CristieSmiles Posted October 14, 2017 Share Posted October 14, 2017 My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost four years. He has been incredible and stepped up to the plate with my nine year old daughter. We also have a 6 month old baby girl. This past weekend we almost broke up. He was asked to be the best man at his best friends wedding and we had the biggest fight. We had to use the money we had for my engagement ring to make this trip happen so I was very bitter. I felt robbed and I was taking jabs at the wedding. I felt if I showed I was angry with him then I wouldn't break down. I was also having anxiety since I was alone and didn't know anyone. Long story short, I broke down and cried. He told me to stop being a baby and get the f*** out. So immediately I called my dad to pick me up and walked out of that wedding crying and alone as he watched. According to him he went looking for me after ten minutes but I was already gone. I made the mistake of going to the bar, crying with my best friend and thinking hey, I should go back and apologize so we can enjoy the night together. Since we haven't had one with the baby. Well I went back and that blew up in my face. I went to apologize and he was just so furious. He told me I had made my bed and I needed to lie in it. Then he had the bride and groom tell me I need to leave. Which I did immediately once again. I broke down, I cried all night, and waited all night to see if he would walk through the front door. He said he didn't know if he could go to my dads.. we live three hours away so it wasn't our home. He called me the next morning crying. I told him that I missed him and wanted my family back. Now almost a week later, I still feel hurt. I feel like I wasn't a priority. I know he loves me.. but I don't feel it completely because he didn't try to talk it out that night.. he didn't chase after me. To top it all off, the groom called him and instead of asking if everything is okay.. he offered him a place to stay. Unlike his other friends who checked up on us. I feel like he put his best friends needs before me. I get it, he wanted those three days and I should have gave it to him..how can we move past this? He has never treated me this way and I'm still shocked that everything went the way it went. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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