Anna133
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Someone I really like broke up with me hmm 3 weeks ago and I still have a big crush on him. A friend of mine is talking to him tomorrow but I don't think it's going to change anything. It's a pretty complicating story why he broke up with me but a short summary of it is because of his drugs and he didn't love me. But I dont believe he didn't love me because he would always tell me he loved me so much. If I was at a friends he would tell me to go home just to be with me. And he would get mad whenever I would say he didn't love me and he would tell me to stop saying that he doesn't because he does. He wanted to be my friend pretty bad so I am. We still wave and high five now and then which is good. I am thinking about inviting him over one night just to hang out as friends. He said we can still hang out so why not hang out? Should I fo that since I want to hang out with him so much? He left his movies at my house and I said that if he wanted them back he would have to come and get them. I said that just so he would come over and get them and I could see him. Yeah pretty gay. He left his backpack on the bus because he got off to talk to friends. I hoped he's miss the bus so I could go over to his house and give it to him. Or him come over and get it. Again pretty gay. He nearly missed the bus but he didn't. Any comments I would appreciate it. Thanks!
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I don't really understand who you can love someone without even seeing them in person. Maybe it's love at first site. But you should really meet him before you deside. You should go for someone that isn't taken. Or another option is to wait until he is single. But who knows how long that will be. You will probably fall for someone else by then. Besides he's not in high school and he won't be until another year. Can you really wait for him? He doesn't know you. You will find your prince someday, you don't have to worry about that one. Someone who will sweep you off your feet, lol literally.
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If was acting like that with a female friend I probably would be jelous too. But do you think my boyfriend is being protective even though he said he isn't going to help me anymore, which i never asked him too. Should I tell him that he is being the childish one and that I think that he is jelous that my friend is giving me so much attention. My boyfriend is never around anymore at lunch, he goes with his other friends and does stuff that i don't know about. But he comes back to the cafe when there is 5 to 10 minutes until class starts. I don't expect for him to be with me everyday but at least twice a week I want to be with him at lunch. He lives just down the road from me so we can meet up and go to eachothers houses. And he is on my bus too. But like any girlfriend you would like to be with your boyfriend at least a few days a week with him at lunch right? is it that much to ask? i don't want to be nagging him though.
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Me and my friend who is a guy, always play around and hit eachother. But this playful play isn't like a small poke or light punch, it's hard kicks and slaps in the face ect. We have been doing this for quite some time. I always end up with huge bruises and being sore. I don't know about him. I told my boyfriend this and he said he wants to punch him out. I said No it's okay don't do it. I told my friend that I don't want to play like that anymore. It hurts to much. And he said okay and i told him that a few days ago and he hasn't done it since. My boyfriend sent me an email and said that he saw me yesterday at lunch and my friend was just doing whatever he wants to me:S He says that he's cutting his help for me. I never asked him to help in this situation at all. i just told him that me and my friend do that and it hurts and i don't like it. My boyfriend said in the email that I need to grow up and that i am childish. I am in grade 9 and he is in in grade 10. So basically he thinks that i am a child and that i need to grow up. I don't usually stick up for myself, i am just like that. I don't know what actually what my boyfriend means when he says that i am need to grow up and that I am a child. Just the way he said it. But if anyone anwsers this, I have the email and I can paste it.
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We aren't going to have sex, I mean like everything else. Fingering and stuff..
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I have a boyfriend and we will be going out for 4 weeks on Friday. I know it's not a long time but I asked him how long it would be until he would start thinking about sexual things. And he said 2 to 3 months. And he asked me the same thing and I said 5 to 6 months or longer. It takes me a long time to get the trust. And plus I am kinda scared. I don't know why but I am. I have had some long relationships. Like a 8 month one and we didn't anything sexual in that whole relationship. What shoud I do?
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Iv'e known this guy and he has been a really good friend of mine. And I went out with his friend and I used to hang out with him and my ex all the time. We all had a lot of fun. And he told me a few days ago that he has always had a thing for me. And have had a thing for him too. We go to the same school now, but i have only seem him once so far. Because we don't have the same lunch. If I'm lucky i see him in the hallways. He said that he isn't going to his class so we could do something at lunch. And I think may see him on tomorrow too because I have Rugby and he has baseball and it's on the same field. and it's beside us. And also I think i'm hanging out with him on the weekend. Do you think this would go well? or should I wait and see if we actually see eachother and if he actually doesn't go to his class and sees my at lunch time and we hang out on the weekend and stuff? Because if he decides to ask me to be his girlfriend I don't want to say yes if we don't talk or see eachother even though I like him.
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The reason she may be acting like this is maybe she likes you. Or she still thinks that you like her and she's doesn't know how to act. Do you still like her? As for the asking her to the homecoming just a simple will you go to the homecoming with me should do it. Bringing her to the park and playing catch and stuff may be to much. But I think that's a good idea. But your right a simple question doesn't seem enough. Your good idea about going to the park is fun and friendly i'm sure she will accept your invitation. You should ask her why she has been acting strangely. Hope this helped somewhat.
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The first time it was cocane and the second time I didn't ask
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I was so mad at my boyfriend because he did drugs when he promised me that he wouldn't. And since he has done that he is soo grounded. I am still pretty mad at him. And he can't hang out with anyone or get calls. But we are going to the same high school and we will see eachother everyday. And I still like him, I don't know it's just when i look at him i can't help but want to be with him. But everyone says that he is a big fag..well at least the people who went to public school with him but my friends seem to like him. Anyway I haven't seen him for hm like 2 weeks or gotten calls from him. And I was pretty set on not being with him because I was so mad. But today we were driving my brother and his girlfriend to Mcdonals and my boyfriend saw me in the car and came to talk to me. So I got out of the car and talked with him. He said that he would do anything for me to forgive him. And that i am his best girlfriend because I haven't cheated on him or lied to him. And that he doesn't want to loose me. But there is a part of me that really wants to be with him but another that doesn't. He said that he is getting help and he has a problem. I don't know wheather or not i am going to still be with him. The other part that says don't be with him says to meet another guy who hasn't betrayed me. School doesn't start for another week and i said to him that i will think about it. And I said don't be heart broken if I say No. And he said he understands. What should I do?
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My boyfriend hurt me pretty bad. He told me that a while ago he almost over dosed on Cocane or something. He wouldn't tell me at first what he had done wrong I thought he cheated on me or something so I wasn't mad when he told me what he did. I asked him to promise he won't do it again and he said he did. So today I was going to ask him if he wanted to hang out after school. He said he was going to call me when he was done dinner but he didn't. So I called and he said he couldn't talk. I asked why and I could hear his dad in the background saying tell her why. And he said because he was caught stealing drugs and doing them. And he can't hang out with anyone or take calls indefinaelty he said. Which means for like ever. He broke his promise. Even if I wanted to dump him there isn't really any way I could. On top of that he never calls me whenever he says he's going to. And he can never hang out. And other things which I wrote in a different topic. What should I do?
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I'm the same age as you and iv'e been there before. So you don't know if she likes you or not? Sounds like you really like her. You get butterflies whenever you see her. Do you consider yourself shy? Just ask her to go to the dance with you, but if she says No then don't get all sad and upset. Because if she is going and your going and just not with eachother you can still ask her to dance. And if she keeps rejecting you then that means she isn't interested. And if she isn't interested then don't go after her because there isn't any point. But if she says yes then go you! your a regular stud! If she says No still try and have a good time at the dance , She doesn't know what she's missin 8) There are plenty of fish in the sea and there is bound to be one that likes you!
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You aren't to hard to please. You just aren't pleased because the guy your with isn't the one for you. If you feel this way I think you should break up. Stop beating your self up over this. I'm sure he's a good guy. But he probably doesn't know how to react to your feelings. If it was the right guy he would have a long talk with you. Would you have wanted hom to have a long talk with you telling you the way he feels and the way you feel. You should sit him down and have a talk with him and tell him not to change the subject. If that doesn't work and he does change the subject then don't bother with him. Relationships are about listening to eachother, honesty, commitment, ect. I may be young but I know what they are supposed to be like. Why keep going with him when it's hurting you?
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Thanks for all your inputs it really helps . It's nice to know you have opinions unlike my friends who don't really care and say oh.. cool whenever I talk about what i'm thinking about. I can relate with I love kisses and hugs I have watched The phantom of the opera so many times and I still cry on it lol. And I never get bored with it. And the characters the acters play you wish that you had a guy like that. Most guys want sex and all that, that really bugs me. I don't know many descent guys. Does anyone? I know when your in a relationship you evenally get into those things but sometimes you aren't ready. Just like if you are going out for not very long and your partners asks you to something like that and you say it's to soon. But just like some of you guys I want to be in love every day and be romantic every day. Are guys just shy to something romantic or to say their feelings to a girl?
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I don't know if he thinks i'm a perfect girlfriend, I have never asked him or wondered. I know I'm not though. Neither is he. Just don't know how to tell him the things I have always wanted to tell my partners.. you know like deep thoughts.. When I tell people what i'm thinking about they just say "Oh.. cool" And then that's it. Afraid to tell my partner deep thoughts because if I get the same anwsers I always get or if he laughs at me then I will be emarrased or sad. I know if he is a good boyfriend he won't laugh but i'm the kind of person who kinda hides my feelings. But it's still fun to imagine my prince charming. I love watching all those kinds of like laugh movie.. well duh i'm girl and they're chick flicks 8)