lazysmash92 Posted March 3, 2018 Share Posted March 3, 2018 Hi all, On Tuesday the guy I was dating for two months broke up with me. He said I'm 'pretty, funny and intelligent' but said he didn't think it would work out longer term because he found himself 'irritable' around me at times, which he claims was 'more of a reflection of him than me'. Apart from him being ever so slightly more distant with his messages a few days before, this surprised me because I was so careful to read the signs that he was into me - he was the one who pursued me and was almost always first to message, and he even asked me to be exclusive with him after a month. I am very perceptive to people's feelings and he never seemed irritable at all. The impression I get is that he stopped being interested in me long before he ended it but pretended to be for a while afterwards. I've been in much longer term relationships before (one was 4 years long) and never been dumped before. This time is so different to the others: I can't stop thinking about him, I keep having imaginary conversations with him in my head, and feel really really hurt because I feel like he lead me on. I've deleted his number and all phone calls/conversations so I can never contact him again. What I want to know is: why would he lead me on like this, and how can I get over it? Thanks Link to comment
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