gigicarmx Posted August 13, 2018 Author Share Posted August 13, 2018 I know now I’m ready to move on Link to comment
gigicarmx Posted August 13, 2018 Author Share Posted August 13, 2018 Hey. Been talking to new people today and feeling better about myself. Thanks for all the support xxx Link to comment
ninjabib Posted August 13, 2018 Share Posted August 13, 2018 Good. Keep it up, dont look back. Link to comment
gigicarmx Posted August 14, 2018 Author Share Posted August 14, 2018 Tomorrow I will change my cell phone number. As he text me asking if he can sell something on my eBay, and he’ll pay me to let him. He’s irritating me now he has friends why does it have to be me he asks Link to comment
boltnrun Posted August 14, 2018 Share Posted August 14, 2018 Tomorrow I will change my cell phone number. As he text me asking if he can sell something on my eBay, and he’ll pay me to let him. He’s irritating me now he has friends why does it have to be me he asks Because you gave him $700. He figures you still love him and are willing to give him another $700. Changing your number is an excellent idea. Link to comment
gigicarmx Posted August 14, 2018 Author Share Posted August 14, 2018 I can’t wait I’ll go in store ASAP. Stupid annoying lil boy. He knows he’s getting nothing else off of me like it’s pathetic how he’s still trying Link to comment
Wiseman2 Posted August 14, 2018 Share Posted August 14, 2018 Why haven't you changed all your account info, passwords, banking and card information? Why haven't you blocked him? Are you hoping to keep him attached by buying his attention? Clearly you have done none of these if he's still asking to use your ebay, paypal and other accounts. Where you always his sugarmama?I can’t wait I’ll go in store ASAP. Stupid annoying lil boy. He knows he’s getting nothing else off of me like it’s pathetic how he’s still trying Link to comment
Chris12189 Posted August 14, 2018 Share Posted August 14, 2018 Changing your number is a big step. A month from now you'll look back and wonder why you tolerate this Link to comment
gigicarmx Posted August 14, 2018 Author Share Posted August 14, 2018 Why haven't you changed all your account info, passwords, banking and card information? Why haven't you blocked him? Are you hoping to keep him attached by buying his attention? Clearly you have done none of these if he's still asking to use your ebay, paypal and other accounts. Where you always his sugarmama? If you read above you’ll see several times that I’ve stated I’ve blocked his number and changed my info. The text I received was from WhatsApp. He doesn’t have any of my passwords anyway. And I’m not a sugar mama Link to comment
gigicarmx Posted August 14, 2018 Author Share Posted August 14, 2018 I’m just sick of it like he has friends ask them for favours idk why he asks me Link to comment
MissCanuck Posted August 14, 2018 Share Posted August 14, 2018 I’m just sick of it like he has friends ask them for favours idk why he asks me We've answered this: because you had previously demonstrated that you would give him money, and he's trying to see if you will give in again if he bothers you enough. Are you hoping we will tell you that he keeps asking because he secretly wants you back? Link to comment
gigicarmx Posted August 14, 2018 Author Share Posted August 14, 2018 No. I don’t want him back. I just can’t understand how he can be so cheeky Link to comment
ninjabib Posted August 14, 2018 Share Posted August 14, 2018 You let him become accustomed to it. Link to comment
boltnrun Posted August 14, 2018 Share Posted August 14, 2018 No. I don’t want him back. I just can’t understand how he can be so cheeky Because you always said yes before. That's why. Link to comment
gigicarmx Posted August 14, 2018 Author Share Posted August 14, 2018 I’m glad it’s been brought to my attention that I allowed it. I need to change. Lessons have been learnt. Link to comment
gigicarmx Posted August 16, 2018 Author Share Posted August 16, 2018 Not helping him is so hard, I’m a gentle caring person by nature and naturally I do want to help. But I know he takes advantage. He text me off his friends number saying “please” today and it hurt like hell just having to block it immediately. I want to move on and start dating again and I know I need this for personal growth. Idk. Just venting. X Link to comment
boltnrun Posted August 16, 2018 Share Posted August 16, 2018 Not helping him is so hard, I’m a gentle caring person by nature and naturally I do want to help. But I know he takes advantage. He text me off his friends number saying “please” today and it hurt like hell just having to block it immediately. I want to move on and start dating again and I know I need this for personal growth. Idk. Just venting. X I thought you got a new number the other day. You didn't give him the new number, did you? Link to comment
gigicarmx Posted August 16, 2018 Author Share Posted August 16, 2018 No no my number hasn’t been changed over yet it takes 48 hours Link to comment
ninjabib Posted August 17, 2018 Share Posted August 17, 2018 Do not let this chancer back into your life. His problems are his own to sort. Link to comment
gigicarmx Posted August 17, 2018 Author Share Posted August 17, 2018 I have no intention of him being in my life. Not now. Just is so horrible when all I want to do is help Link to comment
Chris12189 Posted August 17, 2018 Share Posted August 17, 2018 I have no intention of him being in my life. Not now. Just is so horrible when all I want to do is help Of course your heart wants to help but your brain is saying no! In this situation follow your brain not your heart. This guy is no bueno for you Link to comment
gigicarmx Posted August 17, 2018 Author Share Posted August 17, 2018 I know I won’t help him, I know I won’t respond, but it’s the opposite of what I want to do. My head is right though Link to comment
MissCanuck Posted August 17, 2018 Share Posted August 17, 2018 I know I won’t help him, I know I won’t respond, but it’s the opposite of what I want to do. My head is right though Let me ask you this: what would it do for you if you had helped him? Soothe an unfounded sense of guilt? Bring him back to you? Being a caring person is one thing. Being someone's doormat is another. The line is often blurred for people who want to believe they act from a place of care and concern (which is often true, to some extent) when really they rush to help because they are coming from a place of fear. They are actually afraid to lose the person and so will do whatever the other person asks to keep them from leaving. In my experience, people like this tend to not even realize their efforts to help are actually fear-motivated, more than anything else. Remember that the next time this loser tries to use you for money. Link to comment
Wiseman2 Posted August 17, 2018 Share Posted August 17, 2018 True, after all the name of the thread is "Is it too late to get back together?"I know I won’t help him, I know I won’t respond, but it’s the opposite of what I want to do. Link to comment
gigicarmx Posted August 17, 2018 Author Share Posted August 17, 2018 I don’t want him back. He’ll ruin my life Link to comment
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