Was your first sexual expereince w/same sex?

[yukonhippie]

Am I the only one who experienced this? My friend started touching eachother and having "swordfights" when we were both ten. By 11, we

were watching his dad's old porno flix and trying what we saw on eachother...poorly. But between 12 and 14, we were 'overnighting' at eachother's house 2 to 3 times a week, and having oral and anal sex

regularaly(we discovered lube). It is really difficult to admit this, but to this day it was some of the best sex of my life. Inside, I feel really

positive about it, even though I have never had sex with a male after

that. We very frequently gave eachother oral, and it seems odd how many

times I've swallowed cum even though I consider myself hetero.

Has anyone else had their first sexual expereince/relationship with the same sex. It is something you remember as positive? Fun?

[shikashika]

no I never experiences anything quite what you described! Well.. i'm a girl so I guess I couldn't technically have a swordfight

 

I did a bit of 'messing around' kissing blowjobs, handjobs before sex.. but not too much..

Most of my sexual experiences have been actual sex!

 

was this only one friend? did you talk about this to your other friends?

[yukonhippie]

No, we never told anyone else. I don't think it was until we were both 14 that we realized that what we were doing was WAY uncool to other guys we knew. At first we thought we were pretty cool because everyone was talking about sex, but we were actually DOING it. It it took quite a while to stop because we were hooked on it.

[HellFrost666]

No, I will say that off the bat...

 

But some many people have stories like this. What you did isn't out of the ordinary.

[puff.tm.dragon]

No, it was a tissue box.

[HellFrost666]

No, it was a tissue box.

 

The balled of Puff and his puffs, lol.

[shellshocked]

"Puff's and the Magic Dragon"

 

(too bad they closed that Porn thread in OT...)

[equinox]

I've had none yet but I would only kiss and make out with another guy, that's my limit.

[itsallgrand]

My first sexual experiences were with a girl. Though not as intense nor at such as early age as yourself.

 

It was positive.

 

I don't think it is unusual at all. Though, in plenty of circles it is not spoken about and/or looked down upon.

[KellyWyndham]

my first experience was at 10yrs old with another girl, we did stuff in the school toilets almost everyday for like a year or two! nothing that explicit but it was definetely out of the ordinary and it was really fun. like you, i consider it a positive thing. i wouldnt consider myself a lesbian now so its weird it happened. i dont think u shud be ashamed of what happened but if it stands in ur mind as great sex then maybe u shud think twice about ur sexuality..

[jengh]

Actually, mine was. My best friend growing up and I (and a couple of my other friends) would play "boyfriend/girlfriend" and kiss and dry hump and such.. We even went as far as fingering when we got a little older.

 

I still question my true sexuality, meaning whether or not I'm bisexual. I DEFINITELY love men, but I've had a couple of drunken sexual encounters with one of my girl friends.... hmm..

[joiseygrl]

I was about 10 or so. My first few sexual experiences were with other young girls. We used to swim in my pool and go under water while the other one would pull their bathing suit to the side so we could see their privates. Then we graduated to full on "making out" and rubbing each other while away at Girl Scout Camp. I remember one night there were 6 of us in the room all naked and role-playing with one another. One day it just stopped and we never mentioned even to this day.

[Q-ball]

I'm a guy, a very straight guy who was a little grossed out by this thread, but yes, I did do some oral a few times when I was about 10 with a guy friend, but this was before we were even able to cum thank god. I definitely like girls alot, I think it was just that the girls I knew at 10 weren't putting out

[Lboogie23]

yeah, i was with girls first. It was kinda like you, we didn't know that what we were doing was considered taboo or anything bc we were young between 8 and 12 yrs old. It was my neighbor and she was my best friend. We used to have slumber parties and we were just doing what felt good at the time.

Ironically, a few years later when i was 15 i started another girl/girl sexual relationship . This is all before i ever even had sex with men. I'm still attracted to females, i consider myself to be bi sexual.

[yukonhippie]

This has certainly been positive feedback. I felt emboldened by this to tell this new lady I'm with about my sexual activity when I was 12 thru fourteen. It must be the math major in her that made her think about it this way: she asked me how often did we give eachother blowjobs during this time. I said

usually 2 or 3 times a week - sometimes more often. She thought for a moment, looked at me and asked "you've given over a thousand blowjobs - do you realize that? You still don't think you're a little * * * * *?" I said no, I'm glad about what I did, but although I would never say never to any type of sex, it's not part of me now. I can't believe I still am getting these kinds of reactions instead of positive feedback. Anyone else get these kinds of reations when they talk about these first expereinces?

[TheRedQueen]

My first sexual experiences were with girls. I believe that's fairly normal.

[treefrogkate]

My first experiences weren't with girls, but recently a group of my female college friends and I have been getting very touchy-feely at parties, with boob/butt grabbing, kissing, licking each others' necks and cleavage, nibbling on each others' ears, etc. I would still consider myself straight, since I have a boyfriend (yes, he is not only aware of my actions with these women, he approves of it, especially if he gets to watch), but it's fun to experiment.

 

Yukonhippie, I don't think it makes you gay to have had these experiences. Kids (and I guess adults too, lol) experiment, that's how they learn. I don't think there's anything wrong at all with your experience.

[EvaGina]

My first lesbian xp was when I was little, with my neighbour. It was kinda scary, but she used to make me.

Then when I was 13 I got drunk and had sex with my best friend... that was just a bit awkward the next day, but it was fine.

[kr356]

my girlfriend and I used to masturbate together when we were 9 or 10, we didnt really understand what we were doing at the time though, just that it felt good and it was a game we used to play..

[populargurl211]

somewhere around 12 or so i spent the whole night with two girls about a year older than me....we were definetly having fun. it was all talked about and i had the best oral ive ever received. i also gave the best oral

[rocklovinggirl]

Me and one of my old friends would dry hump each other when we were like 12 years old or so. It was mostly a pleasure thing though I am bi-sexual now and have messed around with two girls before marrying my husband.

 

But I do think if you really enjoyed it you might be attracted to guys...

[Cutting_deeper]

Yup my first experience was with a girl when i was very young. One night she just asked if i wanted to have sex with her. I said yes and we did it every time i stayed the night there. Then we got caught and never did it again. The same sort of thing happened with my next door neighboors who were older then me.

[Bionic_Agent]

Great thread and an interesting subject. But it's also one of the least talked-about aspects of growing up, even though it's happening under everyone's noses at high school.

 

My first sexual experiences were all with other males of the same age. Just the usual sleepover situations where porn videos late at night (sometimes with a bit of booze and maybe marijuana) cause high school boys to do things they wouldn't be game enough to do at any other time. From what I can see, there was a lot of it about back then (late 80's and early 90's) and many of the boys were the popular, sporty kind that nobody would suspect.

All of them went on to have girlfriends, wives and, in some cases, kids so it never had a detrimental effect on them. In fact, I suspect some of them think back to their wild days in odd moments (i.e. when the wife is too tired and the kids are getting on their nerves) and wish they had buddies like that again for a secret thrill.

[HomerAlaska]

Whoa, I read this and knew I had to sign up & spill my guts. All these years I was thinking me and my 'boyfriend' were the only ones who ever had sex when we were like 11 & 12. It's great knowing my "secret" was really no big - looks like there's lots of others who did it. But we both knew it was a BIG BIG no-no. Especially in a small town like this. Let my lady know just a few days back and she told me about this site. She said it was no biggie. WOW - I don't like such a weirdo anymore.

[Zampotne]

I think the reason you got that kind of reaction from the lady you're with is because maybe it scared her a little- I doubt she just doesn't approve- she may just be scared that there's a chance that you could leave her for another man. I wouldn't take it personally. Maybe she thought that the reason you shared this with her was because you were trying to "tell her something," ya know? When actually you were just being open.