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  1. fontaine32
    I dated a girl for a little while a month or so, I posted the story before. Well, i broke it off first, and then a few days later she did.. Well, we chatted here and there after and she told me I could call her anytime... Well, my friends ran into her a week ago, although I called her once in two weeks, she told them I call her everyday and tried to make me look like a stalker.. Then her new guy tells my friends to warn me not to contact her.. Well I haven't at all. This guy has been with her for a week and he's trying to warn me????? My friends didn't believe her anyway.. Why would someone make this up?.. I don' get it!!! Any ideas people????????
  2. fontaine32
    I would do the same thing that she's doing. A habit is hard to break. Why not have a female friend. I wouldn't believe her on that one. She's certainly not going to tell you the truth about him. He might be a rebound and those never last. Don't answer the phone when she calls, be a challenge and just agree with her on her decisions...If you want her back that is...
  3. fontaine32
    What about our "space" guys! It seems that every post on here talks about giving her "space" If that's what she wants tell her to join the NASA program. Maybe us guys need to start using that one!! Sorry, had to vent..
  4. fontaine32
    Remember, the best way to change a woman's mind is to agree with her!!
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    No contact is not the answer. Neither is texting. You have to be there in the flesh. She sees your vulnerability and that makes you seem weak! Confidence is key. You have to "show her things" don't discuss! She has feelings for you obviously, but she's running fast. Don't chase her! Slow and steady wins the race... As far as this other guy is concerned, don't worry it. I know it sucks, but you have to play the game is this case, even if it hurts..
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    Make a date and break it! Agree with everything she says. Keep your mouth shut also. She's inconsistent. Dude, hate to break it to you, but you're much more interested than she is. You can win her heart if you want to. Make Her work for You! No contact is not the answer. You still need to be persistent, but don't let her stomp on your heart anymore. Go out with her but keep it light and let her do the talking. And for crying out loud, LISTEN TO HER! She's trying to tell u something!
  7. fontaine32
    Well, she asked me out. Should I go? Since she asked me I'm going to make her pay.
  8. fontaine32
    Need more info! How often have you seen her during this breakup? Who broke up with who? If you have seen her, that's why you haven't healed. You can get her back if you apply the proper tactics. But, is she worth it? Ask yourself that!!!
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    Hi there, Wow, this has to be painful. First of all, you say he is a very "religious" person, yet he is committing adultery. He wants you to wait a year and not see anyone else, yet he's probably still sleeping with his wife. I know the truth hurts, but that's the way it is. This guy is not worth it! You may think you love him, but there are plenty of available men without baggage. He's selfish and he's a cheater. What makes you think he won't do the same thing to you in the future. Think about it!
  10. fontaine32
    I really appreciate the advice, but am starting to think it's not worth the effort. When we were together she acted like a spoiled brat anyway. I actually told her that and she said i was the first guy to call her on her behavior. I think there are some deeper issues, but am too busy to play detective. I am going to leave it alone and move on with or without her.
  11. fontaine32
    Yes, I was affectionate as well. Here's the thing, we're not in a relationship so how do I act as if I'm in one. I wasn't rude or anything, we just talked about how she's doing and things like that. If she got scared, how do I go about her trusting that I won't pressure her? Thanx
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    I met this beautiful girl about a month ago. We got pretty hot and heavy right away. She showed lots of affection right away and it never faded. We were intimate after about a week and a half. One day out of the blue she says "I don't think we should see eachother anymore" We recently started text messaging eachother and refers to me as "sweety" and "baby". A couple of friends of mine and I went out to the restaurant she works at last night. I said "Hi, nice to see you" and started to walk away. She says "that's all you have to say to me". I then said, "nice to see you beautiful" I sat back down with my friends and she came to my table 3 more times. She then says" You came here and won't even talk to me" I wasn't ignoring her at all. I didn't really say anything. We had a little more small talk and I left. I care about her and want to start dating again. What next????? Some insight will be greatly appreciated...
  13. fontaine32
    First of all, I don't agree with "no contact." You still have to show that you're thinking about them. It's how you go about it. Don't beg, plead or act desperate. "Show them" that you're happy without them. Don't tell them. Make conversations friendly and upbeat. By all means, start dating other people, you just might meet someone interesting.
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