Seraphim Posted May 27, 2014 Author Share Posted May 27, 2014 Oh I am sorry about Mr Spots, Vic. He is such a handsome boy. Thank you Sherry. Link to comment
Seraphim Posted May 27, 2014 Author Share Posted May 27, 2014 Oh Vic so sorry to hear this Thank you for giving him 3 extra years of happiness and love Thank you . Link to comment
Silverbirch Posted May 27, 2014 Share Posted May 27, 2014 So sorry Vic. He is lovely. I had to do this too for my lovely girl Tinkerbell, and know it was the right thing to do even though it was such a hard thing to do. Link to comment
Seraphim Posted May 27, 2014 Author Share Posted May 27, 2014 So sorry Vic. He is lovely. I had to do this too for my lovely girl Tinkerbell, and know it was the right thing to do even though it was such a hard thing to do. Thank you SB. Yes, it is always hard even if it is for the best. Link to comment
Seraphim Posted May 27, 2014 Author Share Posted May 27, 2014 So sorry for your loss, vic. Thanks Bah. Link to comment
oitnb Posted May 28, 2014 Share Posted May 28, 2014 Found out earlier today I will probably have to put my 12 year old shihtzu down tomorrow... I'm right there with you. It's never easy. Link to comment
Seraphim Posted May 28, 2014 Author Share Posted May 28, 2014 I am so sorry to hear that Bah. Hugs. Link to comment
Seraphim Posted May 28, 2014 Author Share Posted May 28, 2014 Mr. Spots went to his rest at 3:45. He had a sedative and 15 mins later he was euthanized. We all cuddled him as he passed on. My son did so well. Far better than his mom. I am so proud of him. He closed his cat's eyes after it was all over and hugged him. He shed a few tears and told his cat, " I love you and I am glad you are perfect now. " Link to comment
Fudgie Posted May 28, 2014 Share Posted May 28, 2014 Seeing this makes my eyes well up. My old dog is dying as well as of yesterday and I am dying inside. I'm so glad you were able to do what's right for him Vic. Gah, what your son said, I'm going to start crying all over again... Link to comment
Kaytie Posted May 28, 2014 Share Posted May 28, 2014 He handled that so well Vic. You did a great job preparing him for it. I'm so sorry for your loss. Link to comment
Seraphim Posted May 28, 2014 Author Share Posted May 28, 2014 Seeing this makes my eyes well up. My old dog is dying as well as of yesterday and I am dying inside. I'm so glad you were able to do what's right for him Vic. Gah, what your son said, I'm going to start crying all over again... I am so sorry about your dog. Hugs. Yes, says some of the most amazing things at the right moments. In fact he popped his head inside my door and said," mom don't cry he's meeting his cat family right now and he's a kitten again with his mom and dad." That kid is priceless. Link to comment
Seraphim Posted May 28, 2014 Author Share Posted May 28, 2014 He handled that so well Vic. You did a great job preparing him for it. I'm so sorry for your loss. Thank you Kaytie. Link to comment
browneyedgirl36 Posted May 29, 2014 Share Posted May 29, 2014 I am so sorry about your dog. Hugs. Yes, says some of the most amazing things at the right moments. In fact he popped his head inside my door and said," mom don't cry he's meeting his cat family right now and he's a kitten again with his mom and dad." That kid is priceless. Awwww...this is so sweet! I'm sorry for your loss. I am a HUGE cat person, and I know how much they become a part of our hearts. I always say that it is a great testament to the love and joy that pets bring to us that we get them knowing that we will long outlive them and will have to say goodbye. The loss is tremendous, and yet....we do it over and over again over the course of our lives -- bring a pet into our home and heart, only to have to say goodbye what always feels like too soon. That really says something. I love your son's interpretation of "kitty heaven." It's so nice that he can find something so positive about the situation. Mr. Spots was a beautiful cat, and it's clear that he was well loved. Link to comment
agent1607307371 Posted May 29, 2014 Share Posted May 29, 2014 He shed a few tears and told his cat, " I love you and I am glad you are perfect now. " Oh Vic, that is beautiful. I'm so sorry for your loss. Putting a pet to sleep is the worst feeling in the world. Knowing you did the right thing is small comfort. ~hugs~ Link to comment
lavenderdove Posted May 29, 2014 Share Posted May 29, 2014 I'm so sorry... Our pets are as beloved as our children and it is so hard. But you did the right thing to prevent his suffering, and in time will remember him with a smile rather than sorrow. Link to comment
Seraphim Posted May 29, 2014 Author Share Posted May 29, 2014 Awwww...this is so sweet! I'm sorry for your loss. I am a HUGE cat person, and I know how much they become a part of our hearts. I always say that it is a great testament to the love and joy that pets bring to us that we get them knowing that we will long outlive them and will have to say goodbye. The loss is tremendous, and yet....we do it over and over again over the course of our lives -- bring a pet into our home and heart, only to have to say goodbye what always feels like too soon. That really says something. I love your son's interpretation of "kitty heaven." It's so nice that he can find something so positive about the situation. Mr. Spots was a beautiful cat, and it's clear that he was well loved. Thank you Browneyedgirl. We are huge cat people too. My husband always had cats growing up so he likes cats. I had cats and dogs. We had 4 cats until yesterday. Yes, you are right it is never easy. I am so glad my son found a way to lessen his grief. We prepared him for a few weeks for the passing to make it smoother for him. Link to comment
Seraphim Posted May 29, 2014 Author Share Posted May 29, 2014 Oh Vic, that is beautiful. I'm so sorry for your loss. Putting a pet to sleep is the worst feeling in the world. Knowing you did the right thing is small comfort. ~hugs~ Yes, you are right Agent, right now it is no comfort but I know in my heart it was right. He was starting to suffer and would have suffered greatly had we not euthanized him. He was such a big beautiful boy. We just wanted him whole and in peace. Link to comment
Seraphim Posted May 29, 2014 Author Share Posted May 29, 2014 I'm so sorry... Our pets are as beloved as our children and it is so hard. But you did the right thing to prevent his suffering, and in time will remember him with a smile rather than sorrow. Yes, we had smiles of him yesterday. We have movies of him doing things that make him, him. Link to comment
Seraphim Posted May 29, 2014 Author Share Posted May 29, 2014 We will get his ashes returned in 2 weeks. We picked out an urn and we are getting a paw print made too. Link to comment
Fudgie Posted May 29, 2014 Share Posted May 29, 2014 Vic, I put down my dog today. I don't want to make a thread about it though because I am just feel super broken and I'm going to bawl at work again if someone mentions Rainbow Bridge. We got the body back though and we will be burying her tomorrow on the family property. Link to comment
Seraphim Posted May 29, 2014 Author Share Posted May 29, 2014 Vic, I put down my dog today. I don't want to make a thread about it though because I am just feel super broken and I'm going to bawl at work again if someone mentions Rainbow Bridge. We got the body back though and we will be burying her tomorrow on the family property. Awww I am sorry sweetie. I feel your pain too. Hugs. Just know she is better off. Link to comment
Fudgie Posted May 29, 2014 Share Posted May 29, 2014 I know, I don't want her in pain. My mom and dad were both crying and my mom held her and wpet and said "I love you so much sweet girl you helped me raise my kids, you raised my kids" I am going to start crying again if I'm not careful Link to comment
Seraphim Posted May 29, 2014 Author Share Posted May 29, 2014 It is ok to cry love. Really it is. Crying helps to heal. Link to comment
Fudgie Posted May 29, 2014 Share Posted May 29, 2014 You are right. I am at work right now and sadly, it's a slow day so I find myself thinking of my dog and wanting to cry a lot. I have been crying for most of the day and the day before too when she got sick. So I am trying to hold it together right now. I probably shouldn't have come in here but I didn't want to leave my boss hanging even though I'm not mentally well right now. Link to comment
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