Trish53 Posted July 11, 2023 Share Posted July 11, 2023 Hi I slept with an r& b singer from the late 80s til late 90s. He's in a famous group from back then. We started chatting yrs ago.We didn't live in the same state but mos later I just happen to move to the same big city he is in. We met face to face for the first time in Jan.I met him at a 5 star hotel. Once we had sex he made up the bed so I wouldn't get back in. So we were going hook up again. We still keep in touch. I know what you will say.Anyway he only will hook up if he could come to my house. Now why can't he get a room like before? He is the one with the money. When asked if I'm home alone I said no. He stopped replying. I even said I'll come meet you he ddnt reply. Link to comment
Wiseman2 Posted July 11, 2023 Share Posted July 11, 2023 16 minutes ago, Trish53 said: he only will hook up if he could come to my house. Now why can't he get a room like before? Because you're willing to hook up. Link to comment
Trish53 Posted July 11, 2023 Author Share Posted July 11, 2023 But I told him I wasn't alone because my daughter ⬅️ ves with me. Link to comment
Wiseman2 Posted July 11, 2023 Share Posted July 11, 2023 10 minutes ago, Trish53 said: But I told him I wasn't alone because my daughter ⬅️ ves with me. You have the option to say no. 1 Link to comment
Trish53 Posted July 11, 2023 Author Share Posted July 11, 2023 6 minutes ago, Wiseman2 said: You have the option to say no. There was no need. He didn't reply once he knew I didn't live by myself. I was the one who wanted to hook up so why would I even say no. He's the celebrity not me. Link to comment
HeartGoesOn Posted July 11, 2023 Share Posted July 11, 2023 If a booty call were to cost him more than a cup of coffee, he's off to the next candidate. Why not raise the bar? 3 Link to comment
Trish53 Posted July 11, 2023 Author Share Posted July 11, 2023 But he have money don't they like to brag they have it like that? Link to comment
boltnrun Posted July 11, 2023 Share Posted July 11, 2023 15 minutes ago, Trish53 said: But he have money don't they like to brag they have it like that? They can also get free sex from any number of fans. He's not going to pay for what he can get for free somewhere else. 1 1 Link to comment
shouldhavelearned Posted July 11, 2023 Share Posted July 11, 2023 Not sure of the reason you posted this It's not a relationship You didn't tell him who was at you house The person hasn't been famous for years so it sounds like it's more about your ego and saying you slept with a "celebrity" 1 Link to comment
Trish53 Posted July 11, 2023 Author Share Posted July 11, 2023 The person was in r& b group in the late 80s til 90s and still touring now. Just toured in March with another famous group.I would say that's yrs. Decades. Link to comment
MissCanuck Posted July 11, 2023 Share Posted July 11, 2023 1 hour ago, Trish53 said: don't they like to brag they have it like that? What does it matter now? He has stopped replying and is no longer interested. Link to comment
lostandhurt Posted July 11, 2023 Share Posted July 11, 2023 Exactly what is your question? Seems like you are bragging about having a hook up with an old singer from back in the day. I imagine he has several numbers for women in a lot of cities and he just texted someone else. He wants easy sex and you didn't provide that so he found it somewhere else. Lost 1 Link to comment
Trish53 Posted July 11, 2023 Author Share Posted July 11, 2023 If I were bragging I wouldn't of said it was someone from back in the day first if all and second I wouldn't came in here to let everyone know that once he found out I couldn't invite him over he didn't reply back. Don't know how that is bragging 🤷♀️ My whole point of the post was about the fact that he's famous he couldn't come out his pocket for a hotel as he did before. That was the reason in sharing that info. Link to comment
Batya33 Posted July 11, 2023 Share Posted July 11, 2023 13 minutes ago, Trish53 said: If I were bragging I wouldn't of said it was someone from back in the day first if all and second I wouldn't came in here to let everyone know that once he found out I couldn't invite him over he didn't reply back. Don't know how that is bragging 🤷♀️ My whole point of the post was about the fact that he's famous he couldn't come out his pocket for a hotel as he did before. That was the reason in sharing that info. Some people might not want to throw away hundreds on a hotel room especially for quick sex no matter if they can "afford" it or otherwise -last time didn't you say he wanted you to leave after he had sex with you? Also he might be concerned about being seen at a hotel. I'd move on and find someone who wants to have sex with you and pay for a hotel room to your liking. 1 Link to comment
Trish53 Posted July 11, 2023 Author Share Posted July 11, 2023 Oh I see. Was just saying when comes to people in the spotlight I thought that's all they do. I honestly didn't think the even wanna go over to the person house that they had any type of encounter with relationship or just hook up. Link to comment
Batya33 Posted July 11, 2023 Share Posted July 11, 2023 Just now, Trish53 said: Oh I see. Was just saying when comes to people in the spotlight I thought that's all they do. I honestly didn't think the even wanna go over to the person house that they had any type of encounter with relationship or just hook up. Why? People are individuals -individuals react differently to being in the spotlight and for all you know he's happy to spend $$ on a hotel room for someone else he is involved with -just chose not to with you. Being in the spotlight can have zero impact on how someone spends his or her $ or when or how that person chooses to have sex with another person. Link to comment
smackie9 Posted July 11, 2023 Share Posted July 11, 2023 Old bands/musicians that were famous decades ago have to tour again because they ran out of money. Just because they have a $$$ mansion doesn't mean they have all that dough in the bank. They owe a lot in taxes, alimony, child support, etc. He may not have all that and a bag of chips. 3 Link to comment
Trish53 Posted July 11, 2023 Author Share Posted July 11, 2023 I doubt he have house let a lone a mansion but really nice car. Maybe time to time able go to nice hotel that's it Link to comment
Batya33 Posted July 11, 2023 Share Posted July 11, 2023 1 minute ago, Trish53 said: I doubt he have house let a lone a mansion but really nice car. Maybe time to time able go to nice hotel that's it How about save your $ so that if you want to have sex at a 5 star hotel since that is important to you you can pay for it? Or is that you feel "pampered" when a wealthy man who wants to have intercourse with you pays for a fancy hotel room to have sex in? Link to comment
Trish53 Posted July 11, 2023 Author Share Posted July 11, 2023 No it's you making it ego and I told him it was my daughter. You see like that maybe for whatever reason. I already explained why I posted it Link to comment
Trish53 Posted July 11, 2023 Author Share Posted July 11, 2023 Should I had posted same story about same situation and left out he was a well known person. Confused, 😕 Link to comment
smackie9 Posted July 11, 2023 Share Posted July 11, 2023 Obviously this was a situation where he just wanted to pump and jump out of there quick. He just didn't have time to wait for you to get a sitter and meet and make a thing about it. IMO he's not worth your time. 2 Link to comment
Wiseman2 Posted July 11, 2023 Share Posted July 11, 2023 19 hours ago, Trish53 said: I met him at a 5 star hotel. Once we had sex he made up the bed He may have a bunch of groupies. Either way, do you want to see him again? Maybe he's a has-been and has no money left, you never know. Link to comment
Trish53 Posted July 11, 2023 Author Share Posted July 11, 2023 I don't need a sitter for 24 yr old w baby. I said daughter I ddnt say child Link to comment
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