Treato Posted October 30, 2017 Share Posted October 30, 2017 Me and this guy stopped dating this week I embarrassed him in public then called his phone 100x when he blocked me. I know embarrassing but I was drunk. He told me he wants nothing to do with me anymore so I decided I’ll let him go. However, His friends still call me and invite me out I’m kind of confused to why. I have multiple activities planned with them this week but I don’t know if that’s gonna make my ex uncomfortable when he hears I been hanging With his BestFriends and brother. Their calling me I do not contact them at all they also asked that we don’t even talk about me and my ex while we’re out but that fine with me. Link to comment
SweetGirl28 Posted October 30, 2017 Share Posted October 30, 2017 My goodness girl, you are driving your own train wreck here. Find a new group to hang out with. Link to comment
MissCanuck Posted October 30, 2017 Share Posted October 30, 2017 Yes, you're crossing a line. Link to comment
j.man Posted October 30, 2017 Share Posted October 30, 2017 Normally, I'd say mutual friends are fair game, but calling him 100x would understandably give him a bunny-boiler vibe and you've in fact put him in a position to be uncomfortable rather than him otherwise essentially needing to just suck it up. Decent thing to do would be to leave it and hang out with your own friends. Link to comment
pippy longstocking Posted October 30, 2017 Share Posted October 30, 2017 Yes you are crossing the line Link to comment
pippy longstocking Posted October 30, 2017 Share Posted October 30, 2017 Do they think they are taking the piss out of you ? You did the bunny boiler routine and I just have a feeling this is one big joke , I mean why would his brother and mates wants to hang out with you , I bet they are trying to wind him up , joke wise . Just cut contact with them all , and don't give anyone the opportunity to humiliate you . Link to comment
Rustysuit Posted October 30, 2017 Share Posted October 30, 2017 They probably want to bang you? Link to comment
SherrySher Posted October 30, 2017 Share Posted October 30, 2017 I agree with everyone else, you are crossing a line. You want to come off as confident and not like you're chasing or desperate. You don't ever need to ring anyone 100 times, not only is that shameful behavior but it makes a person look crazy. It's not a good idea to be hanging out with his friends either. You have your own set of friends don't you? It's more respectful to stay away from all of them for now and it's better for your sake too as you don't need to keep being reminded of this guy. It sounds like his interest has changed and you don't need to continue being reminded of that hurt. Link to comment
HeartGoesOn Posted October 31, 2017 Share Posted October 31, 2017 The drunk excuse is over rated, and over used. At any rate it's used as an easy out, (imo). Change your behaviour, getting drunk is not attractive. JMO... Link to comment
abitbroken Posted October 31, 2017 Share Posted October 31, 2017 People that were not friends with you before you met your boyfriend are not "mutual friends" - they are HIS friends who hung out with you because of your relationship with him. Link to comment
Honeycomb8 Posted October 31, 2017 Share Posted October 31, 2017 ^ don't agree with that. Some of my ex's friends became better friends with me than him and we end up hanging out way more than he hangs with them. But in this case, BC she acted like crazy af...She'd best to stay away. Link to comment
figureitout23 Posted October 31, 2017 Share Posted October 31, 2017 You said dating which would mean you two weren't bf/gf and this was short lived right? I wonder if this guy has told them about what went down. Link to comment
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