Lillyanna

I’m sorry I’m not hooking up with anyone who doesn’t want a relationship I’m under the impression that he did when we met because that’s what he told me, it just puzzles me as to why he is not leaving his options open if I feel he isn’t that into me. I told him straight up how I felt.

He did agree to have a relationship with me and be committed with me sorry if I didn’t explain this in my question. Hes willing to be serious with me that’s why My question is could he be lying about this

Also, I stepped back we texted for a week and I responded back normally and didn't say anything about it but now since it's almost time we both have our day offs next week I don't want him to come pick me up and I stay with him for another 3 days if its not going towards something or if he doesn't feel the same way I do.

Well I don't drive he does and he lives an hour away so that's when he was able to bring me back and he didn't want me to go either but it was time....

I recently met this new guy we both recently went through breakups mine more recent than his... anyway we met November. We hung out many times I stayed at his out for long periods of time like a 4 days at a time.... I told him I wouldn't want to continue doing this because I don't want to feel used or do friends w/ benefits I seem to like him more than he does. I told him I may be falling for him I expressed my concerns to him since he doesn't text me back as fast as I text him. I told him having sexual activity should be with people who more than like each other because I'm not into the hook up thing. I'm looking for a relationship. When I tell him this he goes "But I do love you though..." My question is why is it worth it for him to lie to me? I mean he's not going on on tinder anymore or other dating apps. (Yes I know this as factual information he's not going on other apps It doesn't matter how I know...) I know he still may be upset about how his ex left him but he doesn't seem so into me.... He goes he feels he doesn't have to put in as much effort in texting because he feels we are already together and I will be coming over soon... He doesn't want to let me go knowing I may be falling hard for him. So he really is going to risk breaking my heart? instead of maybe keeping his options open and finding something he may really like.....? He's really going to tell me he loves me when I bring up how I'm looking for something serious....

forgive them move on