I am afraid of darkness but my fiance want sex in the dark for a change

[tyler876]

He knows im afraid of darkness so he doesn't insist on it. I have a huge problem with darkness since my childhood. My fiance tried taking me to psychiatrist and counsellor. He tries to help me with it. But recently he said that man usually like sex with the lights on but he really wants to try sex with the lights off. I feel like I can't give him what he wants. Should I try to do it or should I ignore it.

[Wiseman2]

Try it, if it doesn't go well turn the lights on.

he really wants to try sex with the lights off. Should I try to do it or should I ignore it.

[Hermes]

Or on.......

 

this is a wind-up.

[ken78]

blindfold him

[Matt3939]

Unless you live in a basement it won't be so dark you can't see anything. Get a clapper if it all goes wrong clap clap. Just don't get really going to hard with the sex. Then you might get a strobe effect. Good luck

[melancholy123]

Put a night light in a bedroom outlet. Just enough light to see what you are doing but still rather dark.

[mfan]

blindfold him

This would seem to be the most agreeable solution.

[Doc Blaze]

may I ask how you fall asleep?

 

and does he want complete darkness?

[WithLove]

Light a candle on your nightstand. Less bright than a light, and it can be romantic.

[tyler876]

I sleep with the lights on