Piaresssss Posted March 15, 2018 Author Share Posted March 15, 2018 Cheers Sputnik I hadn't looked at that count for some time. Pretty mind blowing. And yes sweets it is a great distraction and to be honest best sex I have ever had. Link to comment
SweetGirl28 Posted March 16, 2018 Share Posted March 16, 2018 Glad to hear that! So it's worth it, no matter what happens lol :) Link to comment
Piaresssss Posted March 16, 2018 Author Share Posted March 16, 2018 Yh we are just friends who have awesome sex on occasion Im pretty happy at the moment. My friend told me a funny story the other day. She is using a picture of me and her on a night out for her dating profile and people just keep complementing me. That made me chuckle. Link to comment
sputnik123 Posted March 16, 2018 Share Posted March 16, 2018 Very happy for you mate! It's lovely that you are feeling so good. Got everything you need for Japan? Link to comment
Piaresssss Posted March 17, 2018 Author Share Posted March 17, 2018 Haha no way am i prepared my man Still need my money, a case and travel to the airport Im very last minute Link to comment
Piaresssss Posted March 18, 2018 Author Share Posted March 18, 2018 So I ran into my ex today. I used this as an opportunity to ask for some stuff back. My massager for my bad back, I have a clone of something of mine 😳 that I asked for back that i thought was weird she still had. I must say I could tell she was off and I asked if she was okay. To which she said "I dont want to talk about how i am but thanks". Correct me if im wrong but I think ive been the better person during this break up. There was no need for her to be rude to me because I wanted some of my stuff. She just sucks. Think that best sums it up. She just sucks hard. Just a little vent to get rid of the negative feelings. Link to comment
sputnik123 Posted March 18, 2018 Share Posted March 18, 2018 Brother, You have been an absolute legend during the break-up.. she is a despicable person! I hope everything else is good :) Link to comment
SweetGirl28 Posted March 18, 2018 Share Posted March 18, 2018 She does suck! I hope she saw you happy and I hope she can tell you're having great sex with someone too! :) Omg I'm being so bad lol but hey she deserves it. You're right, no need to be rude. Link to comment
Stacks44 Posted March 19, 2018 Share Posted March 19, 2018 Most importantly, how did you feel when you ran into her? Link to comment
Stacks44 Posted March 19, 2018 Share Posted March 19, 2018 Sputnik, I'm reading your journal. Currently up to day 44 of no contact. You and Carus are wonderful people. Link to comment
Piaresssss Posted March 19, 2018 Author Share Posted March 19, 2018 I was annoyed at myself more than anything. I still treat her like a decent person but aint gonna do that anymore. I haven't told her about the sex. Not any of her buisness. Everything else with me is really good actually. Link to comment
Carus Posted March 19, 2018 Share Posted March 19, 2018 Sputnik, I'm reading your journal. Currently up to day 44 of no contact. You and Carus are wonderful people. That's very kind of you Stacks* ~ Thankyou....and so are You* The fact you are here is a great showing of the person you are. Piaressss ~ bubblebubblebubble... :) Regards Carus* Link to comment
Stacks44 Posted March 19, 2018 Share Posted March 19, 2018 Piaressss I know it's probably a silly statement without any real merit, but it sounds like you're "winning the breakup" On some level we want that revenge of living better. I'm yearning for that day, even though I wish no harm on her. I just want to be even better. Link to comment
sputnik123 Posted March 19, 2018 Share Posted March 19, 2018 Thanks Stacks, That's a lovely thing to say.. I know you are hurting, but you are a very welcome "addition" to this place :) .. and yes, brother P is currently kicking @ss! Link to comment
Piaresssss Posted March 21, 2018 Author Share Posted March 21, 2018 Im always hitting them bubbles Carus dont worry about that. I would say im winning in terms of recovering and im a better person and the ex is just horrid. Haha thanks Sputnik, I do try. Link to comment
SweetGirl28 Posted March 21, 2018 Share Posted March 21, 2018 Hi! Nice to see you're doing well! This makes me happy. It's funny how we sometimes have so many strong emotions wrapped up in an ex, then turn to realize we don't like what we see in them anymore. Keep doing you! You've made great changes being apart. Link to comment
Piaresssss Posted March 24, 2018 Author Share Posted March 24, 2018 Having a bit of a down day today. Think its because my holiday is a few days away and there is a small chance ill run into the ex at the airport. Im also just sitting around today and its doing my head in. Im really bored but cant really go out. Still got some stuff to pack and get ready. Link to comment
Stacks44 Posted March 24, 2018 Share Posted March 24, 2018 Having a bit of a down day today. Think its because my holiday is a few days away and there is a small chance ill run into the ex at the airport. Im also just sitting around today and its doing my head in. Im really bored but cant really go out. Still got some stuff to pack and get ready.I've had some of those days recently. I usually try to call a friend I haven't spoken to in a little bit and have a long conversation. I think our brains go into withdrawal if there's no other brain in proximity to interact with. Link to comment
sputnik123 Posted March 24, 2018 Share Posted March 24, 2018 hey brother, If you see her at the airport, stay strong, acknowledge (if you wish) and carry about your business.. you owe her absolutely nothing from here on in. You will have a wonderful time! Stacks is spot on, give your brother or one of mates a call and have a nice long chat.. it really helps! You have done so well to get to this point.. Link to comment
Piaresssss Posted March 24, 2018 Author Share Posted March 24, 2018 Made some plans to go see the new pacfic rim film with some friends so that should cheer me up. I think im just nervous for my holiday. 2 weeks away on my own. Never done anything like this before. Link to comment
Stacks44 Posted March 24, 2018 Share Posted March 24, 2018 Made some plans to go see the new pacfic rim film with some friends so that should cheer me up. I think im just nervous for my holiday. 2 weeks away on my own. Never done anything like this before.You're not going to be alone. You always have us at your fingertips. This is one of the threads I'm receiving notifications for on the enotalone android app. Also, that nervous feeling has its advantages. It means you're about to try something new and different. I might be wrong, but nervous feels like the opposite emotion of bored in a way. Link to comment
SweetGirl28 Posted March 25, 2018 Share Posted March 25, 2018 You have a fwb, go relieve the stress! Lol :) geez I swear I have the mind of a man sometimes, I'm so bad! You'll be fine, the ex is not worth worrying about, you've seen her already so it will be okay. And being away is exciting! You'll see once you get there. It will be a great experience. Link to comment
Curlyweave Posted March 25, 2018 Share Posted March 25, 2018 Hi everyone, I’m going through a breakup at the moment and finding it really difficult so reading this thread has helped me! Link to comment
11moreweeks Posted March 25, 2018 Share Posted March 25, 2018 Hi everyone, I’m going through a breakup at the moment and finding it really difficult so reading this thread has helped me! We're all here for you! Link to comment
Piaresssss Posted March 25, 2018 Author Share Posted March 25, 2018 Haha Sweets I was supposed to see her friday but the plans fell through and we couldn't get together before I went away. Cinema was good. Seeing one of my best mates really cheered me up. Spending the day with my mum before I go away today so gonna try enjoy it. Link to comment
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