Ladytmt Posted July 7, 2013 Share Posted July 7, 2013 Not long after we exchanged numbers a guy asked me if i could squirt!? I didn't know what to say but i felt it was a little childish for a sexual topic to come out of his mouth that soon and we hadn't started to date yet. Major red flag or what!? Link to comment
nutbrownhare Posted July 7, 2013 Share Posted July 7, 2013 Depends what you're looking for in a relationship, but this would be a major turnoff for me. On all sorts of levels. Link to comment
sara-pezzini Posted July 7, 2013 Share Posted July 7, 2013 that would be a reason for me to lose his number and change mine lol Link to comment
Ladytmt Posted July 7, 2013 Author Share Posted July 7, 2013 Depends what you're looking for in a relationship, but this would be a major turnoff for me. On all sorts of levels. Exactly!!! Major turn off!! I'm looking to date in hopes of a relationship. I thought he was too but that question just threw me for a loop!! Big time!!! Link to comment
RedDress Posted July 7, 2013 Share Posted July 7, 2013 I think this guy has sex on the brain and not so much finding love. Link to comment
Ladytmt Posted July 7, 2013 Author Share Posted July 7, 2013 that would be a reason for me to lose his number and change mine lol Lol!!! I don't communicate with him anymore. Crazy how bold he was though! Link to comment
Ladytmt Posted July 7, 2013 Author Share Posted July 7, 2013 I think this guy has sex on the brain and not so much finding love. Yes, i think he's an alcoholic and lives with mom too!! Link to comment
lavenderdove Posted July 7, 2013 Share Posted July 7, 2013 I think if someone asked me that after a few days, i'd dump him on the spot. He's either crude or kinky and will be expecting you to do a lot more than 'squirt'.... he's not looking for a relationship, he's looking for phone sex. Link to comment
sara-pezzini Posted July 7, 2013 Share Posted July 7, 2013 Lol!!! I don't communicate with him anymore. Crazy how bold he was though! i wonder if that line has ever been actually successful for him lol!!!!! Link to comment
HeartGoesOn Posted July 7, 2013 Share Posted July 7, 2013 Major, major red flag. Hopefully you don't degrade yourself by stooping to his level. Link to comment
sara-pezzini Posted July 7, 2013 Share Posted July 7, 2013 Yes, i think he's an alcoholic and lives with mom too!! and you are letting him go??????????? he sounds like such a catch.......................... Link to comment
Ladytmt Posted July 7, 2013 Author Share Posted July 7, 2013 i wonder if that line has ever been actually successful for him lol!!!!! If it has, then the girl must have no respect for herself!! None at all!! Link to comment
Ladytmt Posted July 7, 2013 Author Share Posted July 7, 2013 and you are letting him go??????????? he sounds like such a catch.......................... Lol!!! He's gone. I really feel sorry for him. Lol Link to comment
milly007 Posted July 7, 2013 Share Posted July 7, 2013 Yes, big red flag. It's one thing if you're only looking for sex in a relationship (because in that case, you most likely wouldn't mind that question being asked), but if you're looking for something more serious, this guy doesn't sound like he's on the same wave length as you. I went out on a blind date with a guy once and one of the very first questions he asked me was about sex. Let's just say I ended the date early and couldn't wait to get away from this guy. I wanted that hour of my life back! Link to comment
Ladytmt Posted July 7, 2013 Author Share Posted July 7, 2013 Major, major red flag. Hopefully you don't degrade yourself by stooping to his level. No i didn't. I'm looking for a lot more than squirting and obviously he is not. Link to comment
Ladytmt Posted July 7, 2013 Author Share Posted July 7, 2013 Yes, big red flag. It's one thing if you're only looking for sex in a relationship (because in that case, you most likely wouldn't mind that question being asked), but if you're looking for something more serious, this guy doesn't sound like he's on the same wave length as you. I went out on a blind date with a guy once and one of the very first questions he asked me was about sex. Let's just say I ended the date early and couldn't wait to get away from this guy. I wanted that hour of my life back! Yes, thats really a waste of time and this dude was a major waste of my time. A guess some women would like it but not me!! Link to comment
femaleanomaly Posted July 7, 2013 Share Posted July 7, 2013 I can't believe he actually said that!!! I mean, I guess I should, people are crazy... But seriously?! Even a guy with no game knows better than to go in with the big guns right off the bat. It's kind of funny... Except for the part where it's true and it actually happened. Lol Link to comment
Ladytmt Posted July 7, 2013 Author Share Posted July 7, 2013 I can't believe he actually said that!!! I mean, I guess I should, people are crazy... But seriously?! Even a guy with no game knows better than to go in with the big guns right off the bat. It's kind of funny... Except for the part where it's true and it actually happened. Lol Yeah, i'm still in shock!!! His exact words were this "hey, let me ask u this... Can u squirt" i kinda paused for a minute and i was like really!? Why would u ask me that!???? But like i said i think this is an alcoholic so his brain is probably mush and he saw nothing wrong with the question. Link to comment
Blue_Skirt Posted July 7, 2013 Share Posted July 7, 2013 I think I would be in shocked as well. Not sure what I would do in this situation, but I probably would simply hang up. O boy, this is creepy. Link to comment
milly007 Posted July 7, 2013 Share Posted July 7, 2013 Ewww...I say run for the hills, Ladytmt! This guys sounds like a slimeball. I don't understand, nor will I ever understand, why things like this happen. Blows my mind, seriously. I just don't understand the mentality and frankly, I don't want to. Link to comment
octour Posted July 7, 2013 Share Posted July 7, 2013 You should have said "Yes", took a sip of your drink and spat it in his face. Link to comment
Ladytmt Posted July 7, 2013 Author Share Posted July 7, 2013 You should have said "Yes", took a sip of your drink and spat it in his face. Lol!!!!!!!!! Link to comment
Ladytmt Posted July 7, 2013 Author Share Posted July 7, 2013 Ewww...I say run for the hills, Ladytmt! This guys sounds like a slimeball. I don't understand, nor will I ever understand, why things like this happen. Blows my mind, seriously. I just don't understand the mentality and frankly, I don't want to. Yes, i agree. Really weird! I've never had someone ask me anything even close to that, but i guess i shouldn't be too surprised... Weirdos everywhere. Link to comment
ParisPaulette Posted July 7, 2013 Share Posted July 7, 2013 Red flag! Red flag! Run! What the...? Apparently no one ever told him what what proper conversation is. Cripes maybe when you're both getting naked it could bet brought up, but like you said you haven't even dated yet. I don't know, that sort of comment/question just begs for a response like, "Answer me this first, do you suffer from premature ejaculation and what are your thoughts on making sure your woman is happy in bed?" Sit down and pull out a pen and paper while you ask him these things then go on to ask him about how much he makes in a year, the car he drives and his political and religious views since he's so willing to bring up really personal things before a first date. Okay, I'm kidding but ewww, just run. Link to comment
Jennifer89 Posted July 7, 2013 Share Posted July 7, 2013 Maybe it's the pride, but that wouldn't be a turn off for me, I'd be more like "ya baby, if your good enough!" But on a serious note- be aware that he is clearly wanting sex, he didn't even try to hide that fact from you. That's cool, if you want some casual sex in your life. Link to comment
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