GrowingUp Posted April 17, 2010 Share Posted April 17, 2010 My boyfriend would do anything for me he does do anything for me. He has a female friend that he met a couple years ago. I guess she's nice but for whatever reason I am very jealous of her. He doesn't put her before me or anything but I just don't like her for whatever reason. I don't even know what the reason is...I just don't like her all that much. I thought they were flirting with each other when they met but they werent when they first met they were just friends they lived in the same apartment complex and so since then I guess I have some type of insecurity. He says that he thinks its unfair for me to try and control him and that I should trust him because he loves me with all his heart and he would never cheat on me and stuff. I tried to test him and ask him if he would be okay if we all hung out and he said why would he care, he wouldn't mind...but I don't want to hang out with her at all because I don't like her. Also they don't talk everyday or anything, he doesn't go see her often at all he just said that sometimes she will call to say hi or to swing by to say hi and then thats when I get all upset and angry. I want to be okay with it because I love him..he thinks I want to control him he kept saying it (I guess I am kinda controlling sometimes) I don't know how to deal with this. She has a boyfriend too and he said she is a cool person blah blah blah. I feel so weird I don't know what to do anymore. Link to comment
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