prepare for a long read. its some interesting drama yea.
well i've known this girl for a month and a half now. i met her at my church. i started off by asking her to come hang out with my friends at my pool, she gave me her number to the cell phone and then we also talked a lot that day, but she didn't show up to hang out. so i left her a message on her cell that day, she never called back. next day i meet her she tells me she didn't come because she had to go with her bro and dad to some deep sea fishing place but she didnt go deep sea fishing with them, because on that day she was going back to pick them up.
so like one night im at a friends graduation party and im there chillin with one of my friends and another dude. and he tells me why dont you go chill with the little kids. im like what are you talking about and then they get up leave to go outside. btw this dude that was with my friend is friends with the girl im wooing. and so i see she arrives at my friend's graduation party and she came with a guy thats like way older than her who was the dude's bro. i totally didnt expect this because the party host told me she wasnt invited. then she is talking to her girl friends. i didnt have the guts to go up to her this time. then she goes to the food line. so i get up and say hi to her then walk off. then she is talking to other guys including my friend and the dude he was with and her bro and the dude she came with.
the rest of the time im paranoid with her around all the guys. and then theres dancing, and im usually not the type to dance but i saw she was watching so i went out there. then came the couples dance songs and i didnt have the guts to ask her but she danced with her bro, and then she danced with the dude my friend was with. and then afterwards all of the bunch she was talkin to including her went to my friends house but i didnt get to go so i was upset that night. my friend also pissed a lot of my other friends off because he totally left the party.
so next time at church, i go up to her to talk and tell her she danced great. then this other time i ask her out to come to the movies with my friends. i tell her she can bring her friend if she wants, i'm going to have my friends there too. well that day my friends had other plans and i called her and she had other plans too to go with her family to some other family's house.
shes the flirt with every guy type and then everytime i look at her she smiles at me and comes up to talk to me. like this one time i was at a friends graduation party, another one(the dude-that-was-with-my-friend's). and then she arrives like late and goes to the buffet table, so i go to the same room. i pretend like im just walkin in to get somethin to drink then she tells me hi and she is with her friends and she introduces me to them or i think i told them hi and they introduced themselves to me. and then i had to leave right after that because my other friend wanted to go see his girl and i had to give him a ride.
so like its one week before i leave for a 2 week trip with the friend that blew me off. so i call her one day and she doesn't answer her phone, so i call her 2 more times. 4th time i leave message that i need to tell her something, and she calls me back that night. so we're like talking, and i tell her that i'm going to miss her cuz I'm going on a 2 week road trip and stuff. and then i ask her if she wants to do something before i go, but she had her graduation that week so that didn't happen. and then i call her the day before i leave because i wanted to see if it was ok to get her something while i was gone, but she didnt pick up so i left message, she didnt call back.
and so i'm on trip with my friend, and then i learn that he likes the girl i like. he hangs out with her bro a lot so i'm kinda worried, then he tells me her brother told him she thinks he's cute. and then he tells me he's going to talk crap about me to her. this is all on the trip. the 2 weeks was just horrible for me. this is the same friend who i was hanging out with at the graduation party who told me to go away in a nice way.
so we get back from the vacation, and i dont see her for another week cuz shes on a vacation. when she got back she came up to talk to me saying how long its been and she wanted to see the pictures. after shes done talking to me. my friend goes up to talk to her. i notice she gives him the same smile she gives me and they go outside then come back inside. and so the next time at church i see her going outside i go out too i tell her i got the college stuff for her( im helping her with scholarships, even tho im gonna be a senior and she'll be going into college) and then we go to my truck and she is like nice truck and i ask her if she wants to go over the stuff together over dinner, and she tells me sure over lunch or dinner sometime this week, gimme a call during the week, maybe this weekend we'll do it. i also told i like what youve done with your hair, it looks nice.
the next day it was me, her, and her friend, and my jerk friend chatting and i introduce myself to her friend and then the girl i want is talking to my friend holding his hand looking at his injury, telling him she wants to see it covered up next time. and then they leave and i tell her ill call you later tonight, and shes like alright.
so its monday night and i call her, she doesnt answer so i leave a message saying hey its travis call me back. its tuesday night, no message on the caller id, no call. so its now, no call or nothing.
i am left with these questions, is she blowing me off? how should i react to my jerk friend? how often should i call her? when should i call her back? where did i screw up if i screwed up at all?
and this one girl i liked before who blew me off for my jerk friend is doing body language crap on me and not onto him no more, should i go for her again?(whole other story oh god)
