, then im planning on picking her up from her home and giving her the exotic flower that ill pick up, then going to this local seafood place called rockfish, then get ice cream, then go play pool, then take her to this pier this one girl told me was romantic. i hope everything works out. should i tell her where we're going or just play it cool and drive her around? recently she mentioned she found the perfect costume of kurt and courtney for this costume party but it needed couples, so she needs a date. i hinted at that i could be her date by saying ps- i so look like kurt.

i have to go to work in 30 min and i dont know if i should remind her about the date i asked her out on wednesday to do something on sunday. i talk to her at work.

shes outgoing, she wants to travel the world, she wants to be an astronomer, she likes seafood. hey! theres this country styled seafood place called baytown and baskin robins is right down the street too, and then theres this old place down the street that has pool. conroe is crappy, id rather take her all the way down to the woodlands. down there she likes this restaurant called rockfish (i imagine there we could share the snow crab together that she likes) or this one sushi place i didnt get the name of, its right by the mall, then theres this new place called main event that has arcades, pool tables, cafe. the spot i had imagined we could walk on the lake has a house on it now also... hm also i might be going as her date to this etiquette costume party event. in her latest entry she said she found a perfect costume of kurt and courtney. so i said i so look like kurt. ill try to talk to her more about that tomorrow maybe.

ok im gonna hint at a i want to go, then talk about it tomorrow.

ok um we have this journal sharing thing and in hers she said she found the perfect couples costume. ive known her for 6 weeks, i asked her out to do something this weekend already. should i ask her by commenting in the journal or tomorrow at work on break?

lol...well she read this in my journal also: "A few weeks ago i met this girl at work, or should i say she met me. she invited me to hang out with her friends and party. she showed me the life i wish i had. at first she had confused me with her signals of calling me up and flirting with me. but now i think i understand, she wanted to know her boss's son. but after 2 weekends of me hanging with her and her friends, i think she has lost interest in me. i notice the flirting stopping, the replies to my txt messaging not coming. i felt insignificant again. and to think i started working more hours just to be around her to get that chance. but i tried to make matters better by stopping by work "to pick up drinks for my friends" but to really talk to her and ask her out. i need someone to talk to. life is pathetic, she was not at work. this girl, i felt like, she was one of a kind. shes smart, she has deep thoughts, she is beautiful. i dont want it to end. shes a really fun person, best of all, very unique. if there is anything i can do to make things work i would do it. my time with her was the best time ever in my life. i hope in the future i will have times like these again. but it still frustrates me that im left again in loneliness." that night when we talked about relationships, she told me she is scared of dating, that she wants to take it serious, she doesnt play around. she hasnt dated for 3 years, and the last guy she dated was BAD. and it was after that conversation that i asked her out to do something. she told me to call her. should i call her at the beginning of the day, or stop by work to see her, or call her when she gets off, or wait there when she gets off? well shes into all this world culture stuff, so i was thinking of japanese restaurant sushi place, ice cream, and since my spot on the lake is taken by a stupid house i dont know where to go to afterwards. she did mention in her journal this one night when she was with one of her guy friends and he took her to this spot on the lake that she mentioned was gorgeous, and they were talking about this time they were drunk and kissed and they happen to kiss that night lol. should i ask her to show me that spot? lol it would be weird. and should i pay for her food and such?

is anyone around the houston area? i would like more input on this and maybe from someone around the area to tell me good date places to go to after eating out. i went to the spot where i thought might be a good place to chill, but someones house is there now...lol she mentioned a place where this one guy friend took her one night out by the lake, she said it was a gorgeous setting, and it was where they kissed its a long story, they were drunk one time and kissed and everyone made a big deal about it and they were talking about that and happened to kiss. so should i take her there?

hmm when would you consider a girl to be your girlfriend? ive never had one, so i dont know. because ive known this one girl at work 6 weeks now, and we've been to parties together, we go on breaks together at work and just chill and talk. i asked her out for this sunday, she told me to call her, so i guess its a good sign. im planning on taking her to her fav sushi bar, go play pool, then go chill at my lake. i hope everything goes well, well because we chatted one night about dating and relationships, and she said if she ever dates she wants to take it serious. oh yeah, you know the weblog xanga? her and i have journals on there, as well as her friends, and i wrote down some of my feelings on there that i meant to keep to myself. she seemed to react really nice to me when she read it.

Have you ever talked to a girl and then its quiet for awhile. Im shy maybe its just me.

hey dude im going through the same deal too. ive known this girl at work for 6 weeks now. we've been to parties together. we've seen each other's journals and such, and she even read a part where she wasnt suppose to read where i said how i felt about her. it seemed to really draw us closer because at work we take breaks together always. and i finally asked her out and its good. just to give you an idea, this girl likes cultures, and stars and stuff like that, so im taking her to her fav sushi bar, and then we're gonna go play pool, then ill end the night hanging out at the lake.

sounds great, now i need to find a place around the lake lol.

I asked this girl at work that ive known for 6 weeks now out on a date, ive gone on lunch breaks with her for a week now. SHe told me she wasnt doing anything that day and to call her. So yea thats cool I think. So what should I do to make this date memorable to her? I need first date tips too plz. Just to let you know, I live by a lake. Ive got an awesome pool. theres a riverwalk thing in town. there is the movies. there is this entertainment place that has pool tables, cafe, arcade. hm out of ideas. prolly some more stuff around here but im out of ideas.

Hey we left comments for each other in each others journals.. and according to her entry she mentioned she still has feelings, like sexual attraction for my cousin who is a womanizer. i didnt want to show jealousy, but i do want to date her sometime. so i mentioned in my comment saying. he has been through some tough crap throughout his life. but he is a good guy in heart. i know this for sure, he is my cousin. god i hope i didnt tell her to date him. i hope i made the right move.

About me standing up for her, i dont think i can do this. if i tell my dad, he'll think something is going on between her and me because he specifically yelled at her today, and thats a most def no no. Should I tell my dad something, if so, what? or should i just do homework with her like on break or after work?

feel free to comment but previously heres what happened: a win or lose situation that can be learned from. link removed now: I think everything is going well so far. the xanga journal is like a big chatroom to her and her friends. so im cool with everyone seeing my journal and seeing how i feel about her. lol. she has been a lot more open to me, like inviting me to breaks and such. it seems like it drew us closer maybe. it was weird on todays break, i think there were 2 dudes she knew sitting by us, she didnt talk to them at all but only waved bye. she must really want to make me happy or something lol. I think i might be suckering up to her too because she told me she got yelled at by my dad for doing her homework when there was nothing else to do, so i told her ill say something about it. maybe im standing up for her. yep and thats how things are going.

stalk her. find where she lives. follow her daily routines. act non chalantly when you come accross her. find out who are her friends. once you get her number call her everyday. compliment her a lot. make a web journal and put the link to it in your instant messanger profile, then ask her for her profile. then when yall chat she will check your profile, and read your journal that says how you feel about her. dont do all of the above. lol! i feel bad leaving no real help. so heres what im doing at school. ok this one girl i see everyday in precal, we both have trouble in that class. so i help her in class and in tutorials. and i initiate small talk with her like "how was your weekend". i may ask this one out later in the year. another girl, i also initiate small talk with her (she has a boyfriend also muahaha) during class. i learned her friends and her talk about how sexy i am and they got a picture of me.... another girl, her boyfriend isnt showing her enough attention, so im just there to give advice and such. small talk em for awhile then ask em out.

lol.. i find always smiling no matter what to help a lot. people smile back and you are better to be approached. i find improving my personal image to help a lot. i get tons of feedback at school. girls saying i look good i smell sexy lol. can you imagine me being anti-social last year?

would it help if i told you that shes been nice to me and wanting to talk to me as of late. and that i already asked her out over AIM chat. well asked her out as friends. and she was cool with that. what should i do about the journal? keep posting but not mention her anymore?

crap waht do i do with my journal?? umm she is subscribed to mine and so now everyone can see my name on her journal page...one of her friends already left a comment. and um she knew about my situation like 4 weeks ago, like about my parents being jehovahs witnesses and me not being able to have any friends at school.

hi, personally start over in everything, become who you really want to be, you. for the most of my high school life i was an anti-social loser. then the summer before my senior year i swore to make my last year of high school the best so i can atleast have good memories. actually it took 2 summers for my big "make over". the summer before my junior year, i got out and worked out like heck. i did 5 mile runs on my hilly road, massive wieght work outs and 1 meal a day. i lost 60 lbs and became really sexy. everyone noticed i lost weight in my junior year. but i was still anti-social and felt no one liked me. i started letting out my true personality and getting out socially in the 2nd summer. my parents are jehovahs witness and i must abide by their rules while i live in their house so no associating with people outside their religon. so i found some cool people in the religon and went out and hung out with them. i got new clothes from hollister and changed my hair, over came my shyness, and became more brave towards the girls. this senior year is the best. i got my truck now, i can do whatever. i went to my first party this senior year, i got drunk for the first time, got my first kiss this senior year, went on a date with 4 chicks at the same time this senior year (i guess you could call it a date lol). cant wait for college!!!

hi whats the point of marriage? you 2 will always love each other no matter what right? these days, marriage is bad and like 80% never work out. these days are too busy for marriage. dont rush things, live the moment.