How do i respond to this?

Me and my ex broke up like two months ago we've had no contact whatsoever. She randomly text me a few hours ago asking if I had a few pieces of clothing she needed back when she knows I gave her all of her stuff in a bag. She said "was it in the bag you gave me" I really can't be bothered speaking to my ex as she caused me a lot of pain but I'm just wondering how should I approach it. The stuff she's asking for I'm more than sure I don't have and packed it up already. But if I do reply she'll just come out with the "ooooh you're such a di*k I just want my stuff" when I don't even have it.. Or maybe she's randomly trying to start a conversation with me? Who knows.

Any help?

I really can't be bothered speaking to my ex as she caused me a lot of pain

Looks like you answered your own question. Just ignore the message and block her so you can get better.

"All your things were in the bag, try looking elsewhere for them". Then block her. Otherwise she'll use this to pull you back in.

She said "was it in the bag you gave me"

Ya... a "I have nothing else of yours here, everything that you left was put in the bag" and then a complete ignore after that should suffice. She can only pull you in again if you let her so don't give her any of your personal power.

Tell her you pt everything in the bag.

You should have blocked her, long ago.

I have her blocked on everything.

I didn't block her number but deleted it.

So it was an unknown number that I couldn't recognise anyways.

Do not reply

I wouldn't add "maybe you replaced it." That is something that will put her on the defensive and possibly incite her to respond on the defensive.

Yup I agree that a simple, "Sorry, absolutely everything of yours that I had was put in the bag." and that's that. Don't respond to anything else. If you just ignore her, she may start harassing you more and keep on asking. If you respond with more, you'll just open the proverbial Pandora's box that you will regret later.

Yup I agree that a simple, "Sorry, absolutely everything of yours that I had was put in the bag." and that's that. Don't respond to anything else. If you just ignore her, she may start harassing you more and keep on asking. If you respond with more, you'll just open the proverbial Pandora's box that you will regret later.

I'm just not going to reply. If there is clothing here somewhere she should've messaged me long ago to get it sorted as I'm not making it my job to search for her things. She hasn't texted me again so I guess she won't try soon.

Well, that settles that... Next!

No Reply. Just block her

Why would she need to ask you if something was in the bag when she has the bag?

I'd skip this and move on.