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don't do it. You'll be a pretty bad friend if you did. You'd be surprised at how many chance for sex you'll have in the military. Thousands of relationships have been lost because of the 5 branches. Drill Sergeants included. I've seen it, and experienced it. Don't do it.

if I learned anything the hard way, cockblocking isn't wrong. Why? Well let's just say it's her choice and not his. Go for it. I'm about to do something really ackward with a girl I'm interested, but you know what? if she really likes you, instead of focusing on how surprising and ackward it is, she will focus on you instead. That's when you will know if you even have a chance.

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it's porn. get over with it. Virgins, like the one you're with right now use that as their girlfriends. Married men use porn as their concubines. And divorced men used porn as their random sex encounters. Your BF is looking at porn because he's in the mood. And by mood, men are always in the mood to look at sex. Whether that's animal sex on the discovery channel, porn, or just thinking about it we love it. It's build into us. Don't be jealous, it's just a picture/video. It's a fantasy he's fufilling. Harmless at most unless he's obsessive compulsive about it.

Do it! I currently live in regret, and I'm currently tracking her down after 5 years. Yeah, 5 years of regret would have spared me a lot of pain. Right now it's not about rejection or being accepted (which would obviously be nice), it's just about knowing what I should have known since the day you met her. Do it, and don't live your life like mine. I wouldn't wish my suituation on anyone. If you don't do it, you only have yourself to blame.

Starting a regular workout routine is never a bad thing. I used to be a very scrawny kid back in high school. But that all changed with the invention of strength training back in Junior year. I started benching only 90 pounds at my weight of 125 @ 5'6". After two years of working out I could bench well over 200 pounts at 145 @ 5'8". Mind you I've been off my workout routine, but I'm getting back into it. Getting in shape is one of the hardest things to do alone. So get a partner, and get to it. Once you start seeing results (and it won't be more than 2 weeks) you'll never want to stop. As long as you don't cheat yourself, your self confidense will rise, and you will no longer complain about your weight and stature as a 20 year old man. As for hobbies, music. Music never fails.

Rejection shouldn't be taken this seriously. So you got rejected by your choice, it's happened to all of us. Don't blame it on yourself, god, or whatever else. Because none of it is your fault. It's not your fault you like her, and it's not your fault because she doesn't like you back. I know it's hard to think about it, but over time it will heal. When I first got rejected by my first I couldn't stop thinking about it for many months. I still remember it, but certainly the impact isn't as severe as she didn't "put me down" while rejecting my offer. Perhaps you interpreted signals that were never there. It happens very often. Don't beat yourself up over something so miniscule.

Ultra thin/Natural Feeling. It usually gives the best feeling. Ribbed and For Her pleasure is a marketing gimmick. Make sure it's latex with water based lube.

i win.