Husband cheated with sister

[Mamacoco]

My husband got very drunk with my sister and something happened.

my husband says it didn’t lead to sex my sister can’t remember but blames husband for planning it.

My husband was very very drunk but says not.

would you forgive either of them?

 

[Seraphim]

Sorry, I would be out the door forever. 

[Lambert]

I would cut both these people out of my life. 

[MissCanuck]

No, I would not forgive either of them. 

This would be grounds for a divorce for me as well. 

[waffle]

6 hours ago, Mamacoco said:

My husband got very drunk with my sister and something happened.

my husband says it didn’t lead to sex my sister can’t remember but blames husband for planning it.

My husband was very very drunk but says not.

would you forgive either of them?

 

Sounds like Sis was more drunk than your H.  Why were Sis and your husband drinking together?  And where were you?

[lostandhurt]

Hmmm,

I will hold my judgement until you explain the situation in more detail.

Lost

[Rose Mosse]

10 hours ago, Mamacoco said:

My husband got very drunk with my sister and something happened.

my husband says it didn’t lead to sex my sister can’t remember but blames husband for planning it.

My husband was very very drunk but says not.

would you forgive either of them?

 

It doesn’t matter what anyone else would do. Whatever you decide, make sure it’s a decision you can live with. I choose to live with as much peace of mind in my life as possible. 

[Wiseman2]

11 hours ago, Mamacoco said:

My husband says it didn’t lead to sex my sister can’t remember but blames husband for planning it.

Why were they drinking together? Where were you?

How long have you been married? 

Are they both problem drinkers or just your husband?

The main problem isn't what did or didn't happen considering they were supposedly both blackout fall down drunk.

The problem is you're married to an alcoholic and you're sister claims he took advantage of her even though he was passed out drunk?

This story makes no sense. 

 

[reinventmyself]

well, neither one is taking responsibility so there is no place for forgiveness to start.

 

[Lillyanna]

 forgive them move on 

[Leila22]

On 1/10/2022 at 10:49 PM, Mamacoco said:

My husband got very drunk with my sister and something happened.

my husband says it didn’t lead to sex my sister can’t remember but blames husband for planning it.

My husband was very very drunk but says not.

would you forgive either of them?

 

I would, if you still love him and you still want a relationship, I'd try and work things out, but be more cautious to not let things happen again as that isn't good on you're behalf.