dangletsbang Posted November 20, 2009 Author Share Posted November 20, 2009 okay - another pregnant psycho worried girl question.. I know it's going to be different for every person..but i've noticed a faster heartbeat..almost palpitations..but not quite..again, i'm going to mention it to my doctor..but I was just curious if any of you have experienced this. Link to comment
dangletsbang Posted November 20, 2009 Author Share Posted November 20, 2009 Yes but now that we know the risks, why take the chance since there are other options on what to eat and of course everyone can avoid alcohol. Most pregnancy books written by doctors list the various risks if you're interested. I personally wasn't going to be satisfied with "turn out fine" if there were things I could do to increase the chances of him being better than fine (and certainly I didn't want to risk him not turning out fine just because I wasn't aware of the risks in certain foods). It sure was hard giving up soft-serve ice cream/tasti delite (the machine could be unclean and pass on listeria, which is very dangerous to the fetus, and pregnant women are far more vulnerable to listeria issues than others). I noticed this on a website, forgot to mention that i'm avoiding that as well. Link to comment
Batya33 Posted November 20, 2009 Share Posted November 20, 2009 I noticed this on a website, forgot to mention that i'm avoiding that as well. Yes - I found it easier to buy one or two books (I liked The Pregnancy Bible) and I made a list of questions for my doctor (and also called her office if I had a question). The problem with listeria (also from cold deli meats) is that it can take a long time to show up - over a month I think (but do your own reasearch/ask your doctor). I hope you're feeling well today! Link to comment
dangletsbang Posted November 20, 2009 Author Share Posted November 20, 2009 I'm getting that 'what to expect when you're expecting' book this weekend..as well as a pregnancy journal. I feel like it's too early to be buying this stuff..but oh well. Link to comment
Ashley1640 Posted November 20, 2009 Share Posted November 20, 2009 okay - another pregnant psycho worried girl question.. I know it's going to be different for every person..but i've noticed a faster heartbeat..almost palpitations..but not quite..again, i'm going to mention it to my doctor..but I was just curious if any of you have experienced this. You're fine. You're having to pump for two xD You'll begin to notice more and more that you DO have a baby in that tummy of yours. Your body isn't yours anymore =0) Welcome to being a mother! lol When I was pregnant I developed this like.. crazy breathing pattern. You know how when you get done crying REALLY hard.. how you kind of hyperventilate and take in quick little breaths to catch your breathing back up? Yeah, i did that quite a bit, and it would come out of nowhere.. I didn't have to cry! lol. That's one reason I thought I was pregnant right before I took a test earlier this week, because I started breathing like that again! And you're fine if you drank/ate sushi.. that one time! You're ok! I didn't know I was pregnant on my 21st birthday. We went to a casino to gamble and drink, and I got sooooooooooo drunk I did some really crazy/embarrassing stuff. We found out about 3 weeks later I was preggers. Doctor will tell you the baby is fine too. =) Just start taking care of yourself now. Oh one thing I wanted to tell you. No matter what you do when you are about to pop the baby out, you will be swollen due to water retention. You can help yourself a teensy tinsey bit by drinking tons of water and watching your sodium intake. (Sodium causes water retention, drinking lots of water can help and relieve your retention). So, go ahead and start this habit NOW. Don't be like me and start worrying about water and sodium intake until you're 8months preggers. Ugh. That's the one thing I would've changed about my pregnancy now: is my diet! Link to comment
Batya33 Posted November 20, 2009 Share Posted November 20, 2009 I made a big mistake by not drinking enough water in the beginning and it caused (or at least made worse!) terrible constipation (sorry if TMI) - I bought one of those BPA free water bottles that had a 240z capacity and I drank at least 11 glasses of water a day. Pretty soon I "wanted" that much water (and now post pregnancy I am lucky if I can drink three glasses/day without feeling like it's too much. Link to comment
dangletsbang Posted November 20, 2009 Author Share Posted November 20, 2009 I'm making sure to drink plenty of water..it makes me pee a lot..but I might as well get used to it. I should quit talking about the miscarriage thing..I'm just gonna worry until I hear it's heartbeat. I need to quit looking up things on the internet, lol! Link to comment
Catdancer Posted November 20, 2009 Share Posted November 20, 2009 I'm making sure to drink plenty of water..it makes me pee a lot..but I might as well get used to it. I should quit talking about the miscarriage thing..I'm just gonna worry until I hear it's heartbeat. I need to quit looking up things on the internet, lol! Something that my OB warned me about was reading too much on the internet and in books like What to Expect When you're Expecting. They can scare the crap out of you. That book scared me bad. So, I quit reading the damn thing. In fact, after my 2nd doctor appt, I put it down and never picked it up again. Just dont freak yourself out over what "could" happen. Link to comment
dangletsbang Posted November 20, 2009 Author Share Posted November 20, 2009 You're right..maybe I shouldn't even read the book? *holds my hands back* I will stop.. Link to comment
Catdancer Posted November 20, 2009 Share Posted November 20, 2009 You're right..maybe I shouldn't even read the book? *holds my hands back* I will stop.. My OB nurse went through and clipped together what I should be reading. Stuff on diet, exercise, what the father should expect, body changes, stuff liek that. She told me to stay away from the things like illnesses, possible birth defects, stuff like that. Link to comment
Ashley1640 Posted November 20, 2009 Share Posted November 20, 2009 "What to Expect While Expecting" scared you, Cat? I used it as a reference, I didn't read the entire book. If I had a question, I looked it up in the book. I mostly just read the month-to-month guides, what to expect from the dr this month, read what my baby 'looks' like and what is developing.. that sort of stuff. Link to comment
Catdancer Posted November 20, 2009 Share Posted November 20, 2009 "What to Expect While Expecting" scared you, Cat? I used it as a reference, I didn't read the entire book. If I had a question, I looked it up in the book. I mostly just read the month-to-month guides, what to expect from the dr this month, read what my baby 'looks' like and what is developing.. that sort of stuff. That book lists in detail every birth defect and ungodly thing that can happen to your baby. I was warned by several people to be careful reading it. As long as you skip all of illnesses, birth defects and diseases, then it should be fine. Link to comment
greywolf Posted November 20, 2009 Share Posted November 20, 2009 if your already taking action to keep your baby healthy, and the fact that your worried about it just means your going to be a very caring mother. This baby is lucky! Im just curious, how come you cant eat fish or cheese? or take vitamins? no fish because of the mercury, and some cheeses have bacteria cultures in them. Not sure about the vitamins. Link to comment
greywolf Posted November 20, 2009 Share Posted November 20, 2009 cavemen and women had babys, im sure the only thing they could eat was fish and animals. and leaves. And they had plenty of babys. I dont really see the big deal in fish, and cheese and stuff? And ive known people to drink wine when they are pregnant. And babys turn out fine. They also didn't have processed food back then, polluted water, etc. Link to comment
Ashley1640 Posted November 20, 2009 Share Posted November 20, 2009 That book lists in detail every birth defect and ungodly thing that can happen to your baby. I was warned by several people to be careful reading it. As long as you skip all of illnesses, birth defects and diseases, then it should be fine. Yeah... I could see that. But I would still get it, Dang. Just follow the month-to-month guide, stay out of the back of the book if you're a huge worry-wart. Link to comment
dangletsbang Posted November 20, 2009 Author Share Posted November 20, 2009 Obviously I am. God, i'm going to be my mom. Link to comment
Ashley1640 Posted November 20, 2009 Share Posted November 20, 2009 Pretty much. I turned into mine........................... Ugh Link to comment
renaissancewoman101 Posted November 20, 2009 Share Posted November 20, 2009 U guys all make me wish that I could have a baby (but now's not the right time for me). It's just scary all the foodstuff one has to avoid when pregnant. Just curious, when one is pregnant, can one eat spicy food and/or sweets? Dangletsbang, again, congrats to you. Link to comment
dangletsbang Posted November 20, 2009 Author Share Posted November 20, 2009 Thank you very much, Ren..I appreciate it. I hope we can eat spicy food because I love it... I just didn't realize this would bring so much worrying to my life..but like everyone is telling me..i'm just taking deep breaths and trying not to stress. Link to comment
Perfect Dark Posted November 20, 2009 Share Posted November 20, 2009 No more tanning for you! Link to comment
dangletsbang Posted November 20, 2009 Author Share Posted November 20, 2009 No more tanning for you! blahhh, back to see through shelby..no spray tanning either!!! I have to cancel that stuff today..thank you for reminding me. Link to comment
gsxr104 Posted November 20, 2009 Share Posted November 20, 2009 Congratulations Shelby ! Link to comment
metrogirl Posted November 20, 2009 Share Posted November 20, 2009 blahhh, back to see through shelby..no spray tanning either!!! I have to cancel that stuff today..thank you for reminding me. HAHA see through Shelby.....I love it! Link to comment
dangletsbang Posted November 20, 2009 Author Share Posted November 20, 2009 Congratulations Shelby ! thank you! Link to comment
dangletsbang Posted November 20, 2009 Author Share Posted November 20, 2009 HAHA see through Shelby.....I love it! this is not funny at all, metro. You're going to be able to see my lil guy/girl swimming around in my stomach as it gets bigger. Link to comment
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