calgaryguy Posted July 13, 2006 Share Posted July 13, 2006 Hi everyone, I have not been on in a while, but I figured I would stop by and fill you all in on whats been going on since so many of you helped me through out my "issues". Basically for all you that dont know my story My gf and I of 3 years broke up at christmas time. Well Last week we decided to meet up and go for a drink. Well guess what............................... ...... .. .... .... wait for it.... ....... .. .. .... .... ... WERE BACK TOGETHER!!! YAY!!!!! .... I really am quite happy about this and the best thing is I followed no contact for quite some time and apparently it worked. She called me one day, then it went to 2 times a day then she basically told me she loved me still, had been doing a lot of thinking, wanted to be with me, couldnt be with anyone else....and so on. Well Since we have been having lots of good times together and it almost feels as if we never broke up. She has matured quite a bit since then and seems like she knows what she wants now. Its kind of weird but ya. Anyways Thanx everyone for all the help and advice through out that * * * *ty time in my life, and wish you all the very best. I still log on once in a while so feel free to PM me if you need any advise or suggestions as well. ThanX again everyone. Link to comment
Godspeed Posted July 13, 2006 Share Posted July 13, 2006 Congratulations and I wish you all the luck... Link to comment
yeawutever Posted July 13, 2006 Share Posted July 13, 2006 Good to hear everything is going well and that you guys are back together again!!!!!!!!! Good luck!!!!!!!! Link to comment
Dako Posted July 13, 2006 Share Posted July 13, 2006 Congratulations! I hope you two have a fine future together. Link to comment
Beaker5 Posted July 13, 2006 Share Posted July 13, 2006 WOW...congratulations!!! That's great news. So I guess No contact really works for the best. of joy Link to comment
BeatleJon Posted July 13, 2006 Share Posted July 13, 2006 Thats great!!! Congrats!!!! I hope it works for me too!! Link to comment
iceman85 Posted July 13, 2006 Share Posted July 13, 2006 It's about time we saw some good news on here. I'm very happy for you Calgary and wish you the best of luck, your experience and insight would be greatly appreciated if you could find the time to post on just how you went about things. Link to comment
Spugly Fuglet Posted July 13, 2006 Share Posted July 13, 2006 Well done, keep i good all the best with it Link to comment
Listen2Morrissey Posted July 13, 2006 Share Posted July 13, 2006 How long between you going NC and her contacting you? I'm on month 3, which may not seem like a lot but I still wonder if she will ever call. Link to comment
yeawutever Posted July 13, 2006 Share Posted July 13, 2006 How long between you going NC and her contacting you? I'm on month 3, which may not seem like a lot but I still wonder if she will ever call. If she cares enough about working on the relation again and wants you back, then she'll call you. Link to comment
feelin_blue Posted July 13, 2006 Share Posted July 13, 2006 Congratulations - hopefully I will have a story like this to tell soon Sorry, sorry, Just plain congratulations! Ignore the depressing stuff! Link to comment
calgaryguy Posted July 13, 2006 Author Share Posted July 13, 2006 Thanx a lot for the replys guys and girls!! There is not much to say but try to do things for yourself and try to forget about the one you lost. I know its hard but if you try to occupy yourself with things time will pass faster. I joined a gym, met new people, partys partys partys haha, got into soccer.....and so on. It really helps. Best of all try to make yourself look really good just incase there is a chance you might run into them It was quite funny how all the sudden she called me and I didnt answer, then i get home and there is a msn msg. Next day same thing , phone call, i dont pick up, followed by a text msg and a msn msg. Finally I gave in the third day and we chatted for hours. Next day there was a couple hour long conversations, then the meeting. It was nice cause her sister and her bf came out as well and we went to the stampede ( this big show thing in calgary ) It kind of let me relax a bit more knowing If I didnt have anything to say to her i could go off and talk to someone else. The next day we went to a movie together ( superman So there you have it, basically dont do anything. Stay positive, work on yourself, and before you know it they will be back in your arms ( if its true love that is ) Thanx for reading If anyone has anything else to ask then please do, im happy to help where ever i can. Take care friends. Link to comment
mikeca Posted July 13, 2006 Share Posted July 13, 2006 nice job, I believe there was alot of improvement on both sides during your time apart. man, this is the first time in like 5 years I'm not in Calgary for the summer, bought my car out there last year, its a 2nd home. Link to comment
futychick Posted July 14, 2006 Share Posted July 14, 2006 CALGARY GUY... am sooooooo happy for you...in fact I cried when i read your post.... i wish you and your lover all the luck in the world....i really do... i love hearing positive news......it makes me feel like there is hope.... i hope one day to post on here one day with news that my husband has come back to me..once he has worked thro this depression.....i trying to stay positive and as you say if its meant to be then it will happen.... heres hoping....!! take care and loadsa love and luck for your future.. futy xxxxx Link to comment
calgaryguy Posted July 14, 2006 Author Share Posted July 14, 2006 awww that was sweet of you Im sure everything will work out for you! And Im sure he misses you a lot, like I said hun stay positive and look on the bright side of things. PS : calgary kicks but ( but only during the summer....so 3 months a year haha ) Link to comment
Juha Posted July 14, 2006 Share Posted July 14, 2006 Congrats Calgaryguy...Makes me happy someone gets what they want back... Just don't hear or see something like this much so feel very lucky... Good Job Link to comment
calgaryguy Posted July 14, 2006 Author Share Posted July 14, 2006 ya i do see myself as extremely lucky. This girl was my world and now its back, every day I wake up im so much more happy and full of energy, it rocks!!! I dont think its that rare though, I know quite a bit of people that get back together with their ex's, although sometimes it doesnt work in the end. Thanx for all the replys Link to comment
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