Day 19. I'm seeing my former stepdaughter today. No need to see or contact the ex over this, but just through conversation with the stepdaughter I will find out information about the ex's life. I love spending time with her, but wish I could do it without finding out ANYTHING about the ex.
Also, I always find myself telling the stepdaughter about my life. I don't want to do that as I'm sure she tells the ex what we've talked about. I don't want to know what is happening in the ex's life and I don't want her to know anything about my life either.