Shadow12 Posted June 19, 2017 Share Posted June 19, 2017 So my partner and I have been together for a few years, we have kids and we're soon to be married (hopefully) but we're stuck in a situation that can't be fixed. Just before we started dating, he had a fling with his Sister's Fiancee's Sister... Which makes it his Sister's Sister in law. I didn't find out until after we already started dating and I had a strange feeling about it because she was always starring at me in a nasty way and refused to be polite to me etc. My partner then admitted that he had a fling with her (and slept with her) Now this makes everything so hard because she is always in his family's lives and she is invited to all of their events. Nobody likes her and they have had trouble with her for years but they still continue to invite her to every birthday, seasonal events and everything else. And they had also lied to us at one point by telling us she wasn't invited to a birthday but actually was - When we got there she was there too and it caused so much drama. I understand that everyone has a past and previous partners, but the problem is that although she's my partner's past she is still involved in our lives and there's nothing we can do to avoid her! My partner's Sister and her Fiancee are getting married in a couple of months and they will eventually have kids. Which will mean that my partner will be an uncle to those kids and his ex fling will be an aunty to those kids (I will be their aunty through marriage) we will be tied to her for life and I really can't handle knowing that I'll have to see her at every celebration as long as I live. It's already bad enough now, let alone when the families become official. I don't want our relationship to fall apart because of this and it's our biggest problem we've had as a couple. I don't know how to find a solution but I need one asap before everything gets worse. Link to comment
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