boltnrun Posted March 3, 2017 Share Posted March 3, 2017 That will not protect you from HIV, herpes, etc. Buy a box of condoms too. If you're ever in this situation again you will be prepared. Link to comment
abitbroken Posted March 3, 2017 Share Posted March 3, 2017 Anyway i am going to get myself 2nd vaccin Gardasil 8-) it won't help you if you already have something. Link to comment
Belgian girl Posted March 5, 2017 Author Share Posted March 5, 2017 Currently no STD had been found at my blood and haven't had much risk tot STD at the past Link to comment
Dahl Posted March 5, 2017 Share Posted March 5, 2017 Currently no STD had been found at my blood and haven't had much risk tot STD at the past I am relieved to hear this! Good on you for getting yourself tested. Any effort from him yet to honor his commitment to you to do the same? Are you currently seeing him? Or have you decided yet what you want to do? As always, I wish you luck. Cheers! Link to comment
boltnrun Posted March 5, 2017 Share Posted March 5, 2017 Has it been six months since you had sex with him? If not, you do need to be tested again. And, you do still need to use condoms. Gardisil will not prevent any STDs such as HIV or herpes. Link to comment
Belgian girl Posted March 5, 2017 Author Share Posted March 5, 2017 You are right. Thanks a lot Link to comment
MrSweetHarmony Posted March 5, 2017 Share Posted March 5, 2017 If a man is not willing to do the necessary work to make his sexual partner feel comfortable, it's best to not be in a sexual relationship with that man. Link to comment
SherrySher Posted March 5, 2017 Share Posted March 5, 2017 Belgian please try to understand the distinction between lust/infatuation and love, they are two very different things. We all feel lust/infatuation when we first meet someone we are very attracted to. It's what makes us feel the butterflies in our stomachs and on cloud nine and can't stop thinking of them. Love, however, is something different. Love does not come until a lot of time has passed and you have gotten to know someone very well. You have spent a great deal of time with them, you've become good friends, you know all about them and they know all about you. You've gone through good times, bad times together. You've seen all sides of each other, even the ugly ones, and yet, still want only one another. This takes a great deal of time to have and it is long lasting and endures. It is not possible to have love or be in love with someone you've only met. What you felt was lust/infatuation. But lust and infatuation is something that can be very tricky. It can be gone just as fast as it came. And it doesn't mean much because you don't know this person very well and you might not actually like them once you really get to know them well and see more sides of them. Lust and infatuation is not something you can count on and is not something that can be taken too seriously because it can disappear very quickly. I hope this makes sense to you and is something you can use next time when you're not sure if it's love or not. But after two dates, you were not in love with this man, you did not know him well enough and had not spent enough time with him. Link to comment
Belgian girl Posted March 13, 2017 Author Share Posted March 13, 2017 I don't deel lust but connected, peaceful, genetical attraction Link to comment
Belgian girl Posted March 13, 2017 Author Share Posted March 13, 2017 MrSweetHarmony ty so much Link to comment
Belgian girl Posted March 13, 2017 Author Share Posted March 13, 2017 Now I feel attracted to someone 51 Link to comment
Belgian girl Posted March 14, 2017 Author Share Posted March 14, 2017 I just read a message he doesn't want to meet again Link to comment
IAmFCA Posted March 14, 2017 Share Posted March 14, 2017 I just read a message he doesn't want to meet again Sorry. It happens. Logic says it will happen more often than not. It is about matching needs, traits, timing, and not about better/worse candidates. Next! Link to comment
Belgian girl Posted March 14, 2017 Author Share Posted March 14, 2017 Or age I've cried a lot Link to comment
IAmFCA Posted March 14, 2017 Share Posted March 14, 2017 Or age I've cried a lot Age is just a number. Stage of life is about compatibility. Love yourself at every age. Be proud to have grown and to know you will grow some more. Age is beautiful. Age is sexy. Link to comment
boltnrun Posted March 14, 2017 Share Posted March 14, 2017 Be glad this man will no longer try to manipulate you into having unprotected sex with him. He isn't worth your tears. Link to comment
Belgian girl Posted March 15, 2017 Author Share Posted March 15, 2017 Huh I just explained another came info my life we both felt in love but still he mailed me to want to quit Link to comment
Belgian girl Posted March 15, 2017 Author Share Posted March 15, 2017 * into I feel heart broken Link to comment
musicman777 Posted March 15, 2017 Share Posted March 15, 2017 This sounded like a terrible idea all around. If you are dating people for finding "love", then in no way should you be having sex with men on the second date. Link to comment
boltnrun Posted March 15, 2017 Share Posted March 15, 2017 Huh I just explained another came info my life we both felt in love but still he mailed me to want to quit You two fell in love in two days? How many times did you go on dates with him? Last we heard you were getting an injection to prepare for sex with the first guy. Then on March 13th you mentioned the 51 year old. I'm confused. Link to comment
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