bdwiii Posted May 11, 2019 Share Posted May 11, 2019 I could really use some advice right now. I’ve just recently gotten back together with a woman who had once cheated on me about a year ago. Yeah I know, call me crazy, a fool, call me what you will, but she came back to me and approached me with the question of would I consider giving us another try. I said yes and that’s what brings me to the forum again. Since she’s been back the only thing I’m not liking is her wanting to go out with her girlfriend just a bit too much for comfort. I confronted her about this and she’s told me she’s going to stop doing it because she cares. However, when she stayed out too late, or hesitated in answering her phone or texts, I’d get paranoid right away and start thinking she was doing what she had done before which is why we parted ways in the first place. Basically I’m having trust issues because of the past even though now she’s proven me wrong three times already that she wasn’t doing anything wrong at all, and by my not trusting her, is hurting her now because it makes her feel like (in her words) “a piece of garbage.” Then we argue and I apologize for mistrusting her, yet I feel this will eventually destroy our relationship if I can’t get this in check. Can someone please help me with some advice? Link to comment
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