hopeless66 Posted September 20, 2007 Share Posted September 20, 2007 I never called her back on day 10 of NC. It was a trap, she was calling about a jacket she left behind that she NEVER wore in the 4 years she had it. I found out because, first she called my best friends wife(they were best friends), then she called my roomate.... * * * was that...well now I am on day 17 NC..... Hard today because I just got a HUGE job that I always thought would make us both happy...(I got a gig doing the voice of one of the main characters in a cartoon) weird how crappy somethings get, all the positives that come out at the same time.... Link to comment
bubblyblonde11 Posted September 20, 2007 Share Posted September 20, 2007 week eleven or twelve - to be honest I don't count anymore not interested in contacting him period Link to comment
tushboy Posted September 20, 2007 Share Posted September 20, 2007 I don't even know what day it is, I am not bothered. I am done with him.. Link to comment
Dazla Posted September 20, 2007 Share Posted September 20, 2007 Day 3 for me..and GAR im very stable in my consicious mind but my god I hate my sub-consicious!!!. I had a nightmare last night that my SISTER was hiding from me that my ex was cheating on me with some guy shes friends with. However this guy fancies my ex's best friend and was in a relationship. In this nightmare I saw them all over each other in a club or something. Then all of a sudden we were going to Amsterdam, my ex, this guy and a few of her friends. One of her friends was smuggling drugs and my ex was helping her. At the same time she was all over this guy. I think it was basically my worst nightmare to date!!!...But alas ive woke up back into reality. Link to comment
milesaway Posted September 20, 2007 Share Posted September 20, 2007 Day 27 today. It's weird there are days where I feel great and then memories of all the great times creep up on me and I get dperessed. Although, I have not even gotten close to contacting her. I have even abstained to contact her for my personal belongings...but I will inevitably have to get some of my fall/winter clothes back. I was hoping she would just pack and send them to me. Link to comment
SouthGeorgiaGal Posted September 20, 2007 Share Posted September 20, 2007 It takes all I can do to keep busy after work. I have a twelve year old who keeps me a little occupied. (Why just a little? Because she's at that age when she has a phone permanently attached to her ear!!) I'm taking it one day at a time. Just when I think I'm better, I'll see something, hear something, etc. and I realize I am not as "better" as I think I am. I AM the little engine that could. Go me!! Link to comment
CHEMICAL_ROMANCEXXX Posted September 21, 2007 Share Posted September 21, 2007 i'm in. NC day 1 Link to comment
Dazla Posted September 22, 2007 Share Posted September 22, 2007 Day 5. Day 4 was soo hard. I actually lost count how many times I cried. I got about 3 hours sleep on top of that too Ive found out she's already asking about me though..Still the battle goes on Link to comment
Rosie007 Posted September 28, 2007 Share Posted September 28, 2007 Well, I'm back. Can't write now; I'm at work ... but I wanted to get started on NC ASAP. So I'm here. 'Cause I know it works. Perhaps it won't be so painful this time around, because I didn't lose myself again. I tried to be optimistic, but I'd say I took very good care of myself, all things considered. But he just doesn't love me back. And that's just the way it is. So this is where I want to be. -Rosie Link to comment
Nat12 Posted September 29, 2007 Share Posted September 29, 2007 First Day... Broke up about 2 weeks ago... try to be friend but now its really mess with my head... so told him today that I can't talk to him.... Hope I can do this... P.S. I work with the guy! Link to comment
hopeless66 Posted September 29, 2007 Share Posted September 29, 2007 So I am on day 27 NC... Kinda wanted to call today... I thought she called a couple days ago, since i got a few calls in a row from a blocked number, so stupidly I blocked mine and called hers back a few hours later... Just hung up after about 5 seconds because it was stupid, I wasn't gonna talk to her if she picked up... She changed her ringer song to a depressing song which made me worry about her a little... Beautiful Disaster by Jon McLaughlin.. Its probebly nothing, but I still get bothered.. Here's my thoughts in another post Link to comment
dqueen Posted September 29, 2007 Share Posted September 29, 2007 It's been 1 month and 2 days now since the breakup...I broke NC once...so it's technically err...*counts on fingers*...3 weeks of NC. I feel...HURT! The sting isn't as bad as it was the day of the breakup but I'm still struggling, still crying and still cursing fate for letting things happen the way it did. I hate this. As much as I still love him, I really hope I can do NC forever. Link to comment
JiSer Posted September 29, 2007 Share Posted September 29, 2007 Its been ten weeks now I still think of her a quite a bit. Too many fanatasys...what would happen if this happened etc. No contact from my ex at all! But I am meeting new people all the time and life is good! Every day which goes past I feel lonley but I get stronger! Link to comment
tao_of_me Posted September 29, 2007 Share Posted September 29, 2007 Not counting her contacting me (I picked up the phone once in this time when she called me), I'm at like day 35. Link to comment
Langeveldt Posted September 30, 2007 Share Posted September 30, 2007 Day 1 So this is what it feels like at the bottom.. I've got nothing left.. Facebook is the killer, I can't stop myself checking it.. She sent me some really sweet messages which are probably going to give me false hope.. Link to comment
heartbrokenFloridiot Posted September 30, 2007 Share Posted September 30, 2007 Day 19. I'm seeing my former stepdaughter today. No need to see or contact the ex over this, but just through conversation with the stepdaughter I will find out information about the ex's life. I love spending time with her, but wish I could do it without finding out ANYTHING about the ex. Also, I always find myself telling the stepdaughter about my life. I don't want to do that as I'm sure she tells the ex what we've talked about. I don't want to know what is happening in the ex's life and I don't want her to know anything about my life either. Link to comment
Langeveldt Posted October 1, 2007 Share Posted October 1, 2007 Day 2 Can't stop checking her Facebook, which is good in a way, because her new boy is in town and she says she is feeling "confused" on her profile.. Looks like no contact is having an effect already and it's making me feel better.. I don't know how to read into it though, I know its about me, but I don't want any more false hope... I don't contact her at all, but if she initiates contact I go along with it. She called over to drop some of my stuff off and I asked her what she was doing with her new guy this week, to which she replied "I don't know".. I was going out with some of our mutual friends and she looked a bit upset about staying inside.. If she initiates contact, shall I ask her why she's confused? Link to comment
dqueen Posted October 1, 2007 Share Posted October 1, 2007 One month 4 days of NC.....and I still want him back!!!!!!!! He's in my thoughts 24/7...pretty much treated me like s*** and walked all over me. Why oh why do I love him? Link to comment
SuperDave71 Posted October 1, 2007 Author Share Posted October 1, 2007 Hi dqueen, This is probably the most sought after question of all after a breakup besides, how do I get them back. I wish you the best!! -SuperDave71 Link to comment
KAT MOMMY Posted October 1, 2007 Share Posted October 1, 2007 OK honey I am game. Sign me the hell up. Today is 1st day (time/2:48 pm est)/October 1 monday is the date. Wish me luck!!! Link to comment
KAT MOMMY Posted October 1, 2007 Share Posted October 1, 2007 what does it mean when the male falls to sleep after sex? Link to comment
SuperDave71 Posted October 1, 2007 Author Share Posted October 1, 2007 Hey there Kat Mommy, Welcome to the challenge. It is somewhat normal for a man or a woman to fall sleep after sex. Now granted they do it allll the time, one could take it a bit personal. I did find an interesting article on the subject that you might find helpful. link removed See if this helps! -SuperDave71 Link to comment
TijuanaJones Posted October 1, 2007 Share Posted October 1, 2007 Day 2 Can't stop checking her Facebook, which is good in a way, because her new boy is in town and she says she is feeling "confused" on her profile.. Looks like no contact is having an effect already and it's making me feel better.. I don't know how to read into it though, I know its about me, but I don't want any more false hope... I don't contact her at all, but if she initiates contact I go along with it. She called over to drop some of my stuff off and I asked her what she was doing with her new guy this week, to which she replied "I don't know".. I was going out with some of our mutual friends and she looked a bit upset about staying inside.. If she initiates contact, shall I ask her why she's confused? Please read this... I think it will help you. Link to comment
illnvrluvher Posted October 1, 2007 Share Posted October 1, 2007 super dave i am in..... Link to comment
SuperDave71 Posted October 1, 2007 Author Share Posted October 1, 2007 Welcome to my challenge illnvrluvher! -SuperDave71 Link to comment
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