Saures Posted September 19, 2011 Share Posted September 19, 2011 Me and my boyfriend have been together for 8 months. I am 16, but for the past year and half there's nothing more I want to do than grow up tomorrow, have kids and get married. Basically, the best thing that could happen to me is if I found someone who I wanted to spend the rest of my life with. And I think I've found him. Well, my only problem is, when I view someone else getting engaged at my age, which has happened a lot, it lasts about a month or two, and I feel everyone else claims them as "stupid". But I've really thought out my life and I feel I am far more mature, I wouldn't rush into an engagement if I had doubts. But I also would not tell anyone, because if it did end, how stupid and childish would I look... My boyfriend has never been into marriage, but he will do it one day, according to him. And he is very strict on his views and opinions and what he wants out of life. He told me the other day that how we have been recently, makes him want to get engaged to me and he's seriously considering about asking me. Its also now a very common joke in our relationship, say if he "lets me down" we'll joke about getting engaged to make up for it, if he really wasn't considering it, he would probably not joke around or join in with the jokes. So my question is, do you think a person of my age is too young to get engaged? Start thinking about marriage having children? Or do you think that if its something you want, you should go for it, as you only live once? Link to comment
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