the spot that drives you insane

[Day_Walker]

Each woman has an errogenous zone that when touched gets them in the mood. Sometimes it is something obscure and sometimes it is something obvious, I am looking for answers from women about their particular spot and from guys stating what has worked with females you have been with.

 

Probably the most common errogenous zone in my experience would be the nipples, of course the techniques were different for each girl. What has been your experience and feel free to throw in the strange errogenous zones as well.

[Scout]

My neck. When someone kisses my neck, I get the shivers!

 

Not to hijack your thread, DW, but I'm wondering if the neck is an erogenous zone for any guys, too.

[Newo Ikkin]

Hip area, particularly hip bone. Sounds weird, but works well!

And Scout, yes, my partner is proof.

[applepie]

this inside of the elbows...mmm...

[BellaDonna]

If I have sex on my mind, everthing pretty much becomes a potential erogenous zone, however I would say the biggest one for me is my knee. If my husband happens to place his hand on it and rub or squeeze, I'm ready to go. Sometimes he'll do it just to be a pain in the behind, especially if we're out to dinner with others and we're sitting next to one another in a booth.

 

 

but I'm wondering if the neck is an erogenous zone for any guys, too

 

Seems to be for mine....

 

 

BellaDonna

[Day_Walker]

I'm wondering if the neck is an erogenous zone for any guys, too.

 

I dont know many guys who would say it is their neck however many of my male friends agree that the ears, are a spot that works well.

[chigal28]

Yep, neck is good in general...but specifically the spot right below my right ear. And my boyfriend knows it, too...

[Scout]

I like having my ear kissed, but no tongue! Ick, that feels gross to me.

[chai714]

I believe the most effective way to get a woman to react to your touch is to be able to make her feel a certain way. Typically, this is accomplished through talking. I think once you get any woman to a certain point by making her feel a certain way, she will react positively to almost any touch (if not attack you).

 

As far as specific physical locations, I would think areas that are touched less (by clothing and everyday living) could possibly set her off such as the back of her neck, just beneath her underarms, ears, and inner thighs.

[amtjrtcet]

My boyfriend is AMAZING at foreplay. He'll have me lay on my stomach and rub my back, then he kisses literally EVERY inch of my body. But when he kisses the backs of my knees I feel like I'm going to have an orgasm.

[Scout]

I believe the most effective way to get a woman to react to your touch is to be able to make her feel a certain way. Typically, this is accomplished through talking.

 

This is spot-on (no pun intended with research I've read that indicates women respond more physically when an emotional connection has been forged. So, when sex is preceded by emotional intimacy, that really helps!

[joiseygrl]

I have a buch of spots, some are more obvious than others:

 

the palms of my hands and my wrists

the crook of my elbows

the back of my knees

the spot just below my ears

the inner upper thigh area

the spot where my leg meets my butt

anywhere down my spine

[Honey Pumpkin]

Nape of neck, neck, behind ears, ears - mmm, gets me going every time.

Backs of knees too, and inside elbows.

[RayKay]

So far I guess I am the only one with this one on this thread!:

 

For me, that spot on my lower back, just at the lower spine....touch/pressure there just drives me over the wall.

[Scout]

So far I guess I am the only one with this one on this thread!:

 

For me, that spot on my lower back, just at the lower spine....touch/pressure there just drives me over the wall.

 

That's actually a great spot! There are lots of nerve endings centered there, a little known fact.

[treefrogkate]

Anywhere on my neck and ears will get me going. Actually, a little bite on the back of my neck drives me insane. My boyfriend has figured out that he can make me orgasm while I'm fully clothed and standing up by licking my neck.

[RayKay]

That's actually a great spot! There are lots of nerve endings centered there, a little known fact.

 

Well, I knew it It's your lower spinal cord, so yes...lots of potential pleasure points.

[nadine_3110]

All my bf has to do is nibble or kiss my ear and my whole body gets shivers and he knows it!

[NKP]

The back of my lower back that drives me crazy just been touched and my lower hips, and neck

[perfectliljewel]

my neck(kissing), my ear('nibbling'), my sides(tickling), and the small of my back(tickling).

 

and my bf goes CRAZY if i kiss his neck... its really fun to kiss his neck then tell him i have to go somewhere its funny to see his reaction

[itsthatguy]

My girlfriend has a few oddities, and I do as well.

 

The tips of the hip bones, kissing there drives her absolutely nuts. Same with the lower back, and the edges of the collar bones. Also likes it if I slowly kiss all down her thighs, but what girl doesn't

 

I think a lot of guys are uncomfortable with this, but the nipples for me are pretty fantastic. Pretty much any kissing down my neck and chest gets me going real fast, but her kissing my nipples is definitely one thing that gets me going like nobodies business.

[coollady1957]

There are many, but I guess the best one for me is the neck kissing/ nibbling. Especially on the back of my neck when my boyfriend pushes my hair up and aside to kiss my neck and down the side of my neck to where the shoulder starts..... thats some " good stuff" !!!!

[lman69]

Im very surprised no one has said "rear end" yet.

[gemma84]

I absolutely love it when my boyfriend strokes my head and hair, if we get a little kinky, pulling it a little drives me crazy! As for my boyfriend he is in heaven when I kiss his neck and nibble on his ear lobes, he also loves me kissing his nipples oh yeah!

[BeStrongBeHappy]

well, the stock answer is the biggest erogenous zone is the brain! by that i mean, you can get someone totally turned on without even touching them if the chemistry between you is good, and then anywhere you touch is on the money... and if the chemistry is bad, you could hit all the erogenous zones at once, and nothing turns her on...

 

so ask her what she likes, treat her right... talk to her about what you'd like to do to her... etc. everybody is different...