Sweetestsin92 Posted January 20, 2014 Share Posted January 20, 2014 This co worker tried to look through my phone. My phone is locked, but he attempted to go through it. I use to be some what friends with him, but he was really annoying so I stopped talking to him. He would call me a and shallow for having a type in dating. He was opposite of what I liked. I stopped talking to him and a month or two later he got a gf. He would always brag about her, especially when he would come talk to my manager. Since she's like a mother to him. Anyways one day I saw him trying to go through my phone and when he saw me coming he looked so scared then put it down. Link to comment
NorthDallas40 Posted January 20, 2014 Share Posted January 20, 2014 He has a crush on you, he's insecure, and he's a jerk. I think that covers it. Link to comment
Mr_LFA Posted January 20, 2014 Share Posted January 20, 2014 He has a crush on you, he's insecure, and he's a jerk. I think that covers it. Hear, hear! Link to comment
shellyf62 Posted January 20, 2014 Share Posted January 20, 2014 How rude....I would have been very angry with him for doing that. I double the "jerk" comment !!! Link to comment
HeartGoesOn Posted January 20, 2014 Share Posted January 20, 2014 I don't think there's any hidden meaning to this, other than as others have said, "he's a jerk." Link to comment
ParisPaulette Posted January 20, 2014 Share Posted January 20, 2014 I hope you got right in his face and yelled at him. I would personally have screamed, "What are you doing????? Put that down, why are you going through my phone?" And done it loudly enough to shame him in front of the entire office. Barring that, maybe a complaint to HR since that's beyond acceptable behavior and borders on starting to stalk-type behavior. There is zero and I mean zero reason for a coworker you aren't even friends with to be doing that. And the reason he was going through your phone was either to gather numbers to stalk you with--i.e. you or your friends or to see who you're dating or...no reason is a good one. It's one step short of standing outside your bedroom window when a near stranger or acquaintance goes through your phone. Link to comment
missmarple Posted January 20, 2014 Share Posted January 20, 2014 I would go straight to the manager. There's not any reason for a coworker to go through my phone! Link to comment
CeeLambrini Posted January 20, 2014 Share Posted January 20, 2014 I agree with reporting this behaviour, he is clearly taken with you but he has taken this too far. Link to comment
Dragunov-21 Posted January 20, 2014 Share Posted January 20, 2014 Because he's a nosey tosser? Link to comment
ALovingKitten Posted January 20, 2014 Share Posted January 20, 2014 This co worker tried to look through my phone. My phone is locked, but he attempted to go through it. I use to be some what friends with him, but he was really annoying so I stopped talking to him. He would call me a and shallow for having a type in dating. He was opposite of what I liked. I stopped talking to him and a month or two later he got a gf. He would always brag about her, especially when he would come talk to my manager. Since she's like a mother to him. Anyways one day I saw him trying to go through my phone and when he saw me coming he looked so scared then put it down. Should report his actions that will stop him from attempting it again. He crossed boundaries and you are not even friends I am guessing he wanted to look for pics or texts maybe even phone numbers you have stored that's creepy and so inappropriate. I would have went right to HR about him. Link to comment
agent1607307371 Posted January 20, 2014 Share Posted January 20, 2014 He's a jerk. I would definitly have brought that up to someone. Not appropriate at all. Link to comment
shelty24 Posted January 20, 2014 Share Posted January 20, 2014 I wouldn't go reporting him as he is the managers pet puppy. That could backfire on you Just ignore him Link to comment
ChasingHope Posted January 20, 2014 Share Posted January 20, 2014 I wouldn't go reporting him as he is the managers pet puppy. That could backfire on you Just ignore him Not if you went to HR--that is what Human Resources is there for. I encourage you to report this--going thru someone's phone is NOT ok, especially in a work environment. Link to comment
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