Omg he lifted my skirt up.....how rude!

[Eriel]

So I finally met this guy who I thought I would really like, We both feel the same way etc. Ive known him for more than a few years now but just recently we started talking to eachother and went on a few dates. There is alot of chemistry there but NO sexual things yet. Anyways to cut this short he dropped me off home and as I opened the car door and got up to leave he lifted my skirt up, exposing my thong (basically he saw my arse). I felt so humiliated and violated. I texted him the next day and told him that If he ever did that again I would punched the out of him. He apologized etc. But anyways do you guys/gals think I overreacted? I really do like him but now I feel like i'M HAVING SECOND THOUGHTS! I feel confused about us now.

 

Background about him:

he talks about himself alot

he made fun of my friends height

he thinks all his ex gfs are psychos

he is moving too fast & too strong

oh and he use to be a drug dealer

[Jd1983]

Wow, he has some nerves. No I don't think you're overreacting. If that was me, personally I'd probably slap him.

 

Go with your gut feelings hun. If something does seem right, then there's a good reason for that.

 

What he did was not cool, and very disrespectful. How can you possibly take someone like that seriously?

[Capricorn3]

Is this the same guy yu talk about in this thread?

 

 

[Glowguy]

He sounds like a douchebag. I really can't see why you like him at all after that.

[Eriel]

Is this the same guy yu talk about in this thread?

 

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Sadly yes he is the same guy.

[25something]

hes got red flags written all over him hun. I agree listen to your gut feeling.

[Teaday]

Lifting up your skirt was completely inappropriate of him! Then even if that wasn't enough of a deal-breaker, I think that the other things you listed about him would be! If what you want is respect, he doesn't seem like the type of man that will give that to you. Yikes!

[d24]

sexist, chauvinistic pig.

[Bluesman89]

Drop him. He's a player, who's type unfortunately succeed all too many times in reeling in women, only to take advantage of them.

 

You already said you feel violated after what this scumbag did, so clearly this guy is not for you.

[Leighton]

That is.. wow. I'd delete him from everything and NEVER speak to him again.

[agent1607307371]

he talks about himself alot

he made fun of my friends height

he thinks all his ex gfs are psychos

he is moving too fast & too strong

oh and he use to be a drug dealer

 

And he lifts your skirt.

 

Why do you want to date him? Seriously? I would block him and move on. He is one big red flag.

[LightbulbSun]

Yeah, that was just inappropriate. If he can't control himself, he needs to go bye-bye.

[SapphireNoir10]

I would never ever speak to him or deal with him again.

 

Not cool.

[generaldiscord]

ech, I don't know. I can't decide what position to take in this matter. Would I spit at him or send his mom a letter? Both? Huh... tough questions with many answers. Maybe I would have to tell my big buff friend Joe to go take care of it... or maybe I would have to warn all my friends and show them his picture so that they would recognize him.

 

In all seriousness, any guy who says "all my exes are psycho" is ... how shall I put it... the common denominator.

[guynextdoor]

Sounds like you got yourself a winner here... If he treats you this way now on a couple of dates imagine how its going to be down the line. Save yourself the headache and drop him. Find yourself a gentleman not a boy. GL

[MasterPo]

It appears you male friend is unsophisticated with his actions. Juveniles push boundaries and keep pushing until severe action is taken. Perhaps he needs that and maybe will be salvageable. It would be your decision to undertake such a demanding social project.

[Eriel]

sexist, chauvinistic pig.

 

lol thanks for the big bold red text that just made me giggle a bit =)

[Eriel]

Drop him. He's a player, who's type unfortunately succeed all too many times in reeling in women, only to take advantage of them.

 

You already said you feel violated after what this scumbag did, so clearly this guy is not for you.

 

Yeahs you're right he is the player type I bet, He texted me last night and I already stopped texting him back. I'm probably gonna just drop him with no calls, no texts etc.

[Jd1983]

Yeahs you're right he is the player type I bet, He texted me last night and I already stopped texting him back. I'm probably gonna just drop him with no calls, no texts etc.

 

That's the spirit! Walk away and don't look back!! NEXT!

[Bluesman89]

Yeahs you're right he is the player type I bet, He texted me last night and I already stopped texting him back. I'm probably gonna just drop him with no calls, no texts etc.

Good for you! You're doing the right thing. Perhaps he'll think twice the next time he feels the urge to assault a woman.

[Capricorn3]

Sadly yes he is the same guy.

The same guy you said you want to have sex with (sleep with). Ouch. Not a good idea. I say forget about him.

[Eriel]

The same guy you said you want to have sex with (sleep with). Ouch. Not a good idea. I say forget about him.

 

Yeah, but I didn't sleep with him yet and this just happened recently after I posted up that thread up. I'm glad I didn't sleep with him otherwise it would of gotten ugly. So my conclusion is It is best to wait before having sex with anyone for a few months and or until we are official. Can you imagine if I slept with him and then he rudely assaulted me like that? lol God my dating life sucks

[IsThisIt]

sexist, chauvinistic pig.

 

How is lifting up her skirt chauvinistic? seems like the opposite...

[BallroomNerd]

How is lifting up her skirt chauvinistic? seems like the opposite...

 

"3. smug irrational belief in the superiority of one's own race, party, sex, etc: male chauvinism"

 

By lifting up her skirt, it shows that has no respect for women. Haughtiness surely would follow