Is it too late to get back together?

[boltnrun]

What are you doing right now to try to get past this?

[gigicarmx]

Working out, working and socialising

[ninjabib]

Block him in full

[gigicarmx]

He’s proven he doesn’t respect me. I am growing indifferent

[boltnrun]

But are you still unwilling to block him? Are you still.hoping he contacts you to "try again"?

[MissCanuck]

He’s proven he doesn’t respect me. I am growing indifferent

 

I don't know about that, girl. This thread says otherwise.

[gigicarmx]

I don’t want him back. He’s stolen from me. That hurts more. Guess he’s proved what my value is to him

[Wiseman2]

Do you have proof of unauthorized purchases on all the cards and accounts you let him use? If not, it will be assumed that you gave him free rein since you didn't bother checking or changing the accounts or passcodes.

He’s stolen from me.

[MissCanuck]

I don’t want him back. He’s stolen from me. That hurts more. Guess he’s proved what my value is to him

 

Does he have access to your finances in any other way now? Any other cards he has his name on, or in his possession?

[gigicarmx]

He only had my bank details. Nothing else. The cards been cancelled, refunded and I’m waiting on a new card.

[MissCanuck]

He only had my bank details. Nothing else. The cards been cancelled, refunded and I’m waiting on a new card.

 

What does that mean, exactly? Does he have you account number?

 

"Only" having your bank details could be more serious than you realize. I am curious why he even had your card to begin with?

[Wiseman2]

Go to the police.

He only had my bank details. Nothing else. The cards been cancelled, refunded and I’m waiting on a new card.

[gigicarmx]

He had the card number. I paid something of his a while ago, the details had saved

[gigicarmx]

In a nutshell he no longer can use my money

[MissCanuck]

He had the card number. I paid something of his a while ago, the details had saved

 

This is sad, because it tells me he's been using you for money for a long time. Why couldn't he pay for it by himself, and how much did he spend this time?

 

How old are you both, by the way?

[gigicarmx]

it was a train ticket i bought for us off his phone. Well I had asked him a lot if he was and he would say no, I tried to leave him and he’d practically beg me not to

 

 

24 and 22

[gigicarmx]

The big amounts didn’t start until the end. He had debts.

[gigicarmx]

Also, when he ended it he said don’t end up offering money to anyone cos they just want it. He told me all this stuff about being paranoid he’d be so jealous with me

[ninjabib]

This situation sounds worse everytime you speak of him. Cut him dead out your life.

[Wiseman2]

Yes 145 posts now and sounding worse all the time.

This situation sounds worse everytime you speak of him. Cut him dead out your life.

[MissCanuck]

The big amounts didn’t start until the end. He had debts.

 

And why did you pay them? How much money have you spent on this guy?

[gigicarmx]

Around $700

[boltnrun]

But are you still unwilling to block him? Are you still.hoping he contacts you to "try again"?

 

Re posting.

[gigicarmx]

I blocked him

[ninjabib]

Good for you. Don't acknowledge him again