Dazla

Fate.....quite simply Ofcourse love, and memories of a good relationship makes you realise, but its truly fate that will bring you back together. It may be that some people, both parties feel this way, but its just not happened, as its not yet their fate, or may never be. I believe in fate so much. A chap asked me at work the other day where Riverside close was - Id never heard of the place so i couldnt help him. During my shift as i drove around I saw Riverside close in 4 different towns that day - Id never seen any of these places before. Some things in this world we just cannot explain, fate is one of them.

Day...erm 17 or 18. Id like to think it would get better each day, but I feel as though im fighting it off most of the time, and it feels so horrible right now. But in a fashion this is the type of things that bring people back after such a long time, feelings can be dormant one minute, then explode the next, I just hope it happens to her.

I dont know how your relationship was previously, but if thats the case your certainly better off without him.

I can kinda guess how you feel. My ex told me the exact same thing, and to be honest Ill always think that I cant truly move on. She's 22 been in relationship's since 14. Shes never been single and thats what she wants right now, only person who can make her realise its a bad move is herself. Its utter crap, but then life's a b****. Literally the only thing wrong with our relationship was the timing. It sounds like your in the same scenario, that one day she/he will come back. Theres a huge percent of folk who have "the one that got away", and its often the case whereby its the dumpers who think this. No one knows what our future holds and thats what keeps me strong - but at the same time I know I shouldnt feel this way Day 13 of NC, I still love and want her back just as much as when I gave her a last kiss goodbye a month and a half ago now.

Day 9 of NC after 7 day stints of her contacting me trying to keep me as a friend. I thought i was doing good, but now ive slipped, probably cus its been the weekend, shell be out getting wasted and doing things with guys, whilst I cry myself to sleep. Ive not checked her twitter or FB...nothing, but I cant stop thinking about her its just makes it worse not better. I miss her so much, I loved and ive lost as Rihanna says.

I accept..again lol. Day 1 She needed space 5 days ago so I went nc then. But I broke it to find out where I was as we were still together then, now she's still not said were over (she clearly still loves me, dhe also misses me shes just confused) but I've made it clear enough I'm out her life now.....and my god I've not actually felt like this as I've never had such a good relationship with her...I live in hope though it's the wrong thing I know that she will realise what she's lost. (think I've set a crying record where I was just short of being sick) ;(

This thread has stopped me crying whilst I've been reading so it's definitely a good thing. As Im starting my life again single. I met p a year and a half ago and I knew she was something special, she felt the same and we got together, the relationship was great, to this day I don't think we ever seriously came to any blows or harse fallouts, we had our ups and downs but nothing major and loved each other dearly. I moved into her parents sharing a single bed...the worse scenario we could be in as I was suffocating her space and freedom, we managed 7 months and now she's said "she wants space, doesn't know what she wants" so now I've gone nc and frankly am a mess! This thread has helped, but I also want to say that I know it works. I was with one of my ex's for 3 years, she used the exact same words with me some 5 years ago. I pleaded begged like a puppy for about 3 months after she split...I never gave her the space she needed. Anyway I went nc and two weeks later she text me, we tried again and dated for another 2 months on and off. After that she called it a day as she was actually seeing someone else too! So I went nc again...3 months later I bump into her on a night out and she calls me, saying she's been stupid making a silly mistake and she misses me and loves me and would like to try again........It was too late by then as I started a new relationship. New relationship with k starts becoming crap...real crap so I break up wiv the k as I wanted space, she goes nc...and then after a week I realised I didn't want it so we reconcile. This happened 3 times before we broke up. With p I know it's different there was nothing wrong with the relationship other then that I moved in with her and we were basically living off each other our problems were lack of intimacy, never went out and felt more like friends.....all because I'd moved in, she felt bad and I felt awkward being intimate knowing her parents were in the next room and I felt guilty spending any money as I moved in there to save, I just hope she realises what she's lost when it's gone, she's said herself I'm the best guy she's ever met and shell probably regret it, I know I just need to let her have her space...hopefully itll end up in a Kate n wills style ending

Day 5. Day 4 was soo hard. I actually lost count how many times I cried. I got about 3 hours sleep on top of that too Ive found out she's already asking about me though..Still the battle goes on

Day 3 for me..and GAR im very stable in my consicious mind but my god I hate my sub-consicious!!!. I had a nightmare last night that my SISTER was hiding from me that my ex was cheating on me with some guy shes friends with. However this guy fancies my ex's best friend and was in a relationship. In this nightmare I saw them all over each other in a club or something. Then all of a sudden we were going to Amsterdam, my ex, this guy and a few of her friends. One of her friends was smuggling drugs and my ex was helping her. At the same time she was all over this guy. I think it was basically my worst nightmare to date!!!...But alas ive woke up back into reality.

Yea the only thing I would do if my ex contacted me would be direct words like "I miss you" or "Do you want to get a drink or go out sometime". Other then that let it drive her crazy that she cant get into contact with you...Drive her crazy and her true intentions will come out. Love is a burning desire. If shes messed up she will keep TRYING AND TRYING. If its about her ego she will give up after a bit.