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Cheeks18

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  1. Not gonna lie that is a little rough, its cool though hopefully the next 50 times you check out the site it will be someone else!!!! I have the same problem to My ex works out at the same place as me and I have yet to see her but im dreading it, just have to be sure to act really happy like I just won the lotto!! HAha. I think she has been avoiding goin to the gym, we have the same hours for work and we used to hit the gym together, eh whatever no big deal life goes on!!!
  2. Its ok bro just ignore it you can do it stay strong, just work out harder with the anger you have built up thats what I have been doing!!!!
  3. imjgh, You are a great person and all your post make me feel stronger and happier, thank you so much for all your concerns and really understanding the importance of life and expressing it to me and everyone else. I am so happy for you and it seems like she might be the one!!! Good luck!! Just wanted to say thanks.
  4. Day 3, Having a really rough time of it, I have been going out every night this week with friends and staying up way to late but im not that tired??? I think its just because I am so upset with knowing that she seemed so much more ok with this when we hugged good bye. Not saying that all women are like this but how do you hold your feelings in so well at certain points?? Like I am 100% sure she ran upstairs after I left and balled her eyes out, god forbid she did it when we were hugging like I did. Anyways I have a fun planned weekend and I hope it takes my mind off of it, but prolly not. JellyBaby, its ok but it was a bad idea, I told myself I wouldnt answer anything like hello or a phone call with no voicemail left for me. I feel if its important like either them wanting to fix stuff and give the relationship another shot, then they will make it well aware to you by saying it in the message and or text or phone call. Even though it prolly would be a bad idea to answer anything anyways thats point I am at right now?? I hope you can stay strong!!! The one thing that helps me is I think about the way everything happened and how trying to fix it right now is damn near impossible way to much to solve way to many emotions with eachother, to ever have it work in my mind we have to make contact or run into eachother in a year or 2 and start with a clean slate no grudges no anger and it will have a way better chance at working in the long run. But like I said prolly best if you randomly run into eachother and start over clean some point way down the road!!! Good luck everyone I know I am gonna need it!!!
  5. Starting over agian Day 1, things were going great and everything bad happened last night and today I guess, we were talking hanging out and seemed like something was happening. Anyways I got a email this mornin and she wanted me to come over and talk, I asked about what, she said I am sorry but I have been leading you on and I am sorry for breaking the no contact last time but I think its best for us right now so we can both move on because she know for a fact she doesnt want to be with me right now becuase she believes we will go down the same road as last time, and doesnt believe that I have changed in any way shape or form. She said she would call if she ever wanted to try and fix things and get back together but that would be the only reason she would call, she said she wont ever lead me on ever again and she is sooooo sorrrrryyyy. Anyways im relieved finally an answer no grey area she dont want me, I can accept that and if she calls one day thats awesome but I need to move on and not dwell on that. question. WHy did she decied so suddenly???? Like out of no where?? We were doing better??? Just wondering. So im upset but I got this!!!
  6. Nevermore, Just read your other post and your pretty much in the same boat as me and its hard I know but you can do keep your head up bud!!!!! So my ex called me today twice in a row, dont hate me but I cracked ughhhhh!!! I figured to calls in a row meant either she wants me back or something really important. WRONG!!!!! She asked how to get to her softball game today??????? I always took her last year and watched her play, but thats a bunch of BS she knew how to get there and there are plenty of other people that could have helped her out. She always asked if we could start hanging out again and stuff and she invited me to her game, I said no unless your ready to be in a relationship with me otherwise I need you to leave me alone, she said sorry no I miss you so much and goodbye. Ughhhhhh!!! Feel ok though its nice to know she is thinking about me and possibly wanting me back!!! Busy night so I will be all good!!!
  7. imjgh, YOU CAN DO IT!!! HOLD TOUGH BIG GUY!! Day 5, Missing her oh so much especially after that text yesterday, I hope its a sign that she is missing me, well I am sure she is but I wish just enough to have her want to fix things and come back. Sounds horrible but new girl that has been hanging out with my friends and I is beginin to show some interest in me and I am likeing it and it makes me feel darn good, it just sucks because if it becomes of anything I know if the ex comes back anytime soon that I will hurt this girl and I dont want to do that so I plan on takeing things crazy slow!!!
  8. Ughhhhh so hard, it makes me so happy she is missing me and wanting a response but ill hold off, I just feel it will upset her if I ignore her.
  9. Still day 4 she texted me what do I do HELPPPPPP!!!!!!!!
  10. Lion Weird I am day 4 as well. I also had the weirdest dream last night, she was with all her new friends and new guy friends and I tried talking to her and she flipped out it like was telling me dont contact her or something I have no clue but its making me crazy upset today, why cant they just come back running thats all I want right now. Anyways also have a busy night tonight watching the hawks game with some friends and this new girl that I have a thing for but I dont know what to do with it????? Prolly a bad idea to do anything at all even though it will make me happy and possibly completely move on for the time being.......... NC isnt hard when I have alot of good friends and family to talk to me about it and alot of them are making me realize that my ex really didnt treat me as good as my mind would like to believe. Oh and Lion, I deleted the kissing pics of my ex and I off facebook, but I still feel that I should leave the friendly fun ones up why I dont know. I think I am going to hit up walmart and pick up a bin to put all her pictures in and notes and scrapbooks and put it in the attic either for the rest of my life or until we get back at some point in time. That was rough to type!!!
  11. Day 3. I accept the challenge. I have had a rough couple of days with this and I miss the heck out of her and I cant stop thinking that she is only thinking bad thoughts about me and our past 4 year relationship, I was wondering if anyone on here has been on the other side of the NC?? Like what are you feeling when they tell you that they dont want to talk to you for a while unless they want to get back together and fix the relationship?? Are you mad and angery and does it just push them away?? Or do they hurt and get angery for a little bit then really start thinking about how much they miss you and want you back. In other words some good news on the NC thing working to get your significant other back would be great. And how long will it take?
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