Cry83 Posted February 22, 2018 Share Posted February 22, 2018 I’ll try to keep this concise. About a month ago a male friend asked me to accompany him car shopping. Fast forward to last weekend, the salesman from said shopping trip matched me on a dating app. Upon realizing I had already met him, I broached the subject to which he replied knowing exactly who I was, and informed me that he wanted to slip me his number but didn’t know the dynamic between my friend an I, or be unprofessional. Additionally, he saw me having dinner with said friend at a nearby restaurant after the fact to which he also felt awkward approaching me. We continued getting to know each other a bit and found we got along well, stayed up late chatting, and planned to meet up Sunday evening. Sunday morning came and he texted me please don’t hate me but would you mind rescheduling our date for Monday night as I am not feeling well. I said no problem and we chatted on and off throughout the day, and then for a few hours late at night where we both stayed up too late again. On Monday he texted me that he can’t stay up that late as he’s barely functioning on 4 hours of sleep. We didn’t talk all day, and around 6pm I asked if I would still be seeing him. His reply was ‘ugh, I’ve slept 9 hours combined the last 2 days and I’m still stuck at work’. I said okay, go home and sleep then. He didn’t reply. Tuesday he didn’t message me, I messaged him saying I hope you feel better and got some rest. He said ‘thanks!!’ And that was it. He was working so I didn’t say anything until later in the evening when I asked is everything ok? You seem like you might be changing your mind? He responded oh shoosh I just haven’t been feeling well. I said okay, just wanted to make sure I didn’t do something you weren’t a fan of. Okay. He hasn’t replied nor said anything since then. Sunday night he was very flirtatious, saying what a cool story we have and how he thinks this could really work out etc. added each other on social media. I removed him from Facebook out of spite last night because I feel like I’m being ghosted. Whew. Thanks for reading all of that. So my question is, what would you do? Let it be and don’t contact him again? Reach out and tactfully ask what gives? Thank you!! Link to comment
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