I recommend doing more reading and research on sex/body issues before plunging into any sex activities. There are of course NO foods to make a penis bigger or pills, because if there was, nobody would be asking these questions. First of all, 5 inches is not small, it is average. So be happy about that, the average woman's vagina canal is only 4 inches. As for hair, trimming it down is good, but i'm not keen on the shaved look, because it makes woman-on-top a little rough because the clitoris is rubbing against those spikey hairs. If anyone can't accept the fact you have a lot of hair in certain places, they aren't mature enough to be having sex. The same with penis size.