Anal sex question for the ladies?

[InaDaze87]

How do women view having anal sex? I mean do they actually like it or is it just one of those things you might try once then never do it again because a guy you were with wanted to try it out? Just wondering if there are women out there who actually might initiate anal just because they enjoy it? Also what makes it pleasurable for the woman cause from seeing it on porn it looks like it could feel really great for both parties.

[gidget1]

Every woman is different. Some like it, some hate it, some won't even try it. This is a pretty general question...

[Snowy]

Tonnes of women enjoy it.

 

At first, it may seem kind of freaky so women avoids it, but many women, after trying it the first time go on to enjoy anal.

[Jetta]

Personally I'm on the hate it list. Don't do anal, hate anal, I'll do just about anything but anal. That shoot is meant to be used as an exit not an entry.

[AutumnBorn]

For me personally, that's an exit only lane. For my ex, it was either an exit or entrance lane. He loved receiving, so I happily obliged. In the past few years, however, I've had two out of the three lovers practically beg me to let them. I don't get it. It's not like I'm not as tight as a drum (both kids born by c-section).

[Melting]

I find it extremely uncomfortable, so therefore choose not to do it

[agent1607307371]

I prefer to give it.

[Lovelace]

Yeah, in all my life, I've met maybe three girls who liked it. I'm not down for it. There's no pleasure in there, just pain.

 

Plus, it just seems kind of rude. Like they think I'm not tight enough as it is or something.

[Perrin83]

Yeah, in all my life, I've met maybe three girls who liked it. I'm not down for it. There's no pleasure in there, just pain.

 

Plus, it just seems kind of rude. Like they think I'm not tight enough as it is or something.

 

From what I understand, it's a different sensation. It's not just about being tighter.

[Fudgie]

I prefer that things stay out of my pooper, thanks. Do you know how much bacteria is in there? It's very unsanitary. If I were a man, I couldn't imagine sticking my penis into one.

 

I've heard that anal can use problems with that muscle sphincter. I don't want to mess that up. I also have hemorrhoids that I have to deal with on a daily basis so really, I shouldn't even try.

[greywolf]

I like it. not enough to do it every day, but it's fun once in awhile.

[Nocapitalism]

I prefer that things stay out of my pooper, thanks. Do you know how much bacteria is in there? It's very unsanitary. If I were a man, I couldn't imagine sticking my penis into one.

 

I've heard that anal can use problems with that muscle sphincter. I don't want to mess that up. I also have hemorrhoids that I have to deal with on a daily basis so really, I shouldn't even try.

 

You know how much Bacteria is in our mouths?

[Jd1983]

I agree with greywolf, it's fun once in awhile. If you're really in the mood for it, it can feel really good.

[Cheeks18]

I agree with greywolf, it's fun once in awhile. If you're really in the mood for it, it can feel really good.

 

What kind of mood puts you in a anal mode?? Lol

[Jd1983]

What kind of mood puts you in a anal mode?? Lol

 

LOL!!! It happens, when I'm feeling extra kinky I guess.

[Cheeks18]

LOL!!! It happens, when I'm feeling extra kinky I guess.

Did it take a while to get used to it?? I tried it once with my ex, she cried...haha, I even went through some steps of one finger to finger a couple days before and before I went for it. Sucks for the next guy shes with if he's into anal!! hahaha

[anggrace]

Did it take a while to get used to it?? I tried it once with my ex, she cried...haha, I even went through some steps of one finger to finger a couple days before and before I went for it. Sucks for the next guy shes with if he's into anal!! hahaha

 

Not sure why that's funny to you.

 

OP: "Women" have different feelings about it. We're all different. I also wouldn't believe all you see in porn. Many of those girls dramatize their "enjoyment". It's a show their putting on b/c they know that's what the veiwer likes to see.

[Cheeks18]

Not sure why that's funny to you.

 

OP: "Women" have different feelings about it. We're all different. I also wouldn't believe all you see in porn. Many of those girls dramatize their "enjoyment". It's a show their putting on b/c they know that's what the veiwer likes to see.

 

It's my not so nice at the end of my relationship ex, so yes it cracks me up. Even when I was still with her, when it was brought up between us we would laugh about it.

[sweetpea03]

It's my not so nice at the end of my relationship ex, so yes it cracks me up. Even when I was still with her, when it was brought up between us we would laugh about it.

 

She cried because it HURTS. She probably laughed too because she was uncomfortable or something.

 

Anal sex is one sided, the guy can get pleasure, but the woman will not. The vagina is meant for sex, it has natural lubrication, but the anus is not meant to have a penis in it. Anal sex is excruciatingly painful. Probably the worst pain a woman will ever feel in her life. If a guy asked me to do anal, I'd turn the question around and ask if I could stick a dildo in his ass. I highly doubt he'd want it. Anal sex can stretch the sphincter muscle and that cannot be repaired. That's a risk you take when doing this. I cannot see how this would be pleasurable for either person. If you love someone, why put them through so much pain??

[Cheeks18]

She cried because it HURTS. She probably laughed too because she was uncomfortable or something.

 

Anal sex is one sided, the guy can get pleasure, but the woman will not. The vagina is meant for sex, it has natural lubrication, but the anus is not meant to have a penis in it. Anal sex is excruciatingly painful. Probably the worst pain a woman will ever feel in her life. If a guy asked me to do anal, I'd turn the question around and ask if I could stick a dildo in his ass. I highly doubt he'd want it. Anal sex can stretch the sphincter muscle and that cannot be repaired. That's a risk you take when doing this. I cannot see how this would be pleasurable for either person. If you love someone, why put them through so much pain??

 

No no, we laughed a lot after the fact and vowed never to do it again....Obviously she cried cause it hurt, what else would make you cry from anal sex??

[capilot]

...Anal sex is one sided, the guy can get pleasure, but the woman will not...

 

Depends on the woman; I've had a couple of girlfriends who absolutely love it. I've only ever done it with women who brought up the subject and asked me to.

[BellaStranger]

Personally not for me! Can't imagine ever feeling comfortable enough to try it! I also believe very little of what I see on porn- fake boobs, fake hair, fake 'pleasure'! Although, I'm sure some women do enjoy it, or they wouldn't do it, but it's not for me!

[lvsthebeach]

Not for me either. A finger is okay but no penis!! Hurts!! My stbx wanted me to do it all the time but I always protested. Not fun for me!

[sweetpea03]

Depends on the woman; I've had a couple of girlfriends who absolutely love it. I've only ever done it with women who brought up the subject and asked me to.

 

I think they say they "enjoy" it because they know it pleases their man, but you cannot get away from the pain. Even when going slow and trying to use a LOT of lubrication, it's just not meant to have a penis inside. Imagine being on the receiving end, would you like it?

[capilot]

I think they say they "enjoy" it because they know it pleases their man

 

The thing is, I'm not particularly into it, and they asked me to do it. All you know for sure is that you don't like it. Some people like different things.