hazel169256 Posted January 17, 2016 Share Posted January 17, 2016 Hi I'm new here and i really don't know where to start i was with my ex boyfriend for 4 years i am still in love with him i have never been in love with any other man in my life we broke up 2 months ago and he moved back to Florida with his mom and dad we spoke here and there and i tried doing the NC but i have failed on many occasions just wanting to hear his voice and maybe try and work things out i miss him so much i have cried idk how many times. In the beginning of the break up we didn't speak to each other for about 2 weeks then he contacted me on Facebook Messenger saying hi and did i hate him i told him no never anyway i mean we had our problems i mean what couple doesn't argument's money problems ect. Before he actually did leave i tried everything in my power to fix the relationship i would try to talk to him but he would just sgut me out i found out he was getting Emotional Support from 2 other girls and it just killed me anyway he has been gone like i said now for 2 months and i miss and still am in love with him he didn't say Happy Thanksgiving but did say Merry Christmas and Happy New Year's i responded with same to you with a 😊 we haven't spoken now since the 5th. I left a message on his Facebook Messenger saying that I'm letting go that he let go a long time ago and that i realize it time i let go and he never responded back 😔 my Birthday was yesterday and he didn't wish me a Happy Birthday it hurts so bad.anyway i just don't know what else to do i really want him back 😔😔 Link to comment
Movingforward3 Posted January 17, 2016 Share Posted January 17, 2016 I am sorry. I know how hard it is to let go. But, he likely isn't coming back. You must focus on you. Keep living your life. This will only continue to cause you pain. No contact is helpful. Keeping busy and getting a hobby. Hanging with friends and family. Removing all triggers and reminders. It's how to make it better. Breakups suck. Exercise and eat healthy. It's the only way I know to get to normal. Link to comment
Capricorn3 Posted January 17, 2016 Share Posted January 17, 2016 What was the reason for the break up? Link to comment
Movingforward3 Posted January 17, 2016 Share Posted January 17, 2016 A song lyrical response! At first I was afraid I was petrified Kept thinking I could never live Without you by my side But then I spent so many nights Thinking how you did me wrong And I grew strong And I learned how to get along And so you're back From outer space I just walked in to find you here With that sad look upon your face I should have changed that stupid lock I should have made you leave your key If I had known for just one second You'd be back to bother me Go on now go walk out the door Just turn around now 'Cause you're not welcome anymore Weren't you the one who tried to hurt me with goodbye Did you think I'd crumble Did you think I'd lay down and die Oh no, not I I will survive Oh as long as I know how to love I know I'll stay alive I've got all my life to live I've got all my love to give And I'll survive I will survive (hey-hey) It took all the strength I had Not to fall apart Kept trying hard to mend The pieces of my broken heart And I spent oh so many nights Just feeling sorry for myself I used to cry But now I hold my head up high And you see me Somebody new I'm not that chained up little person Still in love with you And so you felt like dropping in And just expect me to be free And now I'm saving all my loving For someone who's loving me Go on now go walk out the door Just turn around now 'Cause you're not welcome anymore Weren't you the one who tried to break me with goodbye Did you think I'd crumble Did you think I'd lay down and die Oh no, not I I will survive Oh as long as I know how to love I know I'll stay alive I've got all my life to live I've got all my love to give And I'll survive I will survive Link to comment
thejigsup Posted January 17, 2016 Share Posted January 17, 2016 Two months isn't a very long time. You will love again, guaranteed, and most likely far better. It happens Every.Single.Time. Don't doubt, look forward to it. The next one will be better and won't leave. In the future, discuss, don't argue. It makes for a better relationship. Link to comment
hazel169256 Posted January 18, 2016 Author Share Posted January 18, 2016 Two months isn't a very long time. You will love again, guaranteed, and most likely far better. It happens Every.Single.Time. Don't doubt, look forward to it. The next one will be better and won't leave. In the future, discuss, don't argue. It makes for a better relationship. I'm still so in love with him and I'm not just really ready to let go i pray everyday that God sends in back to me 😢 Link to comment
boltnrun Posted January 18, 2016 Share Posted January 18, 2016 If you trust in God, then realize this man is not right for you and that's why he's not with you anymore. Link to comment
hazel169256 Posted January 18, 2016 Author Share Posted January 18, 2016 I do trust and believe in God that's why it's so hard to let go that's why i pray everyday to God that he will send in back to me i just Never thought i would fall in Love and that it would Hurt this bad after a break up I'm so tired of Crying 😢😢 Link to comment
boltnrun Posted January 18, 2016 Share Posted January 18, 2016 God will not send someone back to you who is wrong for you. Trust that God thinks this man is not the one for you and that's why He's not "sending" him back. Link to comment
hazel169256 Posted January 18, 2016 Author Share Posted January 18, 2016 God will not send someone back to you who is wrong for you. Trust that God thinks this man is not the one for you and that's why He's not "sending" him back. I truly understand what you are saying but its so hard i mean i was the only women that has been with him so long he has never been in a relationship as long as he was with me i help him out he had nothing before he met me Link to comment
boltnrun Posted January 18, 2016 Share Posted January 18, 2016 I truly understand what you are saying but its so hard i mean i was the only women that has been with him so long he has never been in a relationship as long as he was with me i help him out he had nothing before he met me And that may be why God won't "send him back". Maybe God wants you to be with a man who doesn't have "nothing". A man whom you won't have to prop up. Link to comment
patterned Posted January 19, 2016 Share Posted January 19, 2016 There's nothing you can do or say. You are not in control. This is out of your hands. You can let go or hold on, either way the result will be the same. I would suggest you let go and let yourself grow. The sooner you do the happier and healthier you be. The alternative is hell and misery with absolutely no reward for it. Let go. Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk Link to comment
hazel169256 Posted January 19, 2016 Author Share Posted January 19, 2016 And that may be why God won't "send him back". Maybe God wants you to be with a man who doesn't have "nothing". A man whom you won't have to prop up. Yeah i know i already went through that meeting a man that had nothing i dont want to go through that agin i just wish things never happened and we were still together I'm trying my hardest to move forward and not think about him it's just so hard 😢 Link to comment
hazel169256 Posted January 27, 2016 Author Share Posted January 27, 2016 Wiil this Pain ever go away I'm so tired of Crying when i think about him how long wil this last 😢😢 Link to comment
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