tao_of_me

OMG ROFL That was absolutely perfect timing.... put a smile on my face, thank you. As for me, I'm not gonna hate on the guy. Don't hate the player, hate the game. If the OP wants to employ this method and it works for him and he's not hurting anyone in the process good for him. And seriously, for those who have been there, for many of us the first lay after a bad breakup is, if nothing else, a milestone. "hey, there is life after X after all....I am still attractive to the opposite sex after all.. I still have game after all", etc. i understand people questioning the motives and such of this method but hey, priorities change, esp. after a major life-changing event like a major breakup. maybe this helps the OP achieve balance a little bit - everybody's different. And maybe for him, "finding a soulmate" is not the be-all and end-all of life right now, and it's Ok to have fun. Assuming all the sex is consensual and he's not lying to these women and no one's getting hurt, I think it's fine if it works for that particular person. to the OP.... play on

Not counting her contacting me (I picked up the phone once in this time when she called me), I'm at like day 35.