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Thread: [Update] Getting my girlfriend to lose weight...

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    Originally Posted by snoopynwoodstock
    I think you should work on your own issues and what you don't like about yourself, instead of project your own insecurities onto your girlfriend...
    what makes you think he has issues??? He clearly is worried about her because he is writing a thread about it. Most guys would have been gone once the first 10lbs packed on. It is unhealthy to gain weight like that and he is concerned for her and also becoming unattracted to her. Would you be with someone who you thought couldnt take care of their body and was completely unattractive?? No I don't think so.

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    It seems to be not just about the weight but also her attitude towards health/wellness/physical activity. It doesn't seem you're on the same page and she doesn't seem concerned about the rapid gain enough to do anything about it. I also wonder why you're sticking around. If for 6 months you've seen how this is a deal breaker for you, it's time to end it. I wouldn't wait around any longer for a change in behavior.

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    170's not that bad

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    The OP hasn't posted for two years and there's no need to argue over this thread.

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